After being with Aries, he stopped taking the initiative.

After being with Aries, he stopped taking the initiative. In a relationship, no one will always take the initiative, but the one who has been taking the initiative suddenly becomes inactive. Many people have reasons. After being with Aries, he stopped taking the initiative. After being with Aries, he stopped taking the initiative. 1

1. I don't love you. < P > For feelings, most Aries boys always dare to love and hate, and they can be desperate. Like is like, it will let you know that he likes you directly, and will turn to you for all kinds of pursuits, such as tenderness, sweet words, and arrogance, and will make every effort to turn you around. When I don't hate you, I will tell you clearly that he doesn't love you. Aries boys can spoil you when they love you, but when they don't love you, their mentality is a 36-degree change, which makes people unprepared. It's like going directly from lava to glacier, and I'm indifferent to your mentality.

2. Too busy to forget you

Aries classmates are enthusiastic and cheerful, hate new things and are full of curiosity. In fact, this kind of Aries man has nothing to do with indifference. Besides, there are always friends around you, so you can never be alone, and there is really not much free time. If you suddenly feel that Aries man ignores your indifference, it is likely that he is too busy to forget you. Because Aries men will tell you directly if they don't love you. It's not a big deal for an Aries man who is never idle. When he is busy at work, coupled with his hard work, he is too busy to forget you. At this time, you can choose to care about him appropriately and let their love warm up.

The reason why Aries doesn't take the initiative

Don't want to be too humble

Aries men have always been very arrogant people, but when they meet the people they like, they will change themselves appropriately and show their humble side, but there is a limit to this humility. When they feel that their humbleness and ingratiation are not reciprocated, they will not take the initiative again, even if they are unwilling.

I don't know

Aries men are always a warm person in the eyes of outsiders. They exude a faint light, and it seems that they have never seen them take the initiative. In fact, they have taken the initiative for the people they like before, but in the end, they found that such feelings are not what they want, and they think that good feelings should be mutual initiative.

Too tired

Aries men once tore their hearts out because of a relationship, but they didn't have a perfect ending, so in the end they also understood that if it wasn't consensual, all initiatives were delusional, and only one person's active feelings could only touch themselves in the end, and those people could only be exhausted and gain nothing in the end.

It's fine to be alone

Aries men are used to loneliness. They think that even if they don't have someone they particularly like, it's fine to be alone. In the end, they find that if they are too active in their feelings, they will be idle and humble. In their feelings, if a person really likes you, they don't need how active you are. After being with Aries, he stopped taking the initiative. 2

After being with Aries, he turned cold.

Do the little lovelies feel this way? Obviously, Aries baby is passionate and wants to pick the stars and the moon when chasing you, and he will be around you 24 hours a day. However, once in love, it immediately cools down. I'm a 24K gold bottle girl. Let me talk about my love feelings with Aries men and how to get along with them to make them love you more!

Aries is definitely a loyal member of the Appearance Association. Most of them rely on one impression to judge whether they like the type or not, and if they do, they start to chase it regardless. Aries baby is a typical "three-minute fever", in which you can feel the sweetest love in the world.

But once the enthusiasm fades, Aries begins to rethink your relationship, and they will quickly calm down. At this time, they will enter a "tired period", which is absolutely unpredictable. I was treated like this at that time, and the more you want to keep Aries, the more you want to tie him up, and the faster he runs.

It's amazing that we met. Because of our narrow circle at work, we registered as a member of a dating platform. In 222, I ended my 1-year long-distance running with my first love, and it ended in nothing. In fact, I am not in a hurry myself, but also to cope with the constant urging of my elders, watching one build what did not build.

in the winter of 222, I got sick, and I was afraid that my parents would be worried that I would go to the hospital to register for infusion. Seeing that there were people around me, maybe I was sick and very fragile, so I was wronged. All of a sudden, I really want to find someone. So I opened a platform that had been sealed for a long time and saw him at a glance. Then we started to talk, and then left the way, and began the stage of small ambiguity.

Let me briefly talk about my Aries male, who is 195cm tall and works in a bank. Four years older than me, I have a car and a house, and I am introverted, but I am hot (when chasing me). I used to export my little cute baby before, but now there is only a little fat girl [sour] [sour]. Because he is very handsome, in fact, I will be a little worried that he will be playboy or other problems, and I dare not say yes, but I know I like him. Later, he chased me for half a year, and I also felt that he was really stable and family-oriented, so I decided to be together.

Well, here comes the point!

During the half year that Aries chased me, he chatted with me from morning till night and asked me to meet him on weekends, which basically filled my time from getting up in the morning to going to bed at night, so that I felt that the whole world was risking a little bubble of happiness. But! In the week after catching up, I suddenly became cold and talked to me, but I didn't immediately return [covering my face] [covering my face].

I feel like I'm falling directly from the clouds, and I'm beginning to doubt and worry, for fear that he doesn't love me. But the details are very kind to me. When we met, we went to his house to cook for me. My throat was inflamed and I gave up smoking for me. But once we don't meet, he is very cold.

So I made a mistake demonstration again:

I started to be him constantly, hoping that he would coax me to get my so-called sense of security, but it turns out that I pushed him further. I began to get hysterical, constantly blacked him out, and reluctantly let him out silently, and then asked him again and again why he was slow to reply to the message, and whether he had never loved me?

Looking back, I think I was very nervous at that time. I thank my sheep for not being run away by me in the end. We also had an argument (or what I thought, he didn't want to argue with me at all), and I broke up with him nine times a month. In short, the result of the incident was that it ended in a breakup.

