Look at what the netizens said:
Netizen A: go to friends there to talk about things, under the high-speed rail, friends called a very beautiful girl to pick me up, driving a Maybach, to eat that place, the door parked in a row of supercars, probably ten million level, a lot of have not seen, together with the dinner are young people in their twenties and thirties, eat out, one person, a supercar to drive away, I went on! The girl's Maybach is messy inside. I realized at that moment, open Porsche small Cayenne, is really poor.
Netizen B: We have a real thing here, there is a person to go to Hong Kong shopping, buy too many things are not good to bring, directly in Shenzhen to buy a car to pull things back. And then say a few days ago online to see, is not true I do not know, said one day a company in Shanghai came to a woman, asked the company boss: your company's house is not rented from the hands of XXX? The boss said yes, why do you ask? The woman said I am XXX, today happened to pass by here, vaguely remember that I have a house here, just come up to confirm.
Netizen C: former high school class next door to the homeroom teacher, drove a car to school, I do not understand those cars, the boys in the class understand, said to be two or three million at least, every day to wear the clothes did not repeat, anyway, that was very earth, do not understand the brand, but other teachers have talked about her, clothes a minimum of one or two million, the car is the cheapest one at home! I just want to say, that time Taobao this dozens of clothes, really can not imagine a set of one or two million clothes only wear once!
So, what is the life of the rich?
Look at what the netizens say:
Welcome to leave a message to share, tell your story ~
Before answering this question, I will first speak three of my daily life to see a small story, or a small scene.
Scenario 1: A husband and wife, the husband pulling a flatbed truck with a layer of blackened coal dust, the wife sitting on the flatbed truck with a happy look on her face, and leaning her head against her husband's back from time to time. You can tell that they have sold their briquettes for the day.
Scenario 2: An elderly couple, the old lady is obviously having a stroke or something, and is slow to move. The old man is a hand to help the old lady, a hand with a parasol, every few dozen steps on the back of the back of the stool, gently help the old lady wait on the stool, and then take out a cup of water from the backpack, tugging at the old lady to drink water.
Scenario three: in front of a bungalow, a husband and wife, in front of a plate of peanuts, a plate of salt water goose (Jiangsu Zhenjiang's specialty), a bottle of white wine is very low-grade, chatting, laughing freely, drinking, drinking to the happy place, the husband also reached out to touch the wife's face.
There is no doubt that this is the life of three poor people, or the most ordinary people. Through these three scenes, what can we see? Happiness or unhappiness, happiness or unhappiness.
We might as well expand the three scenarios into three rich couples: sitting in the most luxurious cars, eating in the most luxurious hotels, and lying next to the highest-class nannies.
If it were the original couple, sitting in the limousine, would the wife be happy to lean her head against her husband from time to time? The husband will have a kind of happiness of being leaned on by his wife? Obviously, even if there is happiness, there may not be the innocence of selling briquettes.
Then look at sitting in a luxury restaurant, whether it is a family gathering or a gathering of friends, the couple at the table words will not be much. Why, there are too many other things that need to be said. And aside from socializing, etc., how many couples can speak as intelligently as poor couples, at most showing love in public.
The happiness of that old couple is even less likely to be reflected in the rich, husbands or wives, their responsibilities and obligations, have long been taken up by nannies and so on, leaving space for couples to be considerate has not.
Then, what kind of life is the rich, but also can be seen from the point of view, is not envy, envy to what extent, in the end, want to think about what kind of happy life, but also should be subject to some enlightenment.
A girlfriend of mine, her family is very rich, in all parts of the world have opened a branch. She was in her forties and had two sons and two daughters. At that time, family planning had nothing to do with her, and she thought it was better to have the face of money! Her two daughters were studying in the U.S., her eldest son was working in her company, and her youngest son was still in elementary school. There is a nanny in the house who buys food and cooks every day and is also responsible for buying flowers, which must be changed every day in the house.
She doesn't like to eat at home and always invites people to go out to eat. Whether eating hot pot or stir-fried vegetables, she only clip a little green vegetables, drink some thin rice. At first I thought she was on a diet, but she said, "It's not a diet, I just don't want to eat, I don't have an appetite." I thought maybe she had lost her appetite because she was tired of eating these things so often. Those who don't have money want to eat, but don't have food; those who have money don't want to eat, but have a lot of food. What kind of reasoning is that? It is a bit strange.
