I remember a teacher in college once said to us: "When you feel confused, just do two things-exercise and read"!

This sentence is also given to you.

When you have the idea and plan to take action but don’t know where to start, then go exercise or read a book.

Between reading and exercising, there is always one that can lead you to a better state and bring you inner fullness and abundance.

Exploring ways to get along with oneself and pursuing independence and richness in personal life are things worth pursuing, no matter when.

How to do it, you can refer to the following points: 1) Get some heartbeat. Han Han said: The life I understand is to be with everything you like.

Find something in life that makes your heart beat. It may be a small potted plant that you take good care of, it may be a book that you love to read very much, it may be a painting, or it may be a lipstick.

Find it and let it be in front of you as much as possible.

Record the happy time every day, discover the positive side of everything, learn to get used to "positive thinking", and take good care of your mood.

It will bring you unexpected magical power.

2) Have some irresistible addiction. Some people say that time alone is the best time to improve yourself.

We can sort out our lives and understand the gap between the current situation and the ideal state, and then we can start taking action.

Start from your interests and needs and find what you want to do.

To learn, to practice, to explore your other possibilities, to discover new beauty.

Obsessed with learning and unable to extricate himself.

Perhaps, three months later, you have acquired a new skill, made new friends, gained new insights, and broadened your horizons.

Maybe, by studying a hobby, you will also discover new points of interest and have the desire to try more.

Before you know it, your life has been fulfilled and enriched.

3) Let’s take a casual trip with a relaxed pace, which is the rhythm we should have.

In addition to being obsessed with studying and being unable to extricate yourself, you also need to go out to experience the beauty and discover something different.

The "travel" here can be a distant place you have always wanted to visit, or it can be the city where you live; it can be going to an art gallery to see an exhibition, or it can be trying a new route home.

What are the beauties and wonders hidden in our daily lives that we have overlooked?

The "discovery" itself is very interesting.

In general, if you are positive and optimistic, keep enterprising, have a full heart, live a fulfilling life, be neither idle nor lazy, and be diligent enough in pursuit, your life will basically be very colorful, and you may even say "My life is so good that I don't want to be with anyone."

Exchange" sentiment.