Discuss the matter and resolve conflicts. Love is a matter between two people. If the other person no longer wants to be with you, it means that there is a conflict between you. Therefore, to restore love, what you should do is not to pursue and beg hard, but to analyze calmly. Find out the conflicts between the two parties and do your best to resolve them. How to resolve these contradictions? Communication is the bridge of communication. No one can know what the other person is thinking without the other party saying anything. If two people do their own thing and have no intersection, the two parties will inevitably not be able to understand each other. Over time, they will feel that their words are not congenial, and they will even doubt each other and accumulate conflicts. The common saying of treating each other as guests is also based on mutual respect. on the basis of mutual understanding. Techniques appear frequently in his life circle, neither far nor near, maintaining an ambiguous state. For example, you frequently post to Moments, cooking a table of delicious food with no one to eat with you; or taking beautiful photos while traveling with friends; or vaguely expressing that you have met a new male friend, etc. , some express that they are living a better and better life, and frequently let him notice your presence in the circle of friends. Tips: Correct your mentality and take a long-term view to catch the big fish. Many girls who have just broken up cannot adapt to the single life again. They suddenly lose the man who has been accompanying them all of a sudden, and it is easy to be immersed in the pain of lovelorn and unable to extricate themselves. If you feel very painful in your heart, but you don’t know how to redeem your love, then don’t be immersed in your emotions all the time, correct your mentality, and be mentally prepared to redeem him later. At the same time, you can't be too hasty. You have just broken up and it is normal for him to be a little cold towards you. Don't be too anxious and worried. Don't believe in the so-called experience that is very certain that it will succeed. Because all experiences contain very subjective elements, and since they are subjective, they will vary from person to person. Therefore, no method is omnipotent and infallible. When this rhetoric is very confident that it will succeed, it just shows that it is not reliable. The principle of adapting measures to local conditions also applies to saving love. There is no good seed that can definitely bloom and bear fruit. Whether it can produce good fruit also depends on the external environment and weather factors, etc. The same is true for saving love. The method is dead. Only if it is used well can it have good results. So don’t believe those who boast about the method that will definitely succeed. How to talk about cheating on your wife with a third party 2 How to get out of the pain of cheating on your wife 1. Accept your injured state. After encountering such a blow and injury, although you have forgiven your wife intellectually, Emotionally unforgivable. After encountering such a huge blow and injury in life, it is normal to feel sad, sad, painful, angry, grumpy, powerless, and unable to handle work and interpersonal relationships well. It is difficult to get out of such painful emotions immediately. First allow yourself to be in a bad and low mood for a certain period of time, and your wife also needs time to resolve her guilt and pain. Therefore, give yourself and your wife a little more time to help both parties get over this matter. If you allow yourself to have such hurt emotions, you can find a trusted friend to talk to and release them, or you can seek guidance from a psychological counselor to help you deal with the hurt emotions. 2. Let go of the victim mentality and reflect on why your wife cheated. It is normal for you to feel uncomfortable when your wife cheats. Such an incident is both a blow and a turning point for the marriage. You might as well let go of condemnation, complaints, and dissatisfaction, let go of the victim mentality, and become a person who takes the initiative to control the fate of your marriage. In a marriage, when one party cheats, it is often because there are some problems in the marriage. Why would a wife cheat? Living apart in two places is a great test for most couples. First, due to the long distance, one is not emotionally satisfied and it is difficult to get feedback, support, comfort and care from the partner in a timely manner. It is easy for couples to have misunderstandings and suspicions due to lack of meeting opportunities and lack of communication; secondly, it is difficult to maintain a certain frequency of sexual life and to satisfy sexual needs. In this case, the wife is emotionally empty and unsatisfied for a long time. She is dissatisfied with the marriage, and the relationship between husband and wife gradually fades away, so she has to look for sustenance outside. Extramarital affairs often warn us that something is missing in our marriage and what adjustments and changes need to be made. 3. Communicate with his wife sincerely and actively deal with problems in the marriage. When he calms down, Mr. In response to the setbacks in the marriage, what efforts should each other make to continue on? After communication, a consensus can be reached. For example, the wife can express her inner thoughts more and let Mr. Xia know his needs. For example, Mr. Xia can increase the number of times he goes home, such as going home once a month to once a week; if he really does not have time to go home, he should also conduct more emotional communication through phone calls, text messages, videos, etc. Interact and strengthen the emotional connection between husband and wife... If you find it difficult to coordinate during communication and interaction, you can also seek guidance and help from marriage experts to improve the ability of both spouses to manage their marriage and control their emotions. Really repair your marriage. 4. Self-regulation: It is not easy to completely get rid of the psychological shadow after being hurt in marriage, but it does not mean that it cannot be done.

Mr. Xia can focus on himself, such as devoting himself to work and regaining his sense of value through work achievements; he can also have more contact with friends and relatives, travel and exercise; he can cultivate his own interests and hobbies, Let your mood slowly return to the world of sunshine.