1. It is a very happy thing for me to let my friends see my inner world through words.

I never seem to have anything I don't want to share, and I never think that what I wrote can't be known to others. I don't think it's privacy.

On the contrary, I think it is healthy for others to see my inner world, because I think people who really care about me and love me want to know my inner world.

I never seem to be afraid of being known by others, but I think that sharing my inner world can improve my awareness when a group of friends respond to me and help me see the other side of things.

For example, yesterday, in Ermei's writing group, I shared such a thing with myself. The reason why I shared it was because Ermei and them all thought that I was very happy and lived a carefree life, so I especially wanted to tell them that I also had my troubles:

Even when my third aunt's daughter got married, I gave her a favor of 3,111 yuan, but my third aunt disliked me for giving less. Later, due to the pressure of my family, I gave her another 51 yuan.

My human feelings are not small in isolation, but the key lies in comparison, and I am inferior to Dandan, who is the daughter of my second aunt and gave my third aunt 11,111 yuan.

so I feel uncomfortable and embarrassed.

It is estimated that my mother is the most uncomfortable and stressed, because from what my mother described to me on the phone, I feel that my second aunt is accusing my mother, and my mother is a person with a high spirit, so my mother is absolutely as uncomfortable as me.

It's estimated that Third Aunt has a lot of thoughts about me, too. Third Aunt may feel embarrassed!

So, I have always blamed myself and felt guilty about this matter, thinking that it was my own fault that I didn't ask my second aunt and Dandan for details before giving gifts.

However, when I shared this story with my writing group, many friends, especially Ke Ma, helped me see the other side of the story.

but mom told me that it wasn't my fault. I gave a lot, but what Dandan did was not appropriate, because she obviously gave more than common sense. She should talk to me and not embarrass me, instead of taking as much as she wanted. This is called bad rules and embarrassing others.

after listening to ke ma's words, I was filled with emotion, gratified, moved and felt happy!

Thank you, Ke Ma, for helping me re-understand this matter, changing my view and improving my awareness!

2. The second happy thing is that our leader took the initiative to help me turn back the overtime requirements of other departments.

When I reported my work at the weekly meeting yesterday, I mentioned: "Xiao Qu of the marketing department once again asked me to work overtime with her next week, and I agreed ..."

Then our leader told me: "Why does she always ask you to work overtime with her? You can refuse."

Sister Mei beside me also said to me, "You worked all day, aren't you tired? She can come to you to cooperate during the day! "

I said, "She said she had no time during the day, only at night."

Sister Mei said, "You won't say that you are busy and tired after a day's work. Don't you want to work overtime at night?"

I said, "But I've already promised, and now I'm telling people I can't. Isn't that a renege? Besides, I told people at that time that I especially liked working overtime with others. If you don't add it now, won't your words and deeds be inconsistent and appear particularly hypocritical? "

Then our leader immediately asked me to call Xiaoqu down and said that she would come to communicate with Xiaoqu herself.

After Xiao Qu got down, I heard our leader tell Xiao Qu, "I just received a new task. Next week, our key job is to clean up all kinds of contacts. I have arranged a new task for Sima, and I also need her to work overtime, so she can't cooperate with you to work overtime; Besides, Sima can't do one job for five or six people in your department ... Sima will only do one job for you, Director Zhou. If you have any questions, go to your Director Zhou ... I will communicate with your leaders. "Our leadership tone is very powerful.

Clever Xiao Qu immediately replied, "You have also greatly reduced my workload, thank you! "

Coincidentally, Director Zhou of Xiaoqu Department came down to our leader to sign, and our leader communicated with Director Zhou on this matter:" We are in a meeting, and Sima reflected that she was under great pressure at work, so I decided to reorganize the work flow. In the future, Sima will only talk to you ... I will talk to your big leader about this again. "

Actually, the fact that Xiao Qu asked me to work overtime privately was caused by my own ignorance of refusing, if I hadn't smiled and said to her, "I like working overtime with you best." Instead, I said to her, "I'm very tired after working all day, so I can't work overtime at night. Why don't you talk to our leader and let her arrange me?"

Well, I really didn't answer Xiao Qu like that, but it was from my heart, which may be related to my coming back to work just after my annual vacation.

I just came back from vacation with a very high enthusiasm for work, and I seem to have inexhaustible energy. I don't seem to feel tired after sitting still during the day and working all day ...

So I forgot that I can't be easily arranged by radish heads in other departments ...

But am I really not tired?

if you think about it, it seems not.

actually, it's quite tiring! I'm holding on.

and this is seen by our leader. She doesn't want me to be too tired!

this incident made me understand that it is very important to know how to refuse.

This incident also made me feel the concern of our leaders, so I feel so happy!

3. The third happy thing is that my mother and aunt took the initiative to go to Wuhan to help me decorate my house.

My mother said that she brought 8,111 yuan to use with me. At present, she has used 3,111 yuan, and the remaining 5,111 yuan is afraid that she can't buy good things, so she finally decided to give the money to ourselves to buy things.

happiness ing!

4. the fourth happy thing is that teacher song asked in the group yesterday, "I can send you dried beef if anyone wants to eat it!" "

You know, Mr. Song is from Inner Mongolia, so I like beef jerky. I especially want to try beef jerky from Inner Mongolia. It must be delicious, so I immediately said that I want to buy beef jerky.

I heard that beef in Inner Mongolia is particularly delicious, and the more you chew it, the more fragrant it becomes.

So the thought of tasting beef jerky in Inner Mongolia fills me with expectation. Isn't it a kind of happiness for me to taste delicious food? !

5. The fifth happy thing is that the head teacher of Sisi Wuhan Primary School has kept close communication with me on WeChat since the beginning of school, which has never happened before when Sisi studied in Jingzhou.

once, the head teacher sent me a message and asked me, "I just changed my child's dictation book. Will you ask the child to erase the wrong words, then rewrite them and correct them?"

I immediately replied with trepidation: "Yes, is this right? I don't know if it is right?"

As a result, the teacher said, "It's good to correct it in time. You can circle the mistakes I personally suggest, so that I can know how the child is wrong and remind her."

The teacher also sent me a smiley face, which immediately dispelled my nervousness and made me feel much more relaxed.

On another occasion, the teacher sent me a photo of Sisi's dictation in class on WeChat, urging me to let my children correct the wrong words twice and strengthen the consolidation of ancient poems on pages 71 and 72 of the text, which made me particularly grateful.

In short, the teacher in charge of Sisi pays close attention to Sisi, which makes me feel particularly happy! Thanksgiving teacher!