Jun Jun's mother is a full-time mother, and Jun Jun's father often travels. Recently, Jun Jun's father has been on a business trip for three weeks. Jun Jun's mother doesn't look very beautiful because she has been taking Jun Jun for three weeks in a row. She was supposed to take Jun Jun to the zoo last week, but Jun Jun's father was away, so it was inconvenient for her to go alone. These days, Jun Jun has been clamoring to go to the zoo, and Jun Jun's mother said that we would go after dad came back.
But Jun Jun, who is almost three years old, said, "Mom, why didn't you go as you promised? You are a big liar! " Jun Jun's mother was a little upset, but when she heard Jun Jun say this, she suddenly got angry and said to Jun Jun, "Blame your father, he didn't come back on time. Don't bother me, it bothers me. "
At this moment, Jun Jun realized that her mother was angry and didn't dare to speak any more. Jun Jun's mother didn't realize that what she said had a bad influence on her children. She continued to be busy in the kitchen. When she called Jun Jun over for dinner after cooking, Jun Jun said, "I hate your mother and ignore you."
Jun Jun's mother was particularly disappointed to hear Jun Jun say such a thing. It is hard for her to imagine that the child would say such a thing to her. At that moment, she realized how failed she was in educating her children. She always thought that the child was still young and didn't understand anything, but she didn't set a good example for the child from the beginning, which made the child suffer such a bad influence.
In the process of children's growth, mothers have a great influence on children. If a mother wants her children to grow up better, how can a mother set a good example for her children in the process of their growth?
1, mothers should pay attention to their words and deeds.
Mothers want to set a good example for their children in the process of their growth, so they should pay attention to their words and deeds. In the process of educating children, mothers should pay attention to whether children have bad behavior habits and how to avoid this. At this time, mothers should improve their own quality and inner cultivation, provide a good growth environment for their children and set a good example for them.
I believe that as long as the mother is careful enough to set a good example for her children, they will see it in their eyes and keep it in mind. Then follow my mother's example and keep working hard.
2. Face up to your mistakes and set a good example for your children.
Many times, because the mother is in a bad mood, she will lose her temper with her children and cause some bad psychological effects on them. Such a result may also lead children to learn from their mother's behavior and lose their temper unconsciously with others. So in order to prevent this from happening, mothers try to avoid losing their temper in front of their children.
If the mother really doesn't control her emotions, she must apologize to the child at this time, so that she can be forgiven by the child and the child will realize her sincerity. In the future, when he faces such a thing, he will know how to avoid it or how to do something wrong and how to apologize to each other.
In the process of children's growth, mother's words and deeds have a very important influence on children. In order to make children grow up healthily and happily, mothers must pay attention to their words and deeds, set an example, demand themselves with a correct and strict attitude, and constantly learn to reflect on themselves. Only in this way can mothers have a positive influence on their children and set a good example for them. I believe that children will become better under the influence of their mothers!
Today's topic: Will children imitate some of your bad behaviors and habits in the process of parenting?
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