Recently, a very popular word-sugarcane man appeared in Tik Tok.

This word is vivid and used to describe those boys who are sweet when they first fall in love, but end up scum.

At the beginning of the relationship, the sugarcane man deceived you with all kinds of sweet words and warm-hearted behaviors to capture your heart.

As soon as he appeared, he met all the conditions for happiness. He has a good reputation, good popularity and takes good care of you. He hugged you coquetry, gentleness like a gentleman, intimacy like a girlfriend, and was taken to heaven at once.

Everyone says it takes some time to observe the ambiguous period, but he is an advanced placement student. You can't find any flaw in doubt, so you plunge into his tenderness.

Unfortunately, the higher the expectation, the heavier the fall, which he gave you. ?

He's like an addict. I can't put it down once I taste it. You can't wait to show off how lucky you are to the world.

But after a long time, the sugar cane man will reveal the essence of slag and let you give up on your own initiative. He changed, became no longer perfect, then began to linger on the edge of passing, and then continued to fade. It didn't take long for you to recognize his cold eyes, which used to be hot in your heart.

Sugarcane man gives you a throb, like a party after a carnival, and the feeling of loneliness and emptiness is even more rampant. But it's not easy for him to break up. He only gives but dares not stop. He tastes like sugar cane. If you don't take the initiative to spit it out, he will continue to linger.

The sweet words he used to be good at turned out to be his tool for saying good things. He will cherish the memories in the club, but it's a pity that you can't go on, so few people will believe that he is such a person, and only think that you are out of character.

After leaving you, he will grow sweet cane again and continue his love that can't stand the test of time.

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That's what happened when I first fell in love with the sugar cane man.

He will try to trick you out, just to see you. If you can speak with your voice, you can't type. We won't talk if we can meet. He will make you feel that you are the happiest person in the world and make you degenerate step by step.

He will call you a fairy, a baby and a little ancestor, and he will ask you from time to time if you are hungry, thirsty and what you want to eat at night.

You are always the most important, even if it is a team battle, even if you don't play games, you can sell all four teammates to you.

He will also care why you don't sleep, accompany you to sleep, sing to you, dub you, and chat with you the first thing when you wake up every day.

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Being in love with a sugar cane man for a month is like this.

He began to dislike that you can eat, saying that you only know how to buy clothes. I'm busy not meeting you, shopping or watching movies with you every day.

If "making love" is the reality of men in love, then "making love" is the innocence of women in love.

After all, we have to admit that love cannot be vigorous forever, but should be integrated into the triviality of daily necessities. Love cares about each other and should be managed with care, accompanied by consideration and understanding.

As a rational listener, I didn't just listen to Jason's one-sided words and label it as "love rat".

After all, at the beginning of the relationship, he gave her the best and sweetest side, and she repeatedly bit him and squeezed him, leaving him only slag.

This is also the sorrow of sugarcane man. Their sweetness is chewed down by you bit by bit. When you use up all the sweetness, they become the love rat in your mouth.

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I have received many readers' emotional inquiries. Someone always asks, when he chased me, he was obviously a warm man. Why did he change when he chased me?

Many people have already given the answer, so they don't read it after the exam.

It's like you bought a new mobile phone and got it, but the baby couldn't get it. Put a film on it, put it in a shell, handle it gently, and wipe a little dust repeatedly.

But after using it for a while, the phone became old and the film was worn out. You will never cherish it as much as you did at the beginning. You can throw it on the sofa and table at will, and your dirty hands dare to scratch on it after dinner.

After the age of chasing dreams, it is better to be calm than vigorous. After the initial period of time, feelings will naturally develop to normal and never return to the past.

From the perspective of evolutionary psychology, women pick fruits at home and men go hunting. In primitive times, once the hunter was distracted, he was likely to return empty-handed or be eaten by his prey.

Therefore, when chasing girls, boys should always go all out to achieve their goals. After determining the relationship, they focus on the next stage of the goal, which may be a promotion and salary increase, or a new career.

In the struggle, men not only have no sex life, but also have no life. He can't hold you when he picks up a brick, and he can't hold you when he puts down a brick.

After two people get together, they not only have no fresh roses, but also need to comfort each other's fragile side and face the hardships of life together.

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So how can we distinguish sugarcane men? The first thing to do is not to be captured by him too early. Sugarcane men's wear is relaxed one day, one week, one month, and two months and three months.

The ancients said: "The power of a horse is known from a distance, but it is known from a long time." The best way to distinguish sugarcane man is to test him with time. Sure, not too long. Too long, good boys will be tested, run away. It usually takes about three months. As far as I know, few sugarcane men can insist on using three months to slag a girl.

Of course, it should be pointed out that not all sugarcane people are scum men. If girls blindly take and squeeze in the process of interacting with boys, but don't let boys feel the warmth and love they deserve, then boys will naturally become "scum" in the end.

This kind of "slag" is passive and cannot be generalized.

But in real life, many girls know that he is a sugarcane man, but they still want to fall in love with him. Probably junk food is particularly delicious, and sugarcane man is particularly attractive.

In fact, the oath you think is just a word that he can copy and paste wholesale; Your arm, in fact, I didn't know I had slept with several sisters ... You thought it was fate that made you meet your Mr. Right, but it turned out to be fake and shoddy products.

It's like a pyramid scheme in a formal coat, brainwashing you, making you forget all the precautions and just giving up your true love. After you get it, you are too lazy to continue pretending, torture you in another way, and let you fall into that relationship that should not have started.

It took love rat some time to recover, but it was a lifelong shadow to be injured by sugarcane people.

Girls keep their eyes open, cherish their lives and stay away from sugarcane men!