The definition of lady. The meaning of ladylike temperament and style is definitely not the same as the traditional Chinese etiquette term. It is a woman with unique Chinese characteristics in appearance, conversation, behavior, thinking and behavioral habits under new historical conditions.

Charm is the aspect that truly shows a woman’s pure and sincere personality.

Ladies under the constraints of traditional Chinese ethics are not worth promoting, because they obliterate the charm and value that women should have.

The ladies we advocate today are ladies who are based on traditional virtues without losing the values ??of modern society. They are new women in the context of new civilization, new culture, and new era.

It is better to advocate being a lady than to advocate being a "savage girlfriend" or a "girlie".

This does not mean that retro is retrogressive, outdated, and restricts personality, but it makes women more individual, charming and tasteful, and restores women's true colors.

A lady must first embody elegance in temperament.

The daughters of the Red Mansion in Cao Xueqin's works are all of good nature and have extraordinary talents.

Among them, the sentimental Lin Daiyu is the most representative.

Sister Lin is not only the representative of "women", but also the image of "lady".

For Daiyu, her virtuous side expresses elegance.

If an elegant woman can be called "Daiyu", it means that she is first of all a more feminine woman.

Daiyu is artistic, melancholic, and likes reading and writing. She is outstanding in talent and appearance, superior to others, and has an extremely persistent pursuit of love; she is weak and sickly, with congenital deficiencies, and acts like a weak willow helping the wind; Daiyu is chaste and adheres to the "quality" principle.

The creed of "I come clean and I go clean".

"Dark-colored jade", "Sorrowful singing and dancing, the sky is full of flowers, who can pity the red and faded fragrance?" This man who is full of poetry, advocates reading classics, and holds a rhopa to lightly cover his pale lips.

A woman like smoke has attracted generations of people to pity her, sigh and shed tears.

Her melancholy, beauty and classics, her cold and faint love and sorrow, show the image of an original lady with Chinese characteristics.

She is weak on the outside but full of wisdom on the inside.

She lives in the Grand View Garden with profound cultural heritage, pursuing elegance and solitude. Her soul is a combination of sensitivity, intelligence, and melancholy.

Lin Daiyu is an innocent and straightforward woman who likes romance and advocates freedom.

In that era when "a woman's lack of talent was a virtue", she secretly watched "The West Chamber" and reached a level of intoxication.

She often blurts out the classic lines from "The West Chamber", which is indeed a bit of an extraordinary talent.

A lady should be an emotional woman like Daiyu.

In front of the beloved man, the heart retains the softest untouchable pain, maintains a kind and passionate heart, and has all women's desire for love.

Sometimes they are overflowing with emotion, sometimes they are shy; sometimes they are as gentle as water, sometimes they are innocent and cute; sometimes they are full of fun, exuding the purity of girls.

Of course, I will also feel sad because of loneliness, and I will also shed tears because of being moved.

You also need to know when enough is enough, when to show up, and how to express your beauty.

Although Daiyu was favored by Jia Mu, her overly delicate sensitivity reminded her to pay attention to everything and not to say more words or take more steps for fear of being laughed at.

In order to ensure that her "body is clean", to "come out of the mud without staining", and to "come and go clean again", even after she died, she still thought about leaving - "You should ask them to send me away anyway"

Hui Daiyu is made of flesh and blood, with a sensitive heart and fragile emotions. The perishability of life and the warmth and coldness of human relationships make her deep eyes full of sorrow for the world. Her emotional setbacks with Baoyu make her even more painful.

The poetry, calligraphy, music, and paintings that accompany her every day will make her melancholy and sad when spring comes and goes. When the delicate figure of "Daiyu Buries Flowers" appears in the Grand View Garden, her sentimental and complex emotions are associated with her own experiences.

Among them, worrying about aging, she is giving up a feeling, a period of time. Daiyu is an infatuated woman, which is very similar to the image of a lady, but a lady will never talk happily on a windy and snowy night.

A desperate love, because the love of a modern lady is no longer the only one, she also has the other half of her life - career. The fate of ordinary ladies is not like Daiyu's, who has devoted her whole life to her true love, but can only suffer fate;

A lifetime of tears can't restore love and pain. Daiyu is indeed a woman with a special taste. She can often make some little tempers in front of you, which will make your appetite sour and make you feel guilty.

But it is a big mistake for modern women to choose Daiyu as a model, because Daiyu is a model of a traditional lady, not a modern lady. The best choice for a lady is to choose Daiyu's elegance and maintain it.

Daiyu keeps her body as pure as jade, “pure in nature and pure in the coming.”

"A lady's conversation must be truly elegant and moving. While having an eternal smile and a magnetic voice, she must bear in mind the ten taboos when talking to others and the taboos in conversation. Ten taboos when talking to others 1. Interrupting or interrupting other people's conversations

2. Neglecting to use summary methods, making it difficult for the other party to understand your intention. 3. Distracting attention and causing others to repeat the topic again.