I struggled after breaking up, but Aries's short temper didn't get used to me at all. [Picking Nose] [Picking Nose]

Later, when I calmed down, I also began to think about our relationship and re-analyzed every detail of our being together. I felt that my previous practice would really push people further and further! Especially his injured little eyes when I said goodbye for the last time. Later, I thought it might be that I was too insecure!

in the third month after breaking up, I made a circle of friends visible to him, and then I loved him (don't ask why I didn't send it directly, cowardice). I deeply analyzed all kinds of behaviors that I shouldn't distrust him, and then he came back with a proud little step.

In our subsequent relationship, we are all changing. If he ignores me, I will do my own thing, and the key point is to trust him (basically he will take the initiative to find me when he is finished). Moreover, after reconciliation, many things have been said. The two of us never quarreled later, and we got along better and better, and Little Aries would spoil me.

As it turns out, Aries' apathy is due to rest assured that you are always by his side. If they are in a cold period, what should you do and set him free? As long as the thread is still in your hands, let him float.

Aries can't live without your little coup:

1. Aries, a fire sign, is still soft and hard. Therefore, it is better for them to be soft and prone! I can now output a lot of unimportant little love words to him one day, haha!

2. Don't worry about Aries when they ignore you. Just do your own thing. They will always be attracted by other things, and when their attention comes back, they will come to play with you again!

3. Keep mysterious and fresh, and don't let him see through you at a glance. Don't be too active in the face of Aries. If you ignore you, you will throw a small signal to attract his attention from time to time and will naturally come to you! After being with Aries, he stopped taking the initiative. 3

Constellation pairing-Aries

Aries-Aries: burning peach blossoms, tying two flowers

tacit understanding index: 3 stars

Keywords: passion

mode of getting along: three meals a day, you fight for each other

Daily contradiction: Aries' little heart is going to be broken. Both of them are resolute and resolute, and both of them are stubborn and arbitrary. There are three meals a day, and there is a battle for meals!

strategic guidance: both of them are fire-attribute constellations, which can perfectly achieve the dramatic effect of firing in case of disagreement. It is basically conceivable that these two sheep with super self-healing power and super temper will be put together in the future. It is always unacceptable for Aries women to dress up for sheep men, and sheep men, a small temperament, will not experience the girl's deep heart.

if this couple wants to be long-term, they must learn to put themselves in others' shoes.

Aries male-Taurus female: it is better not to meet, than not to see

tacit understanding index: 3 stars

Keywords: gentleness

Getting along mode: Wushan sex, Youlong falling into the sea

Daily contradiction: the tortoise falls in love with the wind, which is tender and affectionate, but it is more irreconcilable, and the fiery Aries is not so patient.

strategic guidance: Aries needs a lover to keep up with the rhythm, and needs a lover to be hearty and generous. Obviously, our Taurus girl is more gentle and has a poor rhythm. Both of them belong to a pair with strong desires and are more stubborn in their feelings. Aries men can't adjust problems. Although Taurus women's firmness and loyalty are worthy of recognition, tenderness can't solve things, and more tolerance can carry on love.

Aries male-two children: a wave in the waves, I, we, I!

tacit understanding index: 4 stars

Keywords: perfect match

Mode of getting along: the game world is full of energy

Daily contradiction: one is childish, the other is serving, and both children can't stand Aries' stupidity and need love, but Aries needs space! There is always a smell of smoke at home.

strategic guidance: officially speaking, this is almost the most perfect couple. Aries appreciates the personality of their two children, and they also like to play happily with Aries men, but their insecurity needs companionship, which Aries men can't satisfy. The space that Aries needs aggravates the insecurity of the two children, and it is easy to make the family malodorous.

As long as two children are more tolerant and Aries is more company, life is still very beautiful.

Aries male-Cancer female: The heart network is complicated.

Tacit understanding index: 1 star

Keywords: contradiction

Mode of getting along: tears streaming down her face, anger rising to the sky

Daily contradiction: Cancer female can't resist Aries male's violent temper, and a naked unilateral crush.

strategic guidance: most cancer women fall in love with the radiant Aries man, thinking that this is their own prince, but never thinking that this is their own opium poppy. After only one sip, they become addicted. The sensitivity and fragility of cancer women is beyond the reach of Aries.

Cancer women need to be stronger, and Aries men need more care and love.

Aries male-lion female: strong wine and fierce horse, you sing and she dances

tacit understanding index: 5 stars

Keywords: tacit understanding

Mode of getting along: fun and fun, small quarrels

Daily contradictions: you quarrel with me, you quarrel with me, and you are strong with me! It's inevitable that there will be too much spark, so get a burn.

strategic guidance: the Aries man and the Lion woman are a good couple. They both understand the deep affection in each other's eyes, but there is nothing they can do. They are stubborn and impulsive. As long as they are well coordinated, there is no problem.

Aries male-virgin female: one is autumn, the other is winter

tacit understanding index: 2 stars

Keywords: conflict

Mode of getting along: I don't understand, I work hard

Daily contradiction: the keen "sense of smell" of the virgin female is not possessed by Aries male at all, ranging from eating and drinking Lassa to various economic activities.

strategic guidance: the future is unpredictable. Aries man himself has no idea about Virgo. To say long-term, he can only say that there is a long way to go, and the road ahead is long, depending on each other's determination!

remember the word sincerity.