Kyushu Jinbang family education believes that parents of adolescent children will not over-restrain their children. Children in this period will have their own ideas and opinions. As parents, the main children will not do anything special, so parents should not interfere too much and give their children enough space to do what they want. Also, in the process of communicating with children, don't talk to them in a commanding tone, discuss what happened with them more, talk to them through communication, fully respect them, build their self-esteem and help them grow up. When children encounter difficulties, help them solve them together, teach them ways and means, and let them find solutions in the form of encouragement. When a child makes a mistake, don't blame the child too much, don't talk too much, but teach the child how to avoid making the same mistake in the next step by doing something wrong, don't fall down twice in the same place, and let the child grow up quickly. To treat adolescent children, we should give priority to encouragement, make friends with them, and let children feel the care of their parents.
In short, as parents, we should look at adolescent children from the perspective of children. We have also experienced adolescence and rebellion. What kind of mentality were we at that time? How do our parents treat us? Now the times are different, and the education methods are different. We can't always face the past. Our parents should also keep pace with the times, face adolescent children in a scientific way, become their friends, spend a happy adolescence with their children and help them out of a wonderful life in the future! !