At the age of p>18, we had a little pressure to study, but on weekends and holidays, we can still go boating, eat delicious food and go to a long-awaited movie with our classmates and best friends. At this time, the day is still full and happy.
reality tells us that we should work hard and find a suitable person to live, and the word responsibility is getting heavier and heavier. Parents began to urge marriage, recalling that the girl they liked in those years was already a wife.
the reality must be faced after all. If you have leisure once in a while, you must sleep in, lie on the sofa lazily, listen to music and drink beer.
When people get old, their body functions are seriously degraded, and they just want to stay at home, so as not to cause trouble to others.
For example, if you have poor hearing, when others communicate with you, you can't hear or interrupt. Either somebody else's voice is loud, I understand that somebody else bothers me, and somebody else's voice is low. I don't know what somebody else said, and I look puzzled. So, it's good to stay at home by yourself.
Besides, poor legs and feet make it difficult to move, which is easy to cause trouble to others. As the saying goes, people get old when they are old, and they can't walk well. Where can they go? Once you go to someone else's house, seeing your trembling appearance, people are afraid that you will fall, and they will worry that they can't tell you clearly. It is better to stay away from you. To this end, it is better to think of others, even if the younger generation at home is there.
Third, when I am old, my mind can't keep up with the development of society, and I can't talk with many people: if I say three or five words, I will argue with each other and get bored with each other. It's good to watch TV or old movies at home.
when I get older, my legs and feet are inconvenient and my heart is lazy. I often feel that being alone will be more comfortable.
besides being old, a person's house has a lot to do with changes in the social form and the outside world, which determines his way of living. Obviously, most Chinese people are following the reality after the epidemic, trying not to gather in small groups as much as possible, but in their own living spaces, especially the old people will not join in the fun of the world. It is because every old man has experienced a lot, and his perception of the world is mostly in his heart. He is rich and deep like a fish swimming in the sea. He is naturally open-minded and only willing to live alone. He can be free as he pleases, and it is a realm not to hinder others' discretion. Especially today, this society is a world of young people, and it is the best choice for old people to like staying at home. There are also many elderly people who are good at finding their own things to do in their homes. Reading books and reading WeChat online is not divorced from life in society. It is a way of living, and happiness is the highest, that is, health and maintenance; It is also a rare way to maintain health, returning to the original human nature and wishing to be quiet and less disturbed, which is the quality of the elderly at home.
We live in the circle of seven aunts and eight aunts. The seventh aunt buried my poverty in front of the eighth aunt, and came to see her carry a few Jin of rotten bananas. The eighth aunt said, "Look, you brought you banana nuts, but I don't have any hair." Probably Aunt Ba forgot that I sent her a plaster specially, which was ten times more expensive than bananas. No wonder I forgot to put it on when my leg was well.
But the seventh aunt will tell you what the eighth aunt said, and the eighth aunt will ask, "When you go to see your seventh aunt, is the banana you mentioned rotten?" Who is not angry when hearing these words, can only be to maintain the relationship between relatives and turn around like a task in the new year.
Yesterday, when I went downstairs, I saw Aunt Wang, who was in her seventies, staring at her mobile phone to open the cabinet. I asked, "Aunt Wang, get the express?" The old lady said, "I bought cat food online, but my old cat only eats imported cat food." The old lady can talk, and the two sentences are clear. She bought cat food online, but her family only eats imported food, quietly showing off her wealth.
Now people don't have to go to the mall to buy daily necessities, but all the clothes and food they need for life are bought online. The scene of several women chattering and picking a pot together is a good memory.
In the past, people ate three meals a day and bought vegetables every day. It was not because people had plenty of time, nor did they wander around the food market in a leisurely manner. There is no refrigerator at home, and the food hangs its head for two days. It is not delicious when it fades, and it hurts when it is rotten. The hose is in the yard, washing clothes and mops, and seeing the neighbors looking up and looking down, you can't be cooked any more. You said that neighbors are close. Shopping together, enjoying the cool and bragging together, you will be anxious to sit alone in the house. Now I've moved twice, and all of them are strangers. The people in the high-rise building are far away, so I can only choose to stay at home, turn on the TV, turn on the mobile phone, watch TV and watch the mobile phone, and I haven't seen anything completely, but loneliness is slowly seeping into my bones.
House is actually a science, and learning it is fun.
I can travel for a month on the road and stay at home for a week, unless there is something wrong, I can make do without food, and I can rummage in the refrigerator for two days.
At night, follow the music of the square dance downstairs, turn on the TV to listen to the story, mop the floor and brush the toilet. It's really boring to open the closet, try on clothes one by one, water the flowers, and then water the flowers, and then die. Although bored, I live comfortably. Isn't it happiness?
In any case, living and being comfortable when you are old is the theme. People who don't want to see it should not be forced to do so. If you don't want to go, just sayno. Youth is the day. For parents and children, we must bow our heads and be polite. At this age, you can live for yourself for a few days, some circles can choose, and some friendships can be erased.
I'm Wen Jun, and I'm rather petty. You can have a wink and a pinch if you have different opinions.
When I get older, I am psychologically mature, and the world is open-minded. All kinds of social activities are reduced, and my social circle is smaller, which makes me more and more unwilling to go out. Therefore, we should properly adjust our mentality, take part in some activities or exercise, otherwise we will age faster.
I want to understand many things, such as time, time is limited, and I live until I learn, in order to save time and improve my ability. I don't need to say that everyone knows that you can study at home; Times are different, people are more emotional than before, and now money is paramount, so it doesn't make sense to be with relatives and friends. Work pressure, physical and mental fatigue, rest, work just want to stay at home; Otaku and otaku have no reason, that is, they like to stay at home, not be gregarious, be alone and be free; There was too much entertainment before, and some people were afraid of it. They would rather stay at home than leave home ...
Times are changing, and everyone wants more independent space. Home is a warm harbor, so it is necessary to think independently, to find the truth and point out the direction for the way forward. People's values, outlook on life and love are always different, so it is difficult for too many people to get together. Everyone doesn't have much affection for each other and doesn't want to make progress in chatting, so natural communication is much less.
When I get old, I have no energy to play except at work. When I don't go to work, I feel bored at home before I can walk around. The other is that I haven't met any friends who are congenial, and it's no fun to walk around alone. I'd rather do something small to kill time.
people are born lonely, and loneliness and being alone are the norm!
Brothers and sisters form their own families, and students go their separate ways. Seeing more injuries and betrayals, it is difficult to be completely open to people!
I've seen all the beer and skittles. It's not much fun. I'd rather listen to my inner voice!
too comfortable.