Marrying a man is an adventure, and there is nothing worth considering. I can only say that some men should not get married. Many friends are busy getting married recently. Here, I sincerely wish you all the best But several female friends asked me seriously, what kind of man is worth taking the risk to marry? Hey, marrying a man is an adventure. There is nothing worth considering. I can only say that some men should not get married.

In the end, I can't get married because of factors other than love.

Decided to marry your man.

For example, you caught evidence of his cheating, and in order to show the sincerity of repentance and show that he was absolutely drunk and made an unintentional mistake, he sincerely proposed to you.

I like to think backwards. If you hadn't caught him cheating, he would still be happy between his legs, just like a drunk driver caught by the police, and he would have said, "No drinking." When the police car stopped in front of you, you couldn't help but recognize the reality: "I really only drank a little."

Alcohol and infidelity are two viruses that cannot be scientifically analyzed. They lurk in a corner on weekdays. If they are not handled properly, they will not disappear, and one day they will break out of control.

Don't marry your feelings to yourself.

An uncertain person.

Everyone's feelings may change under the influence of time and environment. For example, I don't believe that if Liang Shanbo marries Zhu Yingtai, he won't marry a second wife in a few years. For example, I am equally skeptical about Romeo and Juliet. They are all very young. At this time, if there are no accidents, everything will be fine, and all shall be well. This doesn't mean that Romeo won't be bald and Juliet won't get fat.

Skeptics like me seem to advocate never believing in love?

Wrong, I think there should be unbreakable love at least for now, so Liang Shanbo and romeo are less likely to change their hearts after marriage than others, because they really loved each other at that time. But some men are never interested in Romeo. They are only interested in themselves.

Oh, narcissistic men account for more than three quarters of all men. Some are just complacent about their clothes and work achievements, while others think that every woman is interested in him-ahem, not including me. Then the uncertainty of "expecting the next one" will arise.

Don't marry a man whose sexual desire is higher than love.

Give me some ready-made examples that I have heard recently. A person often travels on business. He has a lover in other places. His wife asked him with tears and a runny nose, and the answer was: "Who told you not to be with me?"

B-man is more serious. He had an affair when his wife was pregnant. His explanation to his wife is: "It's just a temporary sexual desire. Don't worry, I don't love her at all. "

Want to hear more reasons? Walking in the street, every man has prepared 10 stories to tell his wife at home. The simplest one is: it was really an accident.

Don't marry "mother's son"

They grew up under their mother's care, and even grew up without their mother's protection, so they were used to being forgiven by others and being responsible for their mistakes and setbacks. Marrying such a man will be tiring and annoying-well, I confess here that I used to be "mother's son".

When my wife cooked after marriage, I tasted it and said, "It's delicious, but the rice cake fried by my mother is better." On the way, I met a nasty guy and stopped to buy something in front of me. I honked my horn and he came to scold me. At this time, I will take my mantra and say to my wife who is nervous and trembling in the car: "If my mother is here, she will get off the bus and scold this man back." Then my wife said, "Why did you get married? Go home and hug your mother. " I am very wronged and said, "It's not that you don't know that my mother has passed away long ago." As soon as this sentence came out, my wife went back to her family. It was about two weeks before I invited her back.

Don't marry a man who cares too much about appearance.

The best example is Peter, my friend Beckham's fiance. He spends an hour and a half taking a bath, washing his hair, shaving and choosing shirts and ties after getting up every morning. Before going out, he said to Beckham, "Did you miss anything?"

Beckham shouted at his sister, "You know, he took me as his mirror!" " "

They are going to an important party. Beckham put on a long black dress with a sexy magic bra inside, held half of his chest high above the neckline and hung the necklace that Peter gave her in the middle of the cleavage. At this time, she turned around in front of Peter, but Peter smiled and asked her, "Is my tie crooked?"

The most terrible thing is before marriage.

The man who betrayed me

Because this picture will stay in my memory, cloudy and rainy, like arthritis; Drinking half a cup will shrink the trachea, like asthma; After eating three pounds of shrimp, I felt cold and sweaty all over, like gout. After marriage, no one answered her husband's mobile phone, and the shadow of derailment immediately appeared. This deep pain is a shadow, where there is light, there will be; It's chocolate. I can't help reaching for it. He is a 20-year-old smoker. Seeing others smoking will make your lips dry and your fingers itch. Yes, a man can have thousands of criminal records and never have an affair. It will always exist.

So unconsciously, women get into the habit of checking men's mobile phones, pockets and bills, and fall into hopeless fantasies about a strange text message.

So, look at your man before you get married.