2011-10-19 14:15 Reading: 32 There is such a story, a southern girl and a northern man got married. The girl has a light taste and the man is not happy with anything spicy.
For this reason, the two often have disagreements.
One day, the girl went to her parents' house for dinner.
The food my father cooked was a bit salty, so my mother poured a bowl of hot water without saying a word, picked up a chopstick of vegetables, and swung the vegetables in the water before eating them.
Suddenly, the girl realized something from her mother's subtle movements.
The next day, the girl cooked her husband's favorite dish at home.
Chili peppers are added to every dish.
However, there was a bowl of water in front of her.
The big man's eyes were moist as he watched her eating the vegetables swimming in the clear water with relish.
Afterwards, the big men also scrambled to cook.
But there are no more chili peppers in the dish.
It's just that there's an extra dish of hot sauce in front of him.
Dip the vegetables in the spicy sauce.
He ate every bite with gusto.
In this way, they lived happily.
The protagonists in the story, for the sake of love, hold on to a plate of hot sauce and the other to a bowl of water.
They know how to hold on to a long-lasting relationship, holding hands and growing old together with them forever.
After reading this story, I was speechless.
How many lovers and couples in life end up parting ways or even turning against each other just because they stick to their own habits and hobbies and cannot be humble to each other or tolerate each other.
In fact, many things can be changed.
In a marriage and family, if both parties can consider each other, there will not be so many misunderstandings and disputes in life.
It is said that lovers will eventually get married, and meeting each other is fate. Why should we hurt our harmony and emotions because of some trivial things and end up with each other?
Mutual understanding is the glue of love, which makes the hearts of both parties stick closer and stronger.
The coolness of each other's bodies is the lubricant of love, which makes the love between both parties deeper and stronger.
If there is still something that cannot be put away, you might as well put a bowl of water and a dish of hot sauce on the dining table to make the food soaked in water more flavorful and the rice dipped in hot sauce to be more mellow.
Life may be that bowl of water and that plate of sauce.