When I was in college, I wanted to continue my postgraduate studies, but my family thought that reading an undergraduate course was enough, and it was useless for girls to read so many books.
After graduation, I worked hard to make money, but my family always urged me to find a rich man to marry safely.
In the eyes of too many people, it seems that we are born to live on someone, so only by making extra efforts can we break the gender prejudice and lead an independent life in live high. I have to say that a woman's life is often a little more difficult. Life will never give you special treatment because you are a woman, and the outside world will put heavy shackles on you. But really smart women know that no matter what the outside world thinks, no matter how hard life is, independence is always the greatest confidence of women in this life. Zang Jianhe, the founder of Wan Chai Wharf and the dumpling queen, passed away, ending her legendary life.
As a giant in the frozen food industry, many people never thought that the huge business empire of Wan Chai Wharf was completely supported by a woman. Zang Jianhe was born in a poor family. At the age of fourteen, she had no choice but to drop out of school and started to work as a nurse in a local hospital, helping patients to wipe their bodies and change their medicines every day. During this period, she met an overseas Chinese in Thailand, and they fell in love with each other quickly, formed a family, and gave birth to two lovely daughters after marriage. I thought that I would have no worries in my future life, but I didn't expect that in the sixth year after marriage, my husband said that he wanted to go back to Thailand first, and then come back to meet the mother and daughter in a group. As a result, there was no news of this trip, and Zang Jianhe waited for three years alone with his two daughters.
Later, she decided to go across the ocean to find someone, but unexpectedly, her husband inherited the property in Thailand, married a wife and gave birth to a son. Zang Jianhe's life was suddenly lost. She was not willing to be insulted in Thailand, so she resolutely took her two daughters to Hong Kong. When she first arrived in Hong Kong, she was penniless, working three odd jobs a day and sleeping only three or four hours a day. She made a wooden cart with the 500 Hong Kong dollars she earned, and started selling dumplings on the cart.
In this way, Zang Jianhe gradually established Wan Chai Wharf, the first brand of frozen food in Hong Kong, from a street vendor, and made his own business empire. Destiny is unfair to her, but she never gave up even though she stumbled along the way. Even if there was no one to rely on, she made her own happiness.
Zang Jianhe is a legend. We may not be another one, but when a woman walks out of her own life on her own, even if she is ordinary, she will shine. And everyone can actually be their own light.
CCTV News once interviewed Gu Yafen, an ordinary cake shop employee. In order to make customers wait a little longer, she developed the skill of quickly clamping cakes, and later set a Guinness World Record by loading 20 cakes in 7 seconds.
Going to preschool, she only has a primary school education, and she knows nothing else but cakes. For many people, this kind of life may be very dull in this life. But Gu Yafen has created his own miracle in this ordinary post. She never resigned herself to her fate, and with a lone voice, she slowly opened her own cake shop.
Business was difficult at first, but through her persistence, she gradually established a reputation, business was getting better and better, and more and more shops were opened.
As she said: it may not be bad to look for a road and go straight to the dark life. The life we thought could not be successful, so why not create miracles elsewhere? In a central street in Heihe, Heilongjiang, Northeast China, there is a sister with a barbecue stall selling barbecues. Because of her generous personality and enthusiasm for others, a magical mantra of "coming, brother" made her quickly popular on the Internet and attracted more than one million fans.
Many people went to see her because they wanted to listen to her "coming brother". At the same time, their popularity was high, and their business was also on fire. However, there are many people who are popular, and many people laugh at her, saying that she is ugly, and her cooking is not on the table, and she has no skills. Why can she be popular? Sister Yaozi doesn't understand why she is on fire, but she has a peaceful attitude towards it. She always thinks that she is just an ordinary barbecue elder sister, and online celebrity is not so important to her. She just wants to set up a shop and do a good job in the barbecue shop.
Life is like this, no matter how ordinary life is, it will have its own light. You should believe that when you live your life seriously on your own, someone will find the light on you and light up your future. In one issue of "Very quiet distance", the host Li Jing interviewed Deng overtime. She asked, "What do you admire most about Sun Li?" Deng Chao thought for a while and replied, "It should be her self-reliant character." Deng Chao believes that a woman's greatest charm is self-reliance. I am deeply convinced.
Qiu Yamin, a gardener in Chengdu, likes flowers very much and always wants to have her own garden. She works and opens a shop. However, due to limited energy, the flower shop closed down after a year of persistence. But she still didn't want to give up, and she still wanted to continue to run floral art. Her husband saw her love and chose to fully support her. As a result, Qiu Yamin, who was supported by his family, began to run flower gardening full-time, putting all his time on flowers, and slowly developed a flower shop of tens of square meters into a flower garden of 2000 square meters. Later, two daughters were born, and she built a real garden for her daughters, named "Heidi and Lulu's Garden". Flowers keep growing all year round and are open to visitors free of charge. Under her careful management, this floral garden has become the "online celebrity punching place" for Chengdu flower lovers.
Relying on her self-reliant personality, she won the support of her lover, developed her hobby into a career, and found her own meaning and value in life. I think women don't have to earn a lot of money in this life, but they must have the ability to earn money; You don't have to make great achievements in a certain field, but you must have independent thoughts and things you like to do. And this is the most advanced way for a woman to live. There is a saying that a woman who can't even take care of her family, no matter how good her career is, is not successful in her life.
This is a stereotype that society has always imposed on women. But now more and more women no longer put the meaning of life on the family, but set out from themselves and are eager to find their own value. The development of the Internet has given women more opportunities to pursue their dreams with men.
Car refitters are often questioned because of women's identity and ability. Later, she gained loyal users through the Internet, because people who come to her online to change their cars don't care much about gender, but more about whether they can do their jobs well.
Andhadhun Chen Yan, a blind person, is the first female blind Piano tuner in China. She has accumulated thousands of customers by opening a Taobao shop and providing piano tuning services, and also brought out a blind piano tuning team of nearly 30 people.
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There are too many outstanding women in this world, creating miracles in ordinary life, and relying on their own efforts, they become the people they want to be step by step and become an indispensable force in society.
Just as Jack Ma, the founder of Alibaba, once said, "The world will be rich and colorful because of women, because without them, the world will be meaningless."