Today I present a letter from a male perspective.

The letter is very long and detailed, describing a married man's psychology when he meets a girl he likes and how to pursue her step by step.

Although some of his actions are inappropriate or appropriate.

But if a mature, high-quality married man is determined to pursue an inexperienced girl, it is probably only a matter of time before he succeeds.

While reading, I hope you can learn more experiences and understand the psychology behind some men's behavior, so that you will not be confused in the relationship between the sexes.

My story is long, lasting four years until March 31, 2020.

I think detailed memories make it easier to let go.

Anyway, my story is: A married scumbag college teacher cheated on a girl for 4 years.

I was not wrong, I had my own way.

I am a university teacher, born in the 1980s, with a well-proportioned figure and six-pack abs.

I am handsome.

I can't say that I can compare with celebrities, but I can tell you one detail: taking photos with relatives during festivals.

As long as I am contacted by relatives and friends, relatives, friends and colleagues often say that your nephew is so handsome and your brother is so handsome.

This is not to show off, this factor is the basis of this relationship, otherwise the post-95 generation would not fall in love with an uncle who is more than 10 years older than him.

As for her, introduce her slowly in your memory.

In February 2016, I took the first class of their class.

When I walked past them and walked towards the podium, I clearly heard one sentence: So handsome!

However, I don't know who said it.

After class started, I followed the usual procedure and found out who the monitor was.

Because I had to collect homework, I found out that the class monitor was one of the girls sitting at the back door table, the girl I had loved in my life, but it was not love at first sight.

My first reaction at the time was: It’s inappropriate for the monitor to sit in the back.

She is quite tall and has big eyes. In the words of my female colleague, she has "big and beautiful eyes."

She has long legs and is very thin.

Later she learned that her weight could not exceed 100 pounds.

I also know in my heart that she is my type, because my wife is also the same type, tall, with long legs and big eyes.

This relationship lasted for a month, and in May, when there were no classes, I began to miss her.

I know in my heart that good impression turned into liking.

At this time, I did not hesitate to move forward like other scumbag men, without any moral scruples.

This is my way of doing things, willful.

Here, it’s time to talk about my family, because a lot of infidelity by scumbags is caused by unhappy marriages and unhappy families, but that’s not the case with my family.

I also know that for me, there are worse things here than being a scumbag.

My wife and I met and got together before we entered college.

I was her first love.

We chose different universities because of our different professional pursuits, but we continued to fall in love until I left Shanghai to study for a master's degree for a few years.

She also waited for me with peace of mind.

After graduating with a master's degree, we got married.

After marriage, I have a daughter who is currently in primary school.

There is no conflict between mother-in-law and son-in-law in my family.

Our family is very harmonious, on a romantic level, because I have been with her for too long.

After the daughter was born, there was no love, only family affection.

Frankly speaking, she gives me more of a feeling of partnership, bringing my daughter together and taking care of the elderly.

This feeling does not come after meeting the class monitor, but the daughter was born without love.

She went to kindergarten when she met the monitor.

Before I met the squad leader, I resigned because I also have many friends and brothers, and everyone felt basically the same after marriage.

Because I know I like the monitor and I want to be with her.

To be honest, I didn't expect that she would agree to be with me.

On the one hand, I imagined that if she was willing to be with me, we would be satisfied by eating together and chatting on WeChat, but I did not expect that men all love women.

I clearly remember the first non-academic words I said to her: "Do you like Eason Chan?" "He is very handsome." Her desktop at the time was Eason.

But until the end of this course, I had no contact with her other than my cell phone, so I had no personal contact with her.

I'm not sentimental, I'm just thinking about how to pursue her.

After this class is over, there is another class in their grade that will visit other places.

Since I was teaching a class that started on February 29, I naturally continued to take their classes.

This course is said to be a lesson, but in fact everyone knows that it is just fun.

There are four classes in this class in one grade.

It depends on a competent teacher to contact the study location, food, accommodation and transportation, and three other teachers to help lead the three classes.

I am a competent teacher in charge of everything.

Before I left, I told one of my best male colleagues, Han, who also taught their class, that I had a good eye for her. He also introduced some information about her and said that he would help me pursue her.

Basically, the two of us take students to visit during the day, and play cards or board games in the monitor's room at night.

When we got back to the room, nine out of ten sentences were about her.

In previous years, there was a custom when visiting relatives. The teacher had to treat the class 4 monitor and league branch secretary to a meal at his own expense.

This meal is usually a light meal that won't cost a lot of money.

But this year, I had an idea of ??my own.

This was my first chance to have dinner with her***.

I wanted to eat better, so on the penultimate night after the survey, I invited the teacher and class leaders to have a round table dinner at a restaurant in the city.

Both teachers and students drank, but my drinking capacity was okay.