In order to meet the needs of the public, many talent shows are ingenious, strive for innovation, and present an audio-visual feast for the audience.

"Youth has you 2" is a brand-new plan, and the competition system is upgraded. At the same time, the careful selection and publicity of the contestants also made this program at the forefront of netizens before it was broadcast.

Out of curiosity, I also specially watched several issues and found that the concept of the program was novel and practical. I especially like a question in the program promo.

What is the most important thing for girls? No escape, no answer. Everyone's outlook on life is different, which leads to different views on the result, but more female players will give the same result, that is, confidence.

0 1. Why is the subject of this problem targeted at women?

Conventional cognition has bound girls in delicate cages since ancient times. Like a canary, life seems comfortable and happy, but in fact it forcibly suppresses the nature and characteristics of girls.

Traditional ideas set too many templates and requirements for girls, subtly brainwashing girls in various ways, making them succumb to this way of life forever, which is also called benevolence and morality, that is, the so-called good woman.

Throughout the dynasties, Qin Shihuang vigorously pursued the policy of "burning books to bury Confucianism", which led to the lack of talents, the loss of historical collections and countless sighs from future generations.

The highest way to bind and bind is to control your own mind, be willing to be loyal to the past, and achieve the unity of people's hearts without anyone knowing. I have to say, this is still a very powerful way to subdue people.

The moral kidnapping of women in history is vivid, such as the three cardinal guides and the five permanent members, the regional culture of men and so on. Women's words and deeds, every move, have been labeled as so-called moral labels.

Why else would the story of Hua Mulan joining the army be told for thousands of years? Isn't it a negative proof that under the social system at that time, the story of Mulan was so rare that there were no more famous or convincing examples to inspire future generations in the long history of our country?

02. What is the current situation of girls?

Historical changes are unpredictable and gender culture is deeply rooted. Although the status of women in today's society is increasing day by day, we never thought about how long it took us to win this achievement. Only those who have fought for women's rights know what we have gone through.

Another point that cannot be ignored is the level of education. Scientific research shows that the higher the family education level, the more independent and mature women are, the healthier their psychology will be, and their self-identity will be higher, that is, in our popular sense, they will be more confident.

The rapid change of society is a test given to us by the times. In fact, the tip of the iceberg of the results of the gender cultural debate has been exposed on the calm sea of social culture, and most of the problems need us to explore, think and solve, instead of waiting for the problems to be exposed themselves. It's useless after all.

What is the most important thing for girls? We cannot give a standard answer. Maybe if we have such a goal, we will live more openly and less confused.

03. Is the program really over?

We don't object to the importance of self-confidence, but we can also expand the core and essence of the problem to a deeper level and understand what is the most important thing in life.

Life is not easy, and survival is difficult. Poetry and distance can be called the throbbing and longing that everyone once had in his heart. The difficulties of life have not stopped, but the appearance of teenagers in the past has long disappeared in the torrent of time, leaving only tired poems in our circle of friends and secretly sighing.

Since primary school, teachers and schools have taught us to grow up first. Adult is not only a simple age standard, but also an independent and mature mental scale.

Most of us have experienced the special souvenir of adult ceremony in high school, but those of us who are well protected by our schools and families may not fully understand the meaning of adulthood at that moment. Young teenagers are full of hope and longing for a better tomorrow, full of vigor and tears.

Growth is a necessary stage for everyone, but it will take many years to understand that many people just grow up, but they are not yet adults.

From a philosophical point of view, the requirement of adults is to be themselves. Be true to your heart and live what you wanted to be when you were young. Many readers will laugh at first sight, or ridicule the author's ideas and concepts in their hearts, which is too simple and naive. At first glance, it is what people who have not been beaten by society will say.

Indeed, not only girls, but most of us say that being ourselves in a cruel world is really extravagant. Therefore, be yourself, in other words, adapt to the modern trend, and don't forget that your initiative is to be yourself.

04. Why should we emphasize again and again not to forget your initiative?

Nobel Prize in Literature laureate romain rolland once said: There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to love life after knowing the truth of life.

It is not easy to ask all people to be themselves, abandon secular prejudice and live this life according to their own wishes. But before entering every new stage of life, we all set up a small flag for ourselves and always be a hero worthy of heaven and earth, which has become our bottom line and principle over the years.

This is not only the continuation of our childhood martial arts dream, but also the only decision we can be proud and willful in this world. There are many heroes in the real world, all over all walks of life, as ordinary as each of us, but they can always stand up in times of crisis and give us enough sense of security and trust.

Just like the girls in the program laugh at themselves, others are "small fresh meat", but many players are "Sichuan pork". Even the tutor Kun confessed his experience of eating "Sichuan-style pork" and spoke of his inexpressible feelings.

05.

Everyone's youth is precious. During this time, try to do one thing well and try to be yourself. Go into a line, do a line and love a line. This is not only an easy-to-understand slogan, but also tells the true meaning of life and choice. Since you have chosen a path, don't forget and live up to your initial intentions and expectations.

Because, people who really understand life will understand that the key to doing one thing to the extreme and the best is to choose what you love. Don't forget your initiative, and always insist that only those who really do themselves will have the last laugh.

We don't advocate being ourselves in everything. Instead, we give ourselves three minutes to think about our initial intentions and what kind of choices are worthy of our attention when doing every multiple-choice question about life.

Being yourself is never an impulsive willfulness, but a thoughtful Do not forget your initiative mind. Being a man is a very happy thing. We must learn to like ourselves and accept ourselves, so as to realize the satisfaction and happiness brought by being ourselves.