I often have this question about whether I am suitable to be a diver, because this phenomenon also exists around me, so I summarized it: (First of all, please don’t look at it with resentment and a sense of substitution, thinking that you are the one who doesn’t like it)

This question. Today, when social software is very popular and active, I think this is a very interesting and worthy of study, because it has become a part of our lives.) I think this kind of person is "jealousy distortion"/"

"Arrogant and disdainful" Let me analyze the examples around me. The protagonists in the case are my college classmates and roommates.

There were four people in our dormitory, and two of the girls didn't have a good relationship with me. We had some quarrels, but as time passed, everyone maintained the superficial peace.

Later, I also reflected on it. Ultimately, I think it was the environment in which we grew up, the people we came in contact with, and the characters we formed that led to our discord.

To put it bluntly, the three perspectives are different.

My family conditions are better than theirs, but I have never shown off.

I just talk about some family matters during normal communication, because I can't hold back my words and like to chat.

But this was just showing off to them, and I was also very surprised to hear this from their mouths during the quarrel.

They said that I looked down on them and always felt that I was superior to them?

WTF! What the hell, tell me, am I talking about how much my clothes cost every day or something? And my family in the city where I live is really just average and cannot be any more average. You are born with low self-esteem, but you can't be more confident than others?

What a world!

I didn't pay much attention to it at first, but then I gradually realized that the two of them almost never liked any of my posts.

Although everyone is harmonious on the surface, I can clearly feel the oppression they occasionally exert on me in daily life.

Whether they were jealous or disdainful, this feeling made me very uncomfortable.

So my initial approach was to block them. I wouldn’t look at her, and I wouldn’t let her look at me, because I felt they didn’t deserve it.

They are all people who are hypocritical on the surface and want to be friends with you, but secretly think they are noble and look down on you.