The beginning and end of every marriage are cumulative, not overnight. Many couples who have broken up will recall the bits and pieces of their marriage, and they will feel with emotion: "How did it suddenly become like this?"
It seems that I don't know when it started, but we have become strangers who vowed to stay with us until we get old.
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Any emotional breakdown is not groundless, and clues can be seen from the beginning, especially for couples who have been close.
Last night, my friend Binzi called me, and the voice on the phone was drunk: "Even if you all laughed at me, I have to say that the most wrong thing I did in my life and the most regrettable thing was to divorce Xiaofan." In fact, who will laugh at him? As friends, I will only feel sorry for him. Now that both of them have reorganized their families, it is too late to regret everything.
I think the regret of giving up the previous marriage is the reason for Binzi to lead a drunken life all the year round.
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Binzi and Xiaofan have vowed to each other for life since they were in high school. This meal has been in love with looking for a marriage for many years, during which she has been on and off, and is also a pair of legends on campus. It was not until the year before last that they got a marriage certificate that this relationship was a positive result.
After marriage, their life has been very happy until last year when Xiao Fan gave birth to a lovely son. Since having a son, the focus of Xiaofan's life has mostly shifted from her husband to her son. As a novice mother, it takes a long time to adapt, but during this period, the two of them began to have frequent contradictions.
The two people bid farewell to the past and go to the movies hand in hand. Every day, they look for delicious food in different ways, and when they have nothing to do, they look for a ceremonial life. Binzi complains that Xiaofan ignores him almost every day. I will often spit out Xiaofan with me. Now the whole person is untidy, as if he has changed a person; I will also complain that Xiaofantian goes to bed too early every day and no longer chats with him. Even if you talk, as long as you open your mouth, you are a child ...
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Xiaofan and Binzi explained that children are still young, and they all need a period of adaptation, and they also assured him that after this period of time, the focus of life will definitely shift to him. However, Binzi didn't accept this reason, and even didn't want to wait for Xiao Fan. When the marriage was not satisfied and the sense of loss increased, she accidentally made an infidelity.
When the other person came to find a statement with a pregnancy test sheet, Xiao Fan's already bloodless face became extraordinarily gray. Binzi wanted to apologize, but I didn't expect Xiaofan to stare at Binzi, so she went back to her family with her son in her arms. Binzi also tried to be brave and didn't chase after him, thinking that his wife was just angry and would come back in a few days for her children. When Xiao Fan saw Bin Zi's manner, he clamored for a divorce. The two of them held each other's words, and Bin Zi was already proud. It was easy to say: Leave, who is afraid of who! In this way, a good marriage, say it's over.
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Binzi married the woman who was pregnant with his child shortly after her divorce. I heard that Xiaofan also took her daughter to marry in a foreign country after half a year, and since then, she has been different. This seems to be a perfect ending for each other, but in fact Binzi regrets it every day, and he still can't let go of their feelings for many years.
He said that he didn't love his wife at all, it was just an impulse. His current wife is just taking a fancy to his money and deliberately tying him up with her children. She thinks of giving them the best and most expensive things, but she is extremely stingy with his parents, which is not as good as one tenth of Xiao Fan's in all aspects.
There is nothing I can do about my lost feelings, and my heart is dying for my present marriage. This is Binzi's present life.