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How to be a happy housewife?
There is an article on Niubo, "Why do housewives always look in a bad mood?" I thought I would be a full-time housewife one day after retirement. Will I always look in a bad mood? I must make some positive preparations before I may be in a bad mood. In addition, I believe that "unhappiness" is not because I am a housewife, just like "mediocrity is not the fruit of marriage". Lin wrote a book called "So you are unhappy". I thought about it before I understood the topic. This "non" is "have to" and "have to".

My ideal job is actually a housewife. Yes, in fact, I prefer to write "housewife" as "cook", which means "cooking". The first time I wrote about being a housewife as a "cook", I filled out my resume when I graduated from junior high school. I don't know why I filled in the names of my two aunts in the column of "social relations" My aunt's occupation is "cooking at home". My father read the form and knew that I did it on purpose. Because of my grandfather, my elder sister-in-law has received a good education, graduated from normal school, and can read, which is very rare in their generation, where women with little feet are the majority. It is said that my elder sister-in-law writes fine print beautifully, but I have never seen her write it. Someone in my hometown once said: Your aunt actually brought a rotten boss in my hometown. What's the use of people saying that Ding's two daughters have gone to school? Isn't it just taking the children to do housework at home?

In their view, taking children to do housework at home is not a job, and its value cannot be equal to that of so-called professionals. Now we know that this view is wrong.

I told my husband more than once that if you earn enough money to support me (my mother and me), I won't go to work and cook at home every day, yes, that's cooking. Whenever this time, he often responds to me: How much is enough? I support you!

Women are inherently insecure, and if they don't work, their sense of security will be even lower, which is probably why I have been working. 18 years old to work. I used to work in state-owned enterprises, but now I work in private enterprises. He hardly has time to take a normal off-duty leave. As I grow older, I am sure I will retire soon, and one day I will return to my family and be a full-time housewife.

Teacher Wang of our company once told me a story that impressed me deeply. One day, one of her female neighbors was a full-time wife. She sent her son back from school and complained to her: I am exhausted at home every day, and I don't think my cooking is delicious. I like to eat or not, so I cook and stir-fry this kind of food ... When Teacher Wang shared it with us, she looked puzzled: You said that as a mother and a wife, since I spent time cooking and cooking, it was just a little effort and didn't cost much!

Speaking of it, what Mr. Wang has brought us is an attitude towards life. She is a teacher herself and works in a company. She became an expert in this industry because her love for soft clothes and baking brought us a way of life. I have been to Miss Wang's warm and idyllic home and tasted the sesame paste hot drink she ground on the spot in the kitchen. Influenced by her, many colleagues in the company bought ovens and learned from her to make moon cakes and bake Qifeng cakes. oatmeal cookies, including me.

Now I pay the most attention to food on my blog, such as Wen Yi private cuisine, Junzhi baking, YY food space, sugar cookies, Shuangjia kitchen and so on. My eyes often stay on coke chicken wings, cheesecake, assorted meatballs and other practices. I am very grateful to my mother, who is very popular on the Internet. She eats breakfast every day for 365 days a year. She must love life more seriously to do this! So I will also take the time to bake a batch of Mid-Autumn moon cakes and a plate of birthday cakes, learn to make a vinegar-flavored ribs according to the APP downloaded from my mobile phone, and ask Du Niang how to steam egg custard more smoothly for breakfast, without bee holes ... Although I eat less now, I only do it sometimes, but time is slipping away when I do these housework. I am alone in the kitchen, sometimes late at night, full of joy.

Occasionally, I think that if I can write a novel, the story must start from the kitchen; If I change to a big house, the kitchen must be well decorated. As a housewife, besides the kitchen, I have to wash clothes, tidy up housework and even take care of flowers and plants ... I also want to have a fish tank. Lotus is best kept in a jar. Of course, such tanks must be placed in the yard. Alas, Lou is definitely not. Speaking of it, my housewife dream is an idyllic dream. At least there is a small yard for me to raise chickens and plant trees. There is a small vegetable field in the yard.

I go to the market, buy food, make a fire, cook and clean up the housework; Read in the shade, take a nap on the rattan chair when you are sleepy ... I have a happy dream of being a housewife!

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