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Almost last year 1 1 month.

QQ window shakes and a dialog box pops up. That's my high school classmate Yang Yang.

When I was in high school, my relationship with Yang Yang was very ordinary. To put it simply, I can hardly say a few words.

After graduation, we didn't contact each other and went our separate ways.

See "Are you there?" From Yang Yang. I was a little surprised, even a little too lazy to pay attention.

But out of basic courtesy, I replied.

In this way, we talked inexplicably. After several rounds of hints, Yang Yang began to ask me if it was inconvenient to keep it at hand. Clever, I immediately understood what he meant: borrow money!

Yang Yang said that grandpa's eightieth birthday is celebrated at home for the New Year, and his grandchildren must go back to be filial.

But some time ago, unfortunately, I got sick and had a small operation, which cost me all my money. So find me, for the sake of my old classmates, and want to borrow some money to go home.

I wanted to refuse, but because of my kindness, I transferred 1000 yuan.

After receiving the money, Yang Yang sent several expressions of thanks in succession.

Sincerely, pay me back when I get paid next month.

Soon, a month passed. I'm sure you guessed that the money was not received.

As we all know, it is uncles who borrow money these days. So I didn't ask, thinking that "the other party may give it in a few days", I didn't care.

Not long after, when I was brushing my circle of friends, I happened to see the latest developments in Yang Yang, and suddenly remembered it, so I went over and said hello.

Yang Yang also knows what I mean. Before I started talking about money, he said, "Brother, your money may be given to you later. I'm really short of money recently ... can I give it to you when I give you the year-end bonus? "

I'm just a coward, so I said "all right".

It was almost the end of the year, and I asked Yang Yang about money again.

Yang Yang said: The company is afraid that everyone will leave, and this year's year-end bonus will not be distributed until after New Year's Day.

I am timid again and can only say: ok.

After New Year's Day, I asked Yang Yang again. I thought I was poor.

You're welcome, Yang Yang said. My company went bankrupt and owed me several months' salary. Now I'm going to change jobs. Can you wait a little longer?

I am timid and can only say: understand, understand.

It wasn't long before I saw the news that Yang Yang forwarded the listing of the company. I silently clicked a compliment. Soon after, Yang Yang deleted this dynamic, and I never saw any new dynamic.

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Last week, I was playing at a friend's house, and I had to deal with a company document temporarily, so I logged into WeChat with my friend's computer.

Halfway through the process, the customer said, "I'll rearrange the information and send it to you later."

I returned my computer to my friend and played with my mobile phone by myself.

After a while, my friend shouted, "Come here, come here, someone is looking for you."

I leaned over and looked at it. I just smiled.

"I have never contacted my junior high school classmates. I just added my WeChat two days ago. It is estimated that I will borrow money from me. Ignore him. "

My friend thought I was too absolute and said, "What if someone asks you something important?" ? You'd better go back to one. At least classmates. It is not appropriate to ignore it. "

Although my experience has always been accurate, I can't help my friend say this sentence, so I replied: I am.

I said hello again. Soon after, he asked me if I could lend him some money. He said he had no money to pay the rent.

However, I am not a fool. I learned from my mistakes and learned to be smart. I just made an excuse to prevaricate

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Rui Rui said that something like this happened to her recently.

Last month, a friend addition application popped up on Rui Rui's WeChat. When I read this name, I felt a little familiar, but I didn't know who the other person was.

After chatting with friends, Rui Rui remembered that he was his junior high school classmate.

"It's hard to find you. I asked a circle before I asked you about WeChat. " This classmate said.

Rui Rui is considering how to reply to her classmates in an awkward and polite way. Before she could figure it out, the other party's link came, which was a wedding invitation.

Before Rui Rui could say congratulations, the news came again: our friend for so many years, you must come.

What?

Friends for so many years?

Didn't you just add a friend? Did I remember wrong?

Rui Rui didn't know what to say. He told the other party that his company had a project recently and couldn't come.

Of course, you can't lose your manners, and then you get a penny.

Rui Rui said that after the old classmates accepted the red envelopes and thanked them, they went back to the past and never appeared again.

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I asked my friends around me and found that similar situations are not individual, but common.

Old classmates who haven't contacted for many years suddenly come to you, either borrow money to get married and have children, or start doing WeChat business. ....

I may have been cheated by the so-called "old classmate" so many times that when I see the word "old classmate", the first thing that comes to mind is not warmth, but a word: "annoying".

To tell the truth, the relationship between the two is good enough. As early as school, the relationship should have changed from classmates to friends.

Instead of waiting for graduation for so many years before thinking about maintaining feelings, you may not care, but the other person is really embarrassed.

"Old classmates" who have no friendship after graduation are really not much different from ordinary netizens.

And the kind of old classmates who suddenly "cheat" and start talking about money make you feel bad.

Feelings are precious, please cherish them and don't waste them on people who are not worth it.

If you don't believe me, then the next time an old classmate asks you, "Are you there?" , you will know when you return a "in".

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