Xiaofen's "aunt" has been postponed for 2 months. Xiaofen was very scared and hurriedly found her boyfriend. Fortunately, her boyfriend was more responsible and said he would go home immediately and tell his parents to prepare for the wedding. .
The parents of both parties made an appointment to meet at the hotel. On that day, Xiaofen's parents arrived at the hotel 20 minutes early, but the boyfriend's parents were actually 10 minutes late. As soon as the boyfriend arrived, he immediately apologized and said, "I'm sorry." "Uncle and aunt, there's a traffic jam on the road, sorry!"
Although Xiaofen was unhappy, she saw that her boyfriend was sensible and kept apologizing, so she didn't say anything. After sitting down to eat and chatting for a few words, the boyfriend's mother started to talk non-stop: "Children are so careless these days. They became parents early at such a young age. But since we have them, let's give birth to them." But Xiaofen, don’t go to work, just take care of your baby at home, and then when the baby is born, take care of the baby at home. Anyway, you only have a few thousand dollars, so don’t go to work. You can save money by raising the baby at home. "More money..."
The boyfriend kept trying to interrupt his mother, but his mother was like a machine gun and couldn't stop once she started talking. During the whole meal, Xiaofen's parents' faces turned pale. Very ugly.
The next day, her boyfriend came to Xiaofen’s house and apologized to Xiaofen’s parents, promising that he would treat Xiaofen and the children well in the future.
At this time, Xiaofen’s mother spoke: “You are a good boy and very responsible, and we like you very much, but judging from the current situation, you and Xiaofen are not suitable for marriage today. I took Xiaofen to the hospital to have an abortion early in the morning. Alas, you are still too young, and this child has no fate with you."
My boyfriend was confused when he heard what Xiaofen's mother said. Why?
Why is this? Because after one meal, Xiaofen understood that even if she and her boyfriend were forced to be together, there would be no happiness.
1. As the saying goes: lower your head to marry a wife, raise your head to marry a girl. When future in-laws meet at a hotel, the man should arrive at the hotel in advance to wait for the woman's parents. This is the most basic courtesy. However, they are actually late, which shows that the man does not value the woman and her family at all. If you despise the woman so much before you get married, do you still expect this marriage to be happy in the future?
2. The future mother-in-law looks down on the future daughter-in-law from the bottom of her heart. This can be seen from the fact that she said that in front of the girl's parents. Maybe she was dissatisfied with Xiaofen having a child before marriage, but in an original family like her boyfriend, with such unreasonable parents, Xiaofen aborted the child. , it is a wise choice to withdraw in time.
Girls are always a vulnerable group, so they must know how to protect themselves, respect themselves and love themselves, so as to gain the respect of others.