Among all kinds of people, there are only two kinds of destiny. One is a villain who is selfish and only cares about his own gains and losses, benefiting himself at the expense of others. The other is a gentleman who constantly strengthens his own abilities and values ??himself more than others.

Destiny is determined, but the choice is in your own hands.

The Buddha said: Appearances arise from the heart, and the heart turns at will.

Your understanding of the world is the manifestation of your soul, and all your actions are also the manifestation of your soul, and all of this determines what kind of destiny you will have.

Therefore, changing one's destiny is ultimately a change of heart. If the heart is good, the life will be good.

01 People who love to laugh will have good luck. If they smile, they will be less lucky in ten years. If they smile, good luck will come.

Laughter, this behavior, is first of all an optimistic attitude, and then it is a strong heart that is not afraid of wind and rain and moves forward courageously.

Some people always say that those who love to laugh are lucky.

In fact, the truth is very simple. The world is like a mirror. If you face it with a smile, it will naturally smile back to you.

I once read a very touching article "Bringing a Smile Home".

When mother and son were worried about the tuition fees for college, their father came home and said with a smile, "I'm laid off." His father always hit a wall when he went out to find a job, but when he came home every day, he smiled and said, "It's almost done."

Even though I was injured, I came home still smiling and saying, "It's okay, it's okay."

In the end, no one in the family gave up easily and relied on a tricycle to save up the tuition.

Nothing in life is easy, but you can’t lose your smile even if you lose anything, and you can’t give up happiness even if you let go of anything.

No one’s life is the same. We cannot choose the ups and downs we face in life, but we can move forward with an optimistic attitude.

People who are not demanding of others, let alone embarrass themselves, and can spend their lives indifferently, with peace of mind, happiness and tranquility, will naturally be able to make the most of difficult days.

Let yourself smile more every day, and everything will move in the right direction.

02 Only prudent people will laugh in the end. Being cautious in words and deeds is the root of happiness.

Disasters come from the mouth, words and deeds can be big or small, light or serious, but if you want to avoid the disasters of words and deeds, you must always be vigilant and not indulge yourself when doing things.

Our words and deeds are a mirror of our hearts. What we say and do reflect our own hearts.

What a person holds in his heart is what he sees in his eyes, what he says in his mouth is what his life is like.

After the "Shandong University International Students" incident, a piece of news about "Wanda Campus Recruitment Host Making Inappropriate Remarks" became a hot search topic.

It turned out that Wanda Group held a recruitment seminar at the central campus of Shandong University. The host said at the beginning: I am honored to come to the beautiful Jinan today. The girls at Shandong University are very beautiful. I can’t help but sigh, the international students at Shandong University are so happy.

?This allegedly insulting remark immediately triggered a protest from Shandong University students, and the crowd was furious.

Although the male host apologized on the spot and afterwards, two days later, Jinan High-tech Wanda Plaza’s official WeChat account stated that the host involved had been fired.

An "unintentional remark" ruined his bright future. Some soft-hearted netizens may think that since he has apologized, can he be given a chance to make corrections?

But when people face what they do, they all wear a layer of filters. It is difficult for them to discover their own mistakes. If they don't stumble once, they will not learn from it.

Confucius said: A gentleman wants to be slow in words but quick in deeds.

?Thinking twice and being cautious before doing something is a must.

When we speak without using our brains or thinking, we often bring disaster to ourselves or others!

Words are like water, hard to take back when spoken; words are like knives, they hurt people most deeply.

Be careful, be cautious, and would rather be silent and suffer losses than speak too much and hurt others and ourselves. Only in this way can we go further and go more smoothly.

03 Only those who are not afraid of hardships can turn against the wind and survive in the trough, and be calm on the road.

Life is like a road. It is flat and open, but it is also a road with bumps and bumps.

No one can predict that they will always walk on the open road, so bumps and thorns will appear.

And a truly strong person never gives up easily or shrinks back casually, so that no matter how big the dilemma is, it will be solved one day.

There was a man who suffered two tragic accidents in his life.

The first misfortune happened when he was 46 years old.

An airplane accident caused extensive burns on his body.

After more than a dozen surgeries, his face turned into a colorful slab due to skin grafts.

His fingers were gone, his legs were atrophied and he was unable to move, leaving him slumped in a wheelchair.