Love always gives people expectations. However, when we have tried the taste of love, it seems that we will be deeply disappointed.

Two people often meet unexpectedly, and their love for each other is natural, but it is not easy to protect a love.

In the public impression, it is normal for couples to break up. It is always thought that the ending of this relationship is expected only when a woman proposes to break up.

Actually, it's not. Perhaps it's more cruel for men to break up. They will not be as emotional as women, nor will they have too much entanglement with women.

Men tend to be cold and violent, and disconnection is often the main way for them to be indifferent to women.

Of course, in this regard, what women should do is not to ignore them, but to take the initiative to contact men and save their hearts.

Xi Murong wrote in "Transparent Sorrow": "Happy love is a kind of appearance, but unfortunate love has its own causes. There are two most common reasons: too early or too late."

It is true that when a man is no longer enthusiastic about you, it is the best time for you to save your love. As a woman, you should also learn these "means" to make a man change his mind. Play the nostalgic card appropriately

Women are emotional, while men are rational.

In this regard, women should not play hardball, but play emotional cards with men to awaken their love for you.

The most common ways are as follows:

(1) Returning to the place where the first love met

Our love began when we met at a certain place, maybe it was a clear sky in Wan Li, maybe it was a light breeze and drizzle, and we met a love just because we stayed for a moment.

The location of the first love can make a man feel deja vu. Women can meet with them, create a romantic atmosphere and surprise men.

after all, it is hard for a man to refuse a woman's intentions.

(2) Find out the first gift a man gave you

The first gift a man gave you is very memorable.

Because, maybe it took a man a month's salary to buy it, or maybe he went to many stores to find a gift that suits you.

When you bring a gift to a man, it will naturally remind him of your love. And men will change their minds to you because of the sunk cost.

(3) Making love scenes

As we all know, the most unforgettable memories are those wonderful times, and the most unforgettable memories in love are sweet memories.

When men lose patience with us, we need to create opportunities to make them feel a sense of long absence.

The behaviors that create this feeling of long absence can be: watching movies together, traveling together, making delicious food together ...

In short, as long as it is sweet when we are in love, we can invite men to finish it together. This will make men more reluctant to this relationship.

Lu Yao described love in Ordinary World as follows: "True love is not selfish, but altruistic."

I deeply think that as women, we should not only ask each other to care for us, but also take the initiative to retain men.

love is supercilious, not one-way demand. Full trust

Trust is a long-lasting bridge, and love without trust is hard to stay together.

Perhaps, in love, women are more prone to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. As long as men's actions are not as good as women's wishes, there will be a quarrel about "suspicion".

The most common phenomenon is this: men come home late because of entertainment, and women think that men ignore home; Because men eat with colleagues of the opposite sex, women will think that the other party has betrayed them; Because men often play mobile phones, women will also check men's phone records, chat records and wallets.

This kind of life often makes men feel uncomfortable, and it also makes them wonder: Why did the lovely woman they fell in love with become like this?

actually, everything is because of distrust, and also because women care too much.

In fact, to some extent, women need to fully trust men and understand that if you don't love too much, the extremes meet.

There is a passage in Pride and Prejudice: "It is sometimes a bad thing to bury your feelings too deeply. If a woman hides her feelings for the man she loves, she may lose the chance to get him. "

It is true that women should not hide their feelings and turn them into excessive control over men, because this will not only make men have no private space, but also consume the trust between you.

If you can, you must give men more trust, which is the best way to retain love. Dress yourself properly

Shakespeare once said, "Women fall in love with their ears, while men fall in love with their eyes if they can produce love."

In short, in love, women are more inclined to fall in love with each other because of men's love words, while men are more inclined to consider women's external conditions and choose to be with men when they are satisfied.

I have to say that this is the reality.

Because adult love is no longer as pure as campus love, the establishment of intimate relationship between men and women is a choice after weighing the pros and cons.

Therefore, when we see the facts clearly, women should have the confidence to make themselves happy, and more importantly, they should have the capital to make men change their minds.

In this regard, women's coping style is to make themselves more beautiful.

For example, a woman can change her dressing style, change her favorite hairstyle, travel, and even challenge new activities according to men's hobbies.

When you send these changes to your circle of friends, men will also shine because of your actions. Are you still worried that men will leave you when your appearance changes?

xiaoyuan's message: love takes effort. It doesn't mean that love can last as long as you are together and do nothing.

if one day, men are no longer enthusiastic about you because of the dullness of love. Then, women must not be content with the status quo, but should take the initiative to make changes.

After all, retention in love is gender-neutral. As long as we can be happy, women should show their attitude towards it.

This is the ideal state of love. Have you achieved it?

topic: how do you think women should retain men in love?