She drove a car herself, and her husband also had a car, but with a dedicated driver. Another short-haired friend who was eating next to her said, "I saw your husband in a commercial building, and he was surrounded by one bodyguard each side, armed with a gun and loaded with bullets, and when he got on the elevator, he was only with the bodyguards, not with other people in the elevator. Rich people are so careful?" My girlfriend said: "Be careful, business will always sin some people, there are jealous people, the hearts of the wicked ah!" I said: "Many people envy the rich, but it seems that the rich are not happy either!" My girlfriend said: "Rich people also envy the poor people's freedom!" It seems that the poor and the rich, have their own troubles ah!
I'm a businessman, I've seen and contacted a lot of rich bosses, but hundreds of millions of assets of the "tycoon" I have not come into contact with, the most contact with more than 80 million assets of the "tycoon". To be honest, they are not like what some people say, spending money like running water, spend, spend, spend, poor spend, bosses spend money is also outside the loose inside tight, make money hard-won spend money is also to be frugal, external honorariums, business points, employee incentives and other aspects of the more generous, mainly for the maintenance of the company and the boss's image, to show their strength, "Tycoons". The living environment and conditions are more demanding, do not want to live in general residential areas, living in sparsely populated places, or high-grade neighborhoods, home amenities are also more demanding, a small number of "tycoon" family to hire a nanny, most of the "tycoon" family did not hire a nanny, the boss's wife! Do family full-time wife and nanny, worried about the "tycoon" sticking to the woman, the branch. "Tycoon" in the home, but also to do some of the ability to do housework, and even in the kitchen. The "moguls" are generally more open and easy to reach, and this is related to the extensive exchange of people.
I'll briefly introduce one of the moguls I met in person, so you can get a sense of what it's really like to be a mogul.
Gao Moumou male 54 years old, private enterprise company president, net assets of 85 million, mainly doing business in imported aquatic products, located in luxury neighborhoods, living in the villa up and down two floors, using an area of more than 560 square meters, home facilities are fully equipped, the two luxury cars more than 800 million, the high women's "full-time" wife, the family hire a Nanny, food and we are almost the same, wear mainly to brand-name-based, leisure time the whole family is mainly to tourism vacation as the goal, sometimes with my whole family, high total foreign entertainment banquets, who should be invited, who is invited, never redundant with people, banquets standards are more upscale, showing their status and power, the company's employees are also relatively good, the wages are also high, the treatment is not mean, the high total often say to me: "I'm good to the staff, the staff also give me a hard work". High women are also more reasonable, polite to people, can not see the arrogant behavior of rich women.
The only son of Mr. Gao. Son 25 years old, two years ago when the military demobilization, in his father's company as a salesman, wages, work, treatment, pension insurance are the same as the employees, not a penny of special treatment, the parents told their son home tube food tube, other spending money all by your own salary expenses, the family does not care.
Last year, Mr. Gao said to his son: "You go to the outskirts of a town, open a wholesale store, I lend you 500,000 interest-free working capital, according to the work situation with the number of how many people you decide for yourself, all the costs are solved by your own profits from the solution, you pay me back every year to borrow no less than 50,000, you come to the company to pull goods, commodity prices, payment settlements and outside the unit of the same! "There is no point in favor.
After I was informed of this, I said to Mr. Gao, "You are a little too mean to your son".
Mr. Gao said: "He has received strict training in the army, in my company also need to receive strict training, set up a wholesale store is to create an opportunity for him to master the independent management ability, management ability, command ability, from which he knows the concept of business, feel the social experience, if not well honed, do not understand the whole business process, how to take over my class in the future! "
This is the first time I've ever seen a person who has been in a position to do that.
This epidemic to the high total son of the wholesale store blow is not small, tend to lose money on the edge.
The father encouraged him: "in this case must be calm, more ways to promote, without affecting the work on the basis of staff can be adjusted appropriately, but the wages can not be less than a penny, but also my borrowing can continue for a year".
