Don’t deny it, most older single women think that they are completely reliable, financially independent, cute, beautiful and decent. They are obviously hard-to-find high-quality wives, but why do they meet someone like this? A lot of unreliable men?

Forgive me for being cold-hearted, but all women who have entered the marriageable age but are unfortunate enough to be among the leftover women have some problems. In fact, men's thinking is also very simple. It is best to marry a relatively simple woman. A woman who is too shrewd or has many tricks is often daunting. Love comes from the heart. Don't expect that a person who is not simple and tolerant at heart can develop a gentle and honest temperament. Therefore, a woman who claims not to believe in love, or who thinks she has seen through all men, or who thinks she is extremely good, wants others to do things. The adaptable princess should face reality when she is about to enter her 30s. In order to increase the possibility of happiness, learn the law of attraction.

Don’t underestimate the role of psychological suggestion. If you eat with a picky attitude, the food in your mouth will often be difficult to swallow. If you think that men are prone to cheating, you will often meet men who go out to have sex; if you tell yourself that you will definitely meet a man with excellent character, character, and family background, then one day you will meet him.

Don’t underestimate blind dates. If someone introduces you to a blind date, at least they still treat you as a capable card. But don't go there with too much purpose. Two people must decide whether to date each other as soon as they come up. Such an unobjective attitude will inevitably lead to loss of rational judgment. Love at first sight is not only rare, but often cannot withstand the test. It is very important to interact more. Just have a relaxed attitude of getting to know one more friend, and you may often get unexpected rewards. No matter what, at least you will have someone to accompany you to have a meal.

Single life, married life

Li Gouzi

I also wasted my time. I was single until I was 30 years old. I had constant blind dates and romantic encounters, but no relationship lasted more than three months.

A friend who is older than me told me: Marriage is the most difficult thing to do, it all depends on luck. You only need to do your duty, honor your parents, work hard, treat your friends sincerely, and go on blind dates. If you have done everything well and God still does not assign you a marriage, then it is your fate and there is no need to worry about it. Just accept your fate.

After listening to this teaching, my first reaction was - if I am really the destiny of the evil star, how should I continue to improve myself? After deep thinking, I feel that even if I really want to be alone in this life, I still have to live. I can't commit suicide just because I can't find a husband. Then I can't write a final letter!

When God refuses to help me, I choose to live like a married person, but when others are taking care of my husband, I am taking care of myself. Get up early to cook eight-treasure bean porridge, and at the same time pack the soup you want to drink in the evening, such as black-bone chicken and bamboo shoot soup or pig's trotters and soybean soup; bring a lunch box at noon, and a homemade fruit box at two o'clock in the afternoon, and there will always be more than 3 kinds of fruits when you open it; after get off work An hour ago, I was trying to figure out how my stomach was feeling: Do you want to eat shredded pork with celery or yam and fungus today? Would you like to try the bacon and mushroom rolls or the sweet-scented osmanthus meat for lunch tomorrow?

The role of three meals a day is huge. When you have something to rely on for food, the disappointment after some meals and the emptiness of the nightclub will naturally dissipate. If a bowl of delicious soup can satisfy even picky men, there’s no reason why we can’t satisfy ourselves.

For women, being single and being married are just two different lifestyles, with no advantages or disadvantages. Emptiness and loneliness have nothing to do with lifestyle, but everything to do with people. There are as many lonely singles as there are lonely housewives.

Little gadgets

Lao Miao

I loved children when I was a child. When I see a child, I want to touch and hug him as if I were a grown-up. As I get older, my love for children becomes more and more overwhelming. Every evening I have to play with the children and dogs walking in the community before going home.

Last week, I, a leftover girl, took the initiative to join the company’s married women’s club. The main reason was for those white and tender gadgets. Although I climbed high and fell low in the process, and my hair was disheveled, I still gained a lot.

At least I found that children are really great partners when it comes to eating!

The seafood on the table that night made me feel happy. The cold plate was served first with plain-cut chicken. When the baby said sensibly that he wanted to eat the skin, I was a little embarrassed. The child's mother said something generously and gave it all to him. The slightly lumpy chicken skin was like QQ jelly in the baby's mouth, and the baby was so happy to eat it! When the braised pork came, I had the sensibility to offer the fat to my baby. As expected, the greasy fat made the baby's skin smooth and tender, making it particularly lovely. The child's little mouth murmuring the fat will make your heart melt, and even the dominatrix will become kind. The last dish of Xiao Long Tang Dumplings brought my cooperation with the babies to its peak. Growing up, I was looking for a way to eat only soup and no meat. And today, I got my wish! The baby looked at me expectantly and said: "Baobao, hot!" So, at the unanimous request of the little friends, I, the heroine, took a small bite of each hot soup bag one by one, and bravely The soup sucks away. While the babies were eating their beloved little dumplings with smiles on their faces, I, who had a drawer full of soup dumpling juice in my belly, was so excited that tears filled my eyes.

Finally, in the peaceful atmosphere where the guests and hosts enjoyed themselves, the children waved their little hands and bid me farewell affectionately. On the way home, I couldn't help but think that in my colorful childhood, chicken skin, soybean paste and the like were also my beloved companions, but it seemed that one day in my adolescence, when I woke up, these things were no longer cute. Why do you think this is? ?

Gourmet’s last choice

Sun Xiaoxiao

To be honest, I have hated marrying someone since I was 18 years old.

Since then, I have been actively getting to know all kinds of men. I have been in love countless times, not to mention the various meetings and activities arranged by kind-hearted people after entering the dangerous age. I met a strange man, but there was always something about it that made me dissatisfied, or maybe I was willing to make do with it, and the other person cheated on me, so I accidentally became the remaining part of the woman around me. Surrounded by various inexplicably remaining women of all ages, most of them are women who are obsessed with food but can't get along with men.

A girl who just passed her birth year asked a question: If you can only choose between food and sex, what would you choose? As a result, the older ladies around me all chose delicious food. The young girl was immediately confused and analyzed the reasons for this result from a practical perspective: roughly speaking, most men are hard to come by, and most of the delicious food can be tasted through actual actions; the sense of dependence on men is more important than the delicious food. The feeling of attachment that arises is hard to replace. In other words, when you are with a man, you are in danger of being abandoned, but when you are with good food, you are in control of everything. However, this analysis still leaves this young girl faced with the confusion of choice: Is it cost-effective to become an old woman with children and grandchildren in many years, or is it practical to practice and become a sophisticated gourmet?

In fact, having children and grandchildren around you is an inevitable choice for ordinary people in ordinary life, and becoming a gourmet seems to mean reaching the peak of your career. From a utilitarian point of view, leftover women who lack a sense of security choose gourmet food. The purpose is self-evident. Although on the surface I firmly affirmed the choices of most of my older female friends, in my heart I still secretly hoped to be an ordinary person and then become an ordinary old lady, just like other people’s trajectories. When will do something. foodie? That's definitely the last option.