In daily life, when you meet someone for the first time, what will you say to them? Here is what I bring to you about the first meeting of the talking skills, welcome to read reference!

1. Start a conversation with a stranger by chatting about their name

Let's look at a correct example:

"Hello, first time I meet you, my name is xxx, may I ask how do you call yourself?"

"My name is x morning."

"Oh, morning's morning, because it was born in the morning?"

"Yes, when my mom gave birth to me, she saw the dawn outside the hospital window and it was so beautiful that she named me that."

"It feels quite vibrant."

"No, I'm actually a very bereaved person."

"Hahaha, mourning is really good, I don't like to put too much pressure on myself?"

The whole conversation is question-and-answer, giving it a polite, comfortable feel.

Let's say we ask "What's your name?" right out of the gate. What would other people think? Some may think the questioner is straightforward, but most people's first impression is one of bewilderment, and the second is that the questioner is rude. Therefore, before we start asking the other person's name, we should politely greet him or her by saying his or her name so that he or she is happy to inform you who he or she is.

2. It's okay to gossip

When bringing strangers closer by gossiping, don't put pressure on the other person, but rather share and self-expose the question to those present.

Let's look at an example of getting it right:

1. "Do you like kids?"

2. "My boyfriend has been working late all the time lately, and he hardly spends any time with me. When I'm unhappy, he only buys a bag to coax me. I see your boyfriend cares a lot about you, do you have any tips for getting along?"

3. "I don't want to get married or have kids at all right now, but my parents are pushing me every day. Have you guys thought about when to get married? How do you deal with parents who urge marriage?"

Each of these examples is correct in its own way: in the first, "like it or not" is an expression of a person's attitude. Conversation does not put pressure on the other person, who will naturally share more information with us; the second example is to throw the ball rolling, starting with yourself, talking about your own state first, but not lying or complaining, so that the other person is not under pressure, and at the same time, asking open-ended questions, which naturally opens up the conversation; the third example, when chatting, try to throw the topic to the people in the room, those who want to answer will talk to you one by one, and those who do not want to answer will talk to you one by one, and those who do not want to answer will talk to you one by one. The third example, try to throw the topic of conversation to the people present, those who want to answer will be one after another to talk to you, those who do not want to answer will not feel the pressure, the scene will not be cold and awkward.

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