In fact, Mr. Gao's business is also big with hard work and hard work in exchange for, in the eyes of outsiders always think that Mr. Gao always make money very easily, spend a lot of money. In fact, they are not, high total customs clearance during the day to pull goods, night for the distant customer loading shipment, day after day, year after year, all year round is basically so. Regardless of the day and night, the wind and the sun, regardless of the Amazing Hot summer, or cold winter, at the scene with the staff, crawling, eating bread, eating noodles, drinking mineral water, especially in winter, snow flying, the north wind whistling, the piercing sea breeze blowing in the face and hands of people like a knife cut like a painful and intolerable, some of the staff face, hands suffered from freezing pallor, has been to the winter on the recurrence of the high total is very heartbreaking! Employees, decided to outdoor workers, has been working in the company for more than two years of age, each from head to toe with a set of "leather", the summer is better than some, the night with not suffer so much crime, but mosquito bites, full of bags, but also intolerable, which is the basic trajectory of the high head office.
In short, the "tycoons" look at the appearance of the dashing generous, live in villas, drive a good car, wear brand-name, spend money generously, in fact, are to cover their own inner tedium and trouble, by spending money to get the balance point, in order to show their own status and the power of the company. There are rewards for giving, and they have become "tycoons" today because of their tears and sweat. I respectfully say, no matter "tycoon" or "small tycoon", you use your own hands hard labor in exchange for the reward, "Heng people" hard work.
What kind of life do rich people lead? They lead a life that we can't enjoy, a life of intoxication, a life that we all envy because our bosses lead such a life.
Our boss is not very old, 94 years, the typical rich second generation, dude, do not know the money is not easy, every day are not online. Often heard people say, you can never wake up a person pretending to sleep, and he is also so.
About the beginning of 16, our company was founded, not many people, just 7 people, but also general taxpayers. Which these 6 people, are the boss's good buddy, good brother. Just one work, you say this is not rich and capricious? At the beginning of the venture, a hundred things to be done, no little foundation, and relations, the company is confused to find the office company was established. 6 people do not matter, you fell to the good buddies to work well also line. There is no one to listen to the command, late and leave early, a common thing, the boss every time I ran into is a joke, who is who, you want to get beat up again, right. Of course, they are also the left ear into the right ear out, do not take it seriously, so the company can have a future? As expected, a few of them have been working for 3 months, nothing. All elementary school graduates, not back to all right, you can learn step by step ah, others directly retreat, said can not do, take a few months of salary for nothing, really good buddy, the boss is not bad.
After a year of fighting, the company gradually got better, there is a business, the single is also more stable, just earned a little money to take to squander empty. To the end of the settlement it, how much money earned, a hair left, the company has operated up, the beginning of the second year, looking for his father to ask for money, looking for his brother to ask for money. Muddy. The second year this year to see his face not more than 5 times, all to him a good brother to take care of.
This year he was either in the lottery store, or in the hotel to play mahjong, but also went to Macao 3 times, the same thing, change a place then come to Macao to gamble. Basically every time you go to lose. But this rich people with us is different. Waiting for the company to return money then play, addicted to gambling as life, how to break?
Rich people, may have a fraternity of heart, a year at the same time talk about three girlfriends, so is not exciting ah, we do not understand, we do not dare to ask. I've been wondering how to deal with three women at the same time, and it's a learning curve.
The age is not great, but especially love the car, but also are business cars. At the beginning of the venture, his father gave a Toyota bully, the car 08, with his father to break into the world, so especially cherish, but also hope that he gas the company gradually grow. But after not long, said the car is not strong, speed is not good, not good racing, stalking, his dad to buy a Mercedes-Benz s350, just came back to especially like, take his friends, take his girlfriend to run in Tibet, into Chengdu, shopping in Yunnan, went to a lot of places. This is the rich man's life, but he is not satisfied. Looked at someone else a s600, second-hand, how to buy, and finally set, which know that others set deep, just come back to the overhaul of a back, spent about 100,000, irrelevant pieces are brand factory. Since I bought this car is either repair or on the way to repair. I don't know where to get good.
Anyway, the rich man's world we do not understand, is there money to spend? The money has to be so capricious? This is the life of the rich people around me, just like this. I don't know what you have to do with the rich people around you.
