Generally speaking, it is girls who ask you for advice or suggestions and ask you for help. However, not all requests for help are goodwill, and further judgment is needed.
1, no good feeling or good feeling in general.
"You help me to circle a compliment for my first friend."
"The mobile phone is free, you transfer 200 to me, and I will pay you back tomorrow."
Like the little things with clear needs above, she "asks" you coldly and even gives you a feeling that she is in a hurry, which is usually not considered as a sign that girls are interested in you.
Because of such a small thing, she found you when she could have found someone else. You know, if you have been single for a long time, but suddenly someone of the opposite sex wants to talk to you, you might as well ask yourself, "Why me?"
Maybe she has always been like this before, and all her friends around her are troubled by it. She thought only you would talk to her, so she came to you. To put it bluntly, she just needs someone who can help her anytime, anywhere for free.
Such people are often called spare tires, and girls are the most grateful and grateful, and they will not have feelings.
If you don't want to destroy the relationship between two people, you can respond with misinterpretation and humor, such as "I only pay my girlfriend's phone bill, and your boyfriend won't hit me ..."
Or give appropriate help according to your actual situation. Remember not to pay silently again and again.
2. Shallow feelings
"My computer is broken. Can you install the system? "
"Help me see which of these two skirts looks good."
The same is asking for help, but the difficulty of asking for help has increased, and it is no longer a trivial matter of "having hands". It may be easy for you to install the system, but it is not easy for everyone.
Or ask your opinion to help her judge. All these show that she cares about your feelings, at least she trusts your ability/character/aesthetics and so on.
Generally speaking, if you can feel her attention and admiration for you during the chat, it is enough to show that she has the most basic affection for you.
It should be noted that if it is once or twice occasionally, or even the difficulty of helping her is gradually increasing, it can be regarded as a sign that she has a good impression on you and is testing you;
But if a girl offers you the same kind of help more than once, you may be considered as a "tool person", so you should learn to refuse appropriately.
Second, the topic of privacy.
It is a topic involving the relationship history of both parties, family members and some personal privacy. Generally speaking, the more two people know each other's privacy, the more unusual the relationship is.
1, no good feeling or good feeling in general.
"Where do you live?"
"How old are you this year?"
Some friends are very excited to see girls express "willingness to know themselves", and think that this is an interesting performance of the other party. In fact, it is not all, even a high probability.
If a girl asks you the above-mentioned "basic information", it just means that you must have known each other for a short time and lack understanding of each other. Talking about this is just a small talk, and there is no other meaning.
However, there are exceptions. For example, if you work in a foreign country, the girl asks, "Where is your home?" And so on.
Although they are also asking about the basic situation, some girls who have been in love often consider practical factors.
Unless she has a special affection for you, "being close to home" or "being in a big city" are her priorities, and only when they are satisfied can they develop further. The same is true for issues such as age.
2. Shallow feelings
"Are there many girls chasing you?"
"Do you often chat with other girls?"
When a girl asks a similar question, it shows that she is satisfied with your previous contacts and has the most basic affection for you.
I'm asking because your attraction is so high that she feels insecure, but she has a little control desire inside, and she just wants you to belong to her alone.
In this case, it is not recommended to make a positive response, because the sense of demand for positive response is too heavy and it is easy to bring too much pressure to the other party.
When she feels too stressed, she will want to avoid you. You can transfer this part of the pressure back by throwing it back.
For example, if a girl asks "Do you often chat with girls", you can reply "So are you jealous?" Throw the question back to the girl.
After that, no matter how she answers, we can take the initiative to chat.
Just like this example, if a girl answers "jealous", you can say "Tell me now, I won't chat with other girls in the future";
If a girl says "not jealous", you say "you are not jealous of our relationship?" I won't be with you anymore. "After that, the direction of your chat is completely under your control.