Many babies will make many rules for their parents driven by curiosity, but few parents can meet the standards of babies. After politely rejecting the baby's needs, the most correct way is to shape the baby's self-control.
1, from "other system" to "self-made"
Many children can't tell whether their behavior is appropriate, so parents need to make some necessary family instructions. At first, children may know to do this and don't have to do it, but in the long run, when habits become a matter of course, children will naturally understand why they do it.
2. Create a scientific and reasonable family system.
This is what is now called "contractual culture education". Parents need to establish a management system with their children in advance, such as the time to play games. Once the rules are determined, don't change them casually. When a child's behavior is out of line, parents need to tell him that he has crossed the line.
3. Allow children to make small mistakes
Remember that the establishment of self-control also needs a process. When children lack self-control, parents should be tolerant and need some care.
4. Reward the self-control that has been formed.
Mentally, parents can praise their children more; Materially, we need to be careful not to reward children too frequently, otherwise, children's self-control will include performance characteristics, which is not conducive to their rapid development.
5. Create self-control in the game.
Games are an effective way to shape children's self-control. For example, children should be allowed to stand guard and not walk around casually, so that even the most timid children can do it.
A child with good self-control will naturally have a very good development trend in the future development process. Once self-control becomes a natural habit, parents' babies can become more perfect!
How to keep children away from electronic "screens"?
1. Limit the time to watch the monitor.
Babies under 2 years old should not look at the electronic display screen; 2-year-old children will have a rest after watching TV series for 20 ~ 30 minutes; 3-year-old children should not watch TV dramas for more than 1 hour. After watching a variety show, they should go outside to play. There is no TV in the house where the baby lives. Warm reminder: Make a promise with your child.
The baby doesn't know how to control. Watching cartoons or playing games always wants to have fun, but the baby's innocent eyes must rest. What should I do if my baby cries and makes noise when I turn off the electronic equipment? Then make a promise with the child in advance, and parents must fulfill this promise and urge the baby to become a person who keeps his word. Parents can hook up with their babies. If the baby is still watching after watching it, then parents can cancel something he especially likes as a punishment. Let the baby understand the "rules of the game".
2. Avoid watching TV during feeding and eating.
Although watching TV plays while eating has become the habit of some adults, in order to help the baby develop good habits and grow up more happily, parents are advised to turn off the TV set during breastfeeding and meal time and carefully taste the taste of delicious food, which will help shape the baby's diet structure and make the baby not want to eat.
3. Replace electronic devices with parent-child interaction.
Take the baby to discover one or two sports he likes, and then play with him. Motor skills can be directly ignored, and the key is to let the baby enjoy sports. Play toys and games with your baby at home, read interesting books together, or take your baby on a trip. This feeling is more inconvenient than killing the baby to watch TV dramas and play video games. It will not only make the baby avoid the "display screen", but also produce good healthy and happy parent-child communication for parents and babies.