Not to talk about heard, only to say their own personal experience, I am 29 years old, when the military, the end of last year into the Shenzhen nightclub, most of the time to do the work of the internal chauffeur, because a lot of guests drink too much, in the bar on the inside to deal with him, basically will not be used to drip chauffeured, are sent to our insiders. Like Porsche, Land Rover and so on is too much, sometimes sent to the door of the district, sometimes sent directly to the guest's home, because the drunken really can not walk, seen twice, the family belongs to the kind of particularly rich, once a small student wearing glasses, age and I want to be when the bar because of the beer, did not pay too much attention to the back of the sent to the parking lot, driving Paramera, in fact, this kind of car is also seen more than, and did not get too excited, and then started on the road. Not too excited, then the road began to chat, he drank not too much, midway with him to drink a bowl of porridge, and then has been sent to his home, his family lives in the kind of detached villa, the road in front of the door is a little narrow, but the car can be turned, the garage to go in, 8 cars, the worst is a very old 7-series BMW, and then there is a Cayenne, Tesla, Mercedes-Benz and so on, the most, may be Paramerica is one of the most expensive one it, to be honest! Distance from the bar is 2 kilometers away, gave me WeChat transferred 1200, and added friends, the family should be doing aquatic products, I guess it is either in a monopoly position, or the industry is the top of the kind of, and then chat a few times, and then not much back. He deleted. The second time there is a school in Shenzhen, or a student, in the bar drinking drinks is the general Baume & Mercier, but cocktails to the girls bought almost 20,000, I know this basically belongs to the real big guests. I have been following, to the car park, really G63, but a mechanical handbrake of that one, has been sent to Shenzhen, a school across the neighborhood, let me help him upstairs, the house is very small, but according to his own words, generally go to a city, his parents will buy a few sets of houses for him, his hometown is Hubei, his family is to do business with high-speed railways, specifically how to do it, we did not dare to ask, anyway, into the house, the home furnishings in general, but all thrown on the ground that kind of luxury goods, the house is a very good place. The first one is a shoe rack, all Nike shoes, very beautiful kind, that is, Taobao basically can not be found on those styles, a small table stacked about a dozen fine branch and the world, this is more interesting, although gave me a hundred dollars, but he did not go to bed, and then take me down, and then drove me back to the bar, his meaning is all brothers, afraid of I'm not good to take a taxi back, haha, or drink more, of course, Shenzhen bars, a table a night consumption of hundreds of thousands of are there, but I did not touch, specifically how rich can not see, this month back to his hometown of Zhengzhou, or to do this line, this bar is the best in Zhengzhou, but hopefully I can run into more tycoons, so that I can make more money [laughs] [laughs] [laughs] [laughs] [laughs]
My university When I studied landscape design, with today's Chinese society status quo, the object of our industry services are generally divided into three categories, the first category is the local government, to put it bluntly, we are the design, construction of parks around us, the second category is the real estate developers, we do the green landscape in the community is that we do, as for the third category is to help the really rich and have aesthetics and the pursuit of quality of life of the tycoons! The third category is to help the rich who are really rich and have aesthetic and quality of life pursuit to design his villa, from the garden to the interior. So, I think we should be able to practitioners of our industry daily contact with people, have a preliminary understanding.
With the previous padding now words do not say much, directly with you to share my contact with the three trench life in a half claw.
The first, let's call him drifting brother. This big brother and I am about the same age, is a big customer of my previous work company, specifically how big, so to speak, we a team of ten people to help him design a set of villa garden program, he was very satisfied, about us to go to Thailand to help him design a few gardens. At first we thought the project is a large manor type, until we arrived in Bangkok, went to the project address to know, this brother and his father in Bangkok to buy almost more than ten sets of villas, said it is to renovate to do B&B. After we were dumbfounded, drifting brother said, now Chinese people go abroad to play all like to live in the B&B, engaged in his family's hotel business in Singapore are not working, so only t to Thailand this side of the randomly buy a few villas, first try. As far as work is concerned, we've seen a lot of these rich people saving for a rainy day. Drifting brother to my fatal blow occurred in, one day with his report after work, he asked me how much money I can earn a year, I said almost 70,000 or 80,000 or so, after the drifting brother was very surprised to ask me, 70,000 or 80,000 a year, then you can not afford to buy a house tired to death ah! Where will you live later? I had to brace myself and said, in fact, okay, I get a down payment and then mortgage slowly! Then drifting brother a knife into my heart, weakly asked me, Wang Gong, mortgage is something 。。。。
The second, just call him enjoy uncle put. The first is that the first time I was in the country, I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was in the middle of a long journey, and I was in the middle of a long journey. So that year just twenty years old, I saw the original world there is a kind of Germany over the wash basin, faucet, a set down to almost 300,000 yuan 。。。。。
The third is my first boss. The boss started from scratch, do landscaping project, the company scale can be, in the local counts on the strength of the. 2014, I am responsible for a factory plant greening project, and then the factory next to a large pond, one day the boss came to check the progress, inadvertently found the pond, a few times to explore down to find that the water quality is good. So the boss to find people do not know where to buy a few hundred dollars of fish fry, put into the pond to raise, said to raise to the end of the year, looking for people to fish up to give friends. After a year, to 15 years in January, one day the boss was full of excitement to find two fishermen, to fish in the pond. Finally, probably before and after the labor and fry a *** spent two or three thousand dollars, my boss a *** fished up about less than forty pounds of fish, but also not what is worth the fish, the market at most five hundred dollars will be enough. But our boss that day like a happy child, just short of jumping into the pond himself in the winter 。。。。
The above three cases are real life stories that I have encountered. Although looking at the three trenches, there is a little bit silly cute, but the three one off no one is really stupid, the three of them are the kind of very special innocence
Because of the reason of the work environment, know a very trench very status of a lot of people. There are like a neighboring uncle as low-key, there are also love super sports watches.
