I think it is very important to have a pair of enlightened parents, because it can directly affect the child's life and learning, when the child encounters any difficulties in life, the parents can always help the child to find the direction, not only will not bring any negative energy to the child, but also can directly help the child to find the direction of the struggle and life, so having a pair of enlightened parents is also very good for the child. It's a very good thing to have a pair of enlightened parents for your child.

Our own parents are like this, a pair of enlightened parents, whenever they encounter any problem, their parents will always give their own solutions, but also stand on their own point of view to consider the problem, so that they feel their parents to give their own help is very big, when he chose to start his own business, his parents not only did not oppose, but to give himself a lot of support, when he suffered a series of blows to the entrepreneurial failure. When he suffered a series of business failure blow, parents always have some words of comfort in the ear, so that their sad heart also have a little comfort, the home is always regarded as their inner harbor.

Because the warmth of the family is any warmth can not be replaced and compared, many times, we encountered difficulties and blows, parents are always able to stand beside us, to help us solve the problem, for our life to guide the direction of progress, so the enlightened parents of the growth of a person and the education of a person has a great importance.

Of course, there are some unenlightened parents in our lives, and my friend Xiao Sun is one such example. When he was in college, he did very well in his studies and had his own favorite major, English, but his father was very much opposed to him learning English, believing that English has no value in the future and that learning English is a waste of time, so whenever he studied English, his father was always against it, and he would talk about it at great length. This has led to the fact that Sun's father is very annoying, and Sun's mother stood by and kept silent, not giving any advice, not even comforting words, which led to the fact that Sun and his father were very hurt after each argument, and Sun was full of complaints about his father after a long time of arguing.

After graduating from college, Xiao Sun went to Beijing in a fit of pique, very far from home, and this is a three-year period, which three years Xiao Sheng simply did not return home. When I saw the gray hair at the temples of Xiaosun's father, I felt the vicissitudes of the years, but also let me see the contradiction between the relationship between Xiaosun and his father has entered an unregulated state.

Every one of us would like to live in harmony with our own parents, but there are many realities in front of us, but we can not make a breakthrough, which is a difficult problem that many of us encounter, so in order to make the real family harmony, it is necessary for everyone to make changes.