To put it simply,
Emotion is people's thoughts and feelings. But in ancient China, love was often regarded as a scourge. China is a country of propriety and righteousness, and traditional Confucianism is the backbone of China culture, and its influence can be said to permeate every aspect of daily life, all the time. When Confucius founded Confucianism in the pre-Qin period, it was to use the patriarchal clan system of the Zhou Dynasty to restrain the world where the ceremony collapsed and the joy was bad and people wanted to cross-flow. Obviously, people's emotions were not blindly curbed. From Confucius' comments on the Book of Songs, such as "Sorrow without injury, joy without lewdness" and "thinking without evil", it is not difficult to see his moderate attitude towards feelings, which is also implicit and restrained in China people's emotional pursuit Like the beautiful woman in the water described in Guan Yu. The unified dynasty of the Han Dynasty adopted the policy of exclusive respect for Confucianism, which made the ideal of Confucian ethics become the dogma of feudal orthodox ethics, so the restraint of etiquette on emotion began in China as a legitimate official philosophy. "Show affection and stop at ceremony" is defined as a moral standard that every member of society must abide by. Otherwise, it will be regarded as a conflict with etiquette and law, and it will be condemned or punished. Confucianism in the pre-Qin period compared "emotion" with "ritual", and the extension of emotion was quite extensive, which generally referred to all thoughts and emotions. However, in Song Ruming's distinction between "justice" and "human desire", emotion was defined as the acquired desire that conflicted with human nature, so "emotion" and "desire" were combined into one, and then were regarded as the hidden thing and rejected, and the boundary between emotion and sex became more and more.
And feeling is a feeling.
Emotional writing is to write your true feelings.
Be determined in life.
Be determined in life. Without ambition, it is difficult for people to do and things to be done.
most people in life are overwhelmed by the heavy negative pressure of life, like a boulder, and they can't breathe. Indeed, our life is too heavy and we often feel tired physically and mentally. But you have to calm down for your future and find a way out. Perhaps such a sigh will be issued: "Alas, where is my way out?" I have reached such an age, and there is still no hope. " Sighing is useless. Only by standing tall and looking for a way out can there be the greatest hope and the last word.
No matter who you are, it is inevitable to find an accurate life goal in exploring your own way out. This is responsible for yourself and being right!
In the final analysis, the main reason why people are confused in life is that they have no lofty aspirations and clear goals for it. Without a goal in life, you will only stay where you are. Without lofty aspirations, you will only become lazy and resigned, sighing blankly. Don't let the opportunity slip away like this, don't let the youth pass away like this, only rely on ambition and ideal to rush out of the whirlpool of confusion, and a brand-new page of life will be opened for you from here.
if you are determined in life, you should start with "ambition". The ancient people's interpretation of "ambition" is that "the mind refers to ambition", which means the development trend of people's thoughts. Contemporary Chinese explains the word "ambition" as follows: "the future ideal and the determination to realize this ideal." After understanding the meaning of "ambition", we have a good understanding of the meaning of "determination". The so-called determination is to set the future human physiological thinking.
In a person's life, except for his young and ignorant childhood, every other different development stage has a great relationship with his determination. In short, the stage of teenagers' study, especially the period, is the period of establishing their life ambitions; Middle-aged working stage is the period to realize life ambition; The rest stage of the elderly is a period of reviewing and examining life aspirations. From this point of view, determination is not an indispensable thing in all periods of life, which is worth pondering by young people.
A man without a goal is like a ship without a rudder, drifting forever, only reaching the disappointed and frustrated beach. Lovers are always those who have goals, and flowers and honors never come to those who have hit the wall like headless flies in their life journey.
Heaven and Hell
This article is a letter from Rockefeller, an American oil magnate, to his son, in which he warned his son: "If you regard work as a kind of happiness, life is heaven; If you regard work as an obligation, life is hell. " This is a positive outlook on life, and everyone will benefit from it.
Dear John:
There is a fable that is very meaningful and makes me feel a lot. The fable says:
In ancient Europe, when he died, there was a man who found himself in a wonderful place where he could enjoy everything. As soon as he stepped into the promised land, a waiter-looking man came over and asked him, "Sir, do you need anything?" Here you can have everything you want: all the delicious food, all the possible entertainment and all kinds of pastimes, including many young women, which you can enjoy. "
after listening to this, the man felt a little surprised, but he was very happy. He secretly rejoiced: Isn't this what I am in the world! All day long, he was tasting all the delicious food and enjoying the beauty. However, one day, he was bored with all this, so he said to the waiter, "I'm tired of all this. I need to do something." Can you find me a job? "
unexpectedly, the answer he got was shaking his head: "I'm sorry, my husband, this is the only thing we can't do for you here. There is no job for you here. "
this person is very depressed; He waved his hand angrily and said, "This is terrible! Then I'll just stay in hell! "
where do you think you are? The waiter said gently.
