Miss "Big Belly" Huang is back again.
Noodles with scallion oil, stewed lion's head, three fresh potatoes and pickled bamboo shoots ... no, no, I can't stand it.
How's it going? Order a takeaway to calm the panic.
Teacher Huang is not only a good cook in the program, but also an out-and-out "home cooking" at home.
It is said that no matter how busy you are at work, you should try to go home and cook every day.
After all, there are still four hungry mouths waiting for him at home.
Besides Dodo, there are his sister, the last brother and his wife Sun Li.
Sun Li, yes, what she calls most now is "Sun Li, Huang Lei's wife", not "Actress Sun Li".
Although I graduated from Beijing Film Academy and made my debut as an actor, I have been playing the drama "Peach Blossom Garden" in recent years.
When it comes to actress Sun Li, more people are strangers.
Also, after marriage, she seldom showed up, and concentrated on teaching her children at home, becoming the woman behind Huang Lei.
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Sun Li grew up in a well-off family and was sent to learn dance by his parents at an early age.
Sun Li is like a little princess under the care of her parents.
Huang Lei recalled in the program that when Sun Li of 18 came to Beijing for a film exam, she just sat there and everything was done with her father's help.
They also met in this exam.
That year, Huang Lei was 24 years old and a graduate student of Beijing Film.
Huang Lei, who helped in the examination room, saw Sun Li in the crowd at a glance, because "she sat there and was different".
At that time, Huang Lei made up her mind that if she passed the exam, I must chase her.
Sure enough, Sun Li was admitted.
One day two months later, Huang Lei greeted his roommates in advance and asked them to come back later today because he "had something important to do".
Huang Lei has an appointment with Sun Li.
He cut to the chase.
"Do you have a boyfriend?"
? "No."
? "I don't have a girlfriend either. If you think so, let's fall in love!" ?
Seeing that Sun Li blushed and lowered her head, she was afraid that she would disagree. Huang Lei quickly said, "If you want to agree, nod your head. If you don't agree, shake your head."
? Results Sun Li nodded like a garlic.
The relationship between the two is also smooth sailing. During the period of love, Huang Lei was considerate of Sun Li and arranged everything.
Sun Li likes to eat cold tofu, and Huang Lei keeps it in mind. This dish is indispensable for every meal.
They go out to play by bike, for fear that Sun Li will catch them. Huang Lei will put a towel on the back seat cushion.
The poster of Sun Li dormitory was also nailed by Huang Lei.
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65438-0999 Graduated from Sun Li Film Academy and became an actor.
In the same year, Huang Lei starred in the TV series April Day on Earth, playing the talented poet Xu Zhimo.
Huang Lei is also popular all over the country because of this image.
They wanted to get married after graduation in Sun Li, but later they were postponed because of "the first year of the century was not suitable for marriage" and SARS.
Finally, on March 8, 2004, the two men were officially certified by the Civil Affairs Bureau of Haidian District.
In 2006, their first child, daughter Huang Duoduo, was born.
In the year when Sun Li was pregnant, Huang Lei put down all the work at hand, concentrated on staying at home with his wife for labor, and wholeheartedly started the "yellow kitchen" in Sun Li.
A beautiful teenager who used to sing "I think I am the sea, the sea in winter, and my mood floats lightly with the wind" is willing to "wash my hands and make bride soup" for someone from now on.
After marriage, Sun Li never cooks, not because she is lazy. Huang Lei explained, "I'm afraid she'll cut her hand".
She praised him for cooking. It seems pretty good, too.
Although not interested in cooking, Sun Li's baking technology is first-class, and even Huang Lei is full of praise. The baked goods that my daughter and I made together also look good.
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Sun Li is very high, with a total of 172cm. But she is tall and has a long neck. The whole person has good manners.
This has a lot to do with practicing dance since childhood.
Sun Li, who is tall, feels very gentle and serene. ?