But what I envy the most is that one of them is not particularly rich.
In the past, he was the second youngest member of his family.
He wasn't forced to receive an elite education like his older brother, and was groomed all the way through as the family's successor. Instead, he was free to study his favorite art.
After entering the company, his brother was naturally burdened with the responsibility of working hard from the grassroots. And he worked as a small manager in the company's functional departments, and continued his artistic creation in his spare time.
You no matter when you see him, always with a childish innocent smile.
He talks to you unguardedly and without distance, happy as can be, with sunshine all over his body and sparkling eyes.
I never envied the rich
Only every time I saw him, I felt a lot of loss
A little bit have not been hurt by the complete simplicity
It turns out that only money can really guard
I think, in fact, everyone in the heart of the heart of the eternal residence of a simple and beautiful child
The heart of the flash of the heart has always been in the, but just
I thought of this
I thought of those who are behind the cold words and bad temper and even cruel harm, in fact, perhaps they are also the same as yourself, standing in the dark looking up to the light
The world, suddenly more tolerant
Thank you
What kind of life does the rich man live? I'm not sure what kind of life a rich person leads, because I'm not a rich person myself. However, I do have a lot of rich people around me, at least the kind who don't go to work now, and their family life won't be affected too much.
For example, the director of one of my previous companies, he and his wife are currently in Huawei, his wife should be working in Huawei for more than 12 years, he himself in Huawei for more than 8 years. They now have two houses in Shenzhen, and both were bought a long time ago. Now they have a wealth of about 30 million dollars, which means they are a rich family.
But they are still driving a 20 million car, and then every day at work are still busy, conscientious, or afraid of being Huawei dismissal of the kind. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next level. I sometimes think, if I someday also have such a wealth then how will I live? I can't answer for a moment.
And my previous colleague, a futures quantitative researcher for more than a decade. When he was working in the company, his strategy earned the company tens of millions of dollars. His own wealth has also long exceeded 20 million, and he currently has two houses in Shenzhen. Since coming out on his own in 2017, he manages about $20 million, with an annualized return of about 50% per year for the last three years. So the money he earns in a year may all top the money we earn for ten years.
Even so, this colleague of mine only recently replaced a car of about 300,000 yuan, and then the previous car of more than 100,000 yuan drove for five or six years. They also live a very frugal and ordinary life. But he spends a lot of money on his children's education. His eldest daughter is now in kindergarten, and then participate in some extracurricular brain development training courses, a semester are several tens of thousands of tuition fees.
So for the rich people around me, I see that they live a very frugal and ordinary life, and you don't feel that they are rich at all.
Here is the Wenqing write homework, I am Wen brother
About the rich people problem, in fact, I don't know very well. In Xi'an this place, I only know one, he lives in the southern suburbs of which, it is said that there are a lot of rich people are there to buy the villa, all have their own courtyard, have their own garage, once he came back from abroad with some red wine. Invite me to his home to play.
I drove to them, according to his instructions, the car into the garage, did not expect to enter the wrong area, the car was also I drove bad. I then called my friend oh. Asked him if there was a rescue center nearby, my car broke down, give me a call, I called for rescue, he asked me where I was, I said in the garage a area. He was very strange and asked my garage is in area b, that row are all my parking space, how did you run a area, I went over to find you. I said you come directly from the garage. She said the two districts are not connected ah, I told him it is now connected.