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Some people's love is easy and they don't have to go through too many hardships, and they naturally achieve a relationship. For example, Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang fell in love and fell in love until they grew old.

But most people's love is hard-won, just like Sanmao and Hexi. After being tortured by several relationships, Sanmao was finally able to be with Hexi; maybe they are like Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin, who have gone through war and famine.

, can still fall in love; maybe like Bing Xin and Wu Wenzao, they met their beloved by chance.

Whether it is easy love or hard-won love, it doesn't matter, because it is indeed beautiful to encounter pure love in life, and it is a great blessing in life!

But not all feelings can be called love. In a relationship, if you feel worried about gains and losses, then it is probably not love, but just a seemingly absent emotional shackles. Not only will it not add to your life, but it will

It will only increase worries and make your life a mess.

01. Yi Shu, a famous Hong Kong female writer, wrote: If you don’t love enough, you will have many excuses.

Xiaoqing is my friend. A few months ago, the boy she liked finally confessed her love!

If the boy he likes takes the initiative to confess his love, doesn't that prove that they are in love with each other?

He even responded to the happiest words: "The person I like also likes me." Everyone felt gratified and congratulated, and Xiaoqing cherished this "love" even more.

Boys will take the initiative to take Xiaoqing to watch romantic movies, give Xiaoqing beautiful roses, and from time to time say sweet words to Xiaoqing to make her happy, which makes Xiaoqing feel very happy.

But Xiaoqing is never allowed to touch a boy's cell phone. He always protects it tightly. Xiaoqing can't even look at the photo album even if he wants to. He never posts news about Xiaoqing in his circle of friends.

Qing asked why, but all she got was "Two people need to trust each other to be together. Why do you want to look at my phone to see my privacy?" "Our relationship belongs to the two of us. I just hope that we can be happy.

There is no need to make it public." This situation would be uncomfortable for any girl. As a result, Xiaoqing became more and more insecure, always afraid that he would fall in love with other girls and leave her.

Every day I don't think about food or tea, I don't have energy to do anything, my nerves become tense, and I often tell me: "He doesn't love me that much anymore..." It's better not to have anything at all than to worry about gains and losses, so why make yourself uncomfortable.

Everything has its own coming and going, and what is not yours is not yours after all.

Sure enough, they eventually broke up.

It turned out that Xiaoqing accidentally saw an intimate photo of him and another girl, and the boy couldn't hide it anymore and broke up with her.

Sanmao once said: Unsatisfactory things should be discarded. There is no need to cherish them. Even if it is just one thing, there is no need to keep it.

Only in this way can you avoid falling into the abyss of pain and embrace a better life.

02. With someone who knows how to appreciate you, protect you and love you, you learn to love others, feel the tenderness of the world, and grow up happily.

Being with someone who makes you worry about gains and losses will only make you irritable and become less and less confident, which will only waste your life.

It's like: Falling in love with you, I sink to the dust.

Xiao Lin and her boyfriend have been together for two years. For two years, except for the first few months of passionate love, their relationship has been tepid since then. As she said, they are like an old couple.

At first glance, I thought it was just plain love, but it was not the case. Together, they humbled Xiao Lin to the dust.

Women's Day asked Xiaolin: "What surprise has your boyfriend prepared for you?" Xiaolin sent a picture of chocolates in a heart-shaped packaging box, so the single sisters in the group all exclaimed.

After a while, he said, "This is from my work unit. He is not that romantic. He was willing to give me something and I laughed." It chilled everyone's heart.

In fact, life still requires a sense of ritual, not to mention a young couple who have been together for two years.

The gift is not about the price, it’s about the thoughtfulness.

If you know what I want and are willing to give me a gift, even if you buy me a small cake worth 10 yuan, I will be very happy.

Because I see my place in your heart.