The welcoming of a new life into a family is not just done by the woman throughout the process, but the father's role in it cannot be ignored. By taking on some of the responsibility, the father can also bring the family into a healthy interaction against the risks brought on by the outside world. So what can a new father do to reduce his wife's anxiety?
In a variety show "Newborn Diary" on one of the stations, Jiang Chao Madina's family of three sweetly shared this video. In the video, Madina is preparing for labor and delivery, and through the guidance of her OB/GYN, she is fully prepared to give birth to her little one in less than an hour. Ginger Wave was in there with her the entire time, and couldn't be happier to have her oldest son croak wanting to watch this birth and feeling like avoiding it. They also named the child Daniel, so netizens also found out that it was renamed with Kang Daniel, causing widespread discussion.
From the very beginning of pregnancy preparation, fathers-to-be make an effort to go through the whole process of maternity checkups and other activities. At this stage, many people will feel that they have work to attend to, or chores in their lives, and don't feel the need to accompany them, excusing themselves from letting their wives go alone. Although it is said that each person is an independent individual, but to bring his wife the feeling that the father-to-be does not care about himself, do not care about the child. The process of labor and delivery and other good sadness itself is also to understand the state of growth of the child as well as screening for potential dangers, to a better state to meet the new life. Couples can also join prenatal support groups to better understand what else they need to do.
There is a lot of boredom and anxiety in pregnant women who are looking forward to the birth of their baby due to hormones and pregnancy reactions, water retention, sleep loss and other problems. When to meet a child after the arrival of the mother first day and night to feed the child, and then to settle a series of things that may arise, for the future worry, sometimes the mother-to-be will become unusually sensitive, mood swings are also very big. At this time, the husband should do a careful awareness, some of the pain can not help their wives to share, but also can do to understand, and many small things to settle down, the wife will also feel very pleased, feel that the pay is worth it.
In the process of preparing for pregnancy, but also to do a good job in the role of the change of preparation, a husband officially become a father . This role change is not only objective, subjective also need to have a very clear sense. Whether it is the pressure of the economy, earning money to support the family, as well as the wife's compassion, care, or involved in the newborn's upbringing. Expectant fathers can first learn some of the physiological and psychological knowledge of the newborn, to see what things his wife ignored, although not completely foolproof, but at least have a clear idea, encounter problems can be solved step by step.
When the child is born, the arrival of a new life usually attracts the attention of the entire family, which will make the mother who has experienced a major event to feel a little lost, and even some mothers will happen to be such a question: "Is my husband love me to have a child with me, or is it just for the sake of having a child to be together with me? " Let us also not forget this and consider the needs of the mom before we need her to take responsibility and deal with the issues that will be faced in the family with her. There are times when we feel that this question is a bit irrational, but it is very necessary to be attentive to mom's emotions. We need to recognize her for who she is, a woman first, before she is a wife and a mom.