Someone recalled the scene when Sun Li just joined the group for filming, saying that Sun Li was very gentle and reserved. When she is not performing on the set, she is always quiet. Even when I smile, I feel like a little jasper, just like the lively and outgoing Huang Lei.
The personalities of two people are really different.
Huang Lei is a caring and talkative person, while Sun Li doesn't like to talk, but just sits there quietly.
These two people get along well.
Knowing one thing and keeping a straight face is not only reflected in their behavior, but also in their character. Just as the two complement each other and influence each other, they get along very tacitly and easily.
Huang Lei himself said that in more than 20 years with Sun Li, they almost never quarreled.
It's really "you're joking, she's laughing".
In A Woman Like My Wife, Huang Lei wrote, "In daily life, she almost never interferes with my work, and I don't like to ask her. We have developed the habit of giving each other independent space since childhood. "
With complementary personalities and knowing how to give each other space, it is no wonder that Huang Lei said that in their love life of more than 20 years, there was almost no quarrel.
After having children, Sun Li slowly faded out of the entertainment circle.
Men are outside, women are inside, and life is dull and comfortable.
I think it's because there is too much happiness and more people need to share it. In 20 17, their third baby was born.
Weibo in Sun Li is also quiet and picturesque. Besides drying the baby, she is also drying her husband and food.
Sun Li, 42, has regained her interest in dancing. Po is on Weibo. In the video, she is slim, beautiful and full of girlish feelings, which makes people envy.
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In recent years, the attention of Huang Lei's family on the Internet is very high, and Sun Li has naturally been pushed into the public eye.
Many people criticized Sun Li, saying that she was "doing nothing". An actress didn't perform well, but she became a housewife at home.
It seems that we have always been deeply hostile to the word "housewife".
In our habitual thinking, the word housewife means failure, no status and sallow face.
When did it become a crime to be a housewife?
Being a housewife doesn't mean doing nothing at home.
Like all jobs in the world, it also requires physical and mental labor.
Fukuhara Ai, a retired Japanese table tennis player, once told his coach that since he was very young, his dream was to marry a husband and wait for him to come home and cook for him every day.
Sure enough, Ai Jiang married his wife soon after he retired, and now he has two little babies.
When my husband and I filmed the Happy Trio last year, their sweet interaction was also frequently searched.
In fact, a society that truly respects women and recognizes the value created by women has the right to choose.
As a woman, no one will discuss whether she is a housewife or a corporate executive.
As long as she is creating value, she deserves to be respected.
Because of this, women are free to choose a good job they like.
For Sun Li, isn't a happy family and three lovely children the best proof of her achievements?
As soon as her daughter appeared on the show, she was even more numerous, so Huang Lei was nicknamed "the national grandfather".
Sun Li has made great contributions to teaching so many versatile, considerate, kind and responsible daughters since childhood.
Her own answer is the best proof.
When a reporter asked Sun Li if she cared about the title of "Huang Lei's wife", she replied very wisely and frankly, "We are inseparable, I have his and he has mine. His achievements are my pride. "
Yes, even if the eagle spreads its wings, it cannot do without the help of the wind. But the wind, it is never silent.
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Sun Li said that she was a person without goals. Everything goes with the flow and is not forced.
I am also lazy about acting, and I have no extravagant hopes.
But this "aimless" person has become the happiest person in the world.
I have a father's pet at home, and a married pet with a husband.
Why can Sun Li?
When I started writing to her, I had another idea.
"Are we asking too much of ourselves?"
As women in this era, we are required or required to be excellent in everything, successful in everything, capable of writing and martial arts, and pervasive.
But we really calm down and ask ourselves, what do you need?
Perhaps, because we tried to make everything smooth, we missed the real beauty; Maybe a good thing is a magnet. If you have one thing, the others will come unexpectedly.
Finally, dear you, I don't want to say "I hope you live like Sun Li", but please be happy.