First of all, cleanliness is an obsessive-compulsive behavior. His main manifestations are:

1. The latch of the public toilet * * * He needs to pad the switch door with a paper towel.

2. The person you hate handed you a document, and you felt that your hand was stained after receiving it.

On the bus, you would rather stand than sit in the bus seat.

And the behavior of waiting. There is also sexual behavior. I have come into contact with people who are obsessed with cleanliness. She hopes that the other person will be blank in front of her. There are more severe cleanliness, fear and disgust of husband and wife life. I feel sick.

If these situations are serious, they will affect daily work and life. These manifestations have deep psychological reasons, not simple fear or love of cleanliness. I analyzed the life and childhood of most people with cleanliness, including family atmosphere and growing environment. There are 20% cleanliness addicts who have a very unhappy childhood. There are 20% cleanliness addicts who have no affection for the opposite sex (of course, they have little affection for the same sex). 20% is congenital, in my opinion, it is the gene itself. I asked a lot of neat people. They say that their mother or father is like this.

How can a person who is deeply neat become a normal person? It's hard. This is not a headache or a cold. It will be all right after a while. This kind of thing imprinted in the depths of the mind. It's hard to change But as I get older, I will gradually improve.

For example, I wash my hands hundreds of times a day, don't touch the door handle, don't touch other people's bodies, hate feeling that bacteria are everywhere, can't control myself, and even hate everyone. This is obsessive-compulsive disorder.

If you get this disease, you need to see a psychologist for psychological counseling. You should also read more books about it, adjust yourself, and consciously control your excessive behaviors and habits. This is a long-term arduous task, and we must rely on our strong willpower to persist in treatment. Otherwise, it will become more and more serious, and you will be distressed by yourself and rejected by others, which will bring great trouble to your work and life.

Being in the environment, the influence of relatives, and their own actions are related.