John, this fable with a good sense of humor seems to tell me that losing a job means losing happiness. But unfortunately, some people have to be unemployed before they can realize this. This is really unfortunate!
I can proudly say that I have never felt unemployed; This is not my luck, but that I never regard my work as a drudgery without fun, but I can find infinite happiness from it.
in my opinion, work is a privilege, which brings more things than making a living. Work is the foundation of all business, the source of all prosperity and the shaper of genius. Work makes young people work hard and do more than he does, no matter how rich they are. Work is expressed with the most humble savings and laid a solid foundation. Work is to add flavor to salt. But people must love it first, and work can give the greatest favor and get the greatest result.
It's not that terrible
The snowstorm that day was really heavy, and there seemed to be countless crazy monsters howling and fighting outside. The snow looked for the target of the attack, and the wind sobbed and searched everywhere, squeaking in from the roof through the invisible wall.
The students are all shouting cold, and the mind of reading seems to have been frozen. The stomping of a room.
Mr. Bruce, who used to be very gentle, was uncharacteristic: "Please put away your books and let's go to the playground."
the students huddled under the eaves of the classroom and refused to walk half a step towards the playground.
Mr. Bruce didn't say anything. He stood in front of the students, took off his down jacket, took off his sweater in the middle, and the snow helped him finish the other half. "Go to the playground and stand still." Mr. Bruce looked pale and said to the students slowly.
No one said a word, and the students honestly went to the playground and lined up three columns.
Mr. Bruce, who is thin, only wears a white tights, and he is even thinner when he is tightly wrapped in clothes.
the students stood in a proper manner.
five minutes later, Mr. Bruce said quietly, "dismissed."
Back in the classroom, Mr. Bruce said, "In the classroom, we all thought that we couldn't beat the snowstorm. In fact, you could stand it if you were told to stand for half an hour, and you could stand it if you were told to wear only one shirt. In the face of difficulties, many people wear magnifying glasses, but after struggling with difficulties, you will feel that the difficulties are just like this ... "
Hope is invincible
Inscription: You can do it a hundred times, but you must light the flame of hope one hundred times. Really hope is invincible.
When Bob Moore took the entrance examination of Harvard University, he failed in three of the five subjects listed in the examination, so he failed to enter this world-famous university smoothly for further study.
In the words of China examinee, he failed in the exam. In those days when he failed in the college entrance examination and was idle at home, Bob Moore felt very inferior and often shut himself in a dark room alone, complaining and sighing.
In the summer of this year, Bob Moore's hometown suffered from torrential rain for more than a month, and finally, flash floods broke out. Bob Moore was unfortunately swept into the roaring river by rolling flash floods. In the turbid and rolling river, he was thrown around like a light leaf, and it was in danger. At this time, how much he wants to catch something that can be saved, even if it is a board or a reed. However, he could not catch anything in the rushing flood except the rolled sediment. He thought to himself that this time it was over and hopeless. Let it be, in life, there is always death, die and die!
as soon as this idea came to him, he was as weak as falling apart, his limbs were weak, and he had no strength to struggle. The whole person is sinking and floating with the surging waves.
Just when Bob Moore was desperate and the last glimmer of hope was about to be taken away by death, his head was suddenly touched by a rolling stone in the flood, and the sudden pain made him suddenly wake up. In a flash, he suddenly remembered that when he was drifting and exploring in this river with his girlfriend last summer, he had met a stout old tree in the lower reaches of this river. The old tree had a thick branch, which was just diagonally attached to the water. As long as he can catch this branch, he can keep his own. At the thought of here, his heart was filled with hope. As soon as there was hope, his strength doubled, his heart did not panic, and his stiff limbs became flexible.
Bob Moore meditated on the old tree that saved his life, persevered tenaciously in the flood, and struggled desperately ... After all the hardships, he finally swam to the old tree. However, when he desperately hugged the branch that stretched out to the river, who knew that the right of the tree had already withered. With a hard tug, it broke in two with a "click". Bob Moore had to hold on to the broken branch and continue to drift with the water. Not far after drifting out, it was rescued ashore by rescuers passing by the river.