Some people say: "Women are exquisite masterpieces left by the Creator to the world. They are the embodiment of beauty and the elves in heaven and earth. In a woman's life, the flowers blooming are a breathtaking painting. "Fall" is an intriguing poem. "

Burton also said:

There is something in women that transcends all human pleasures; a charming virtue that makes people ecstasy. temperament, mysterious and powerful motives.

Let’s take a closer look at the myriad of charming and charming women in the world, and the most beautiful styles that make men worry the most! The woman who most attracts men's attention - peerless and "independent"

There is a beauty in the north. Peerless and independent.

A glance at the charming city. Look at Qingren’s country again.

I would rather not know a beautiful city or a beautiful country. Beautiful women are hard to come by...

A particularly moving line in this ancient poem is "peerless and independent"! Although there are essential differences between the "independence" in poetry and the independence spoken by contemporary women, they still have the same purpose.

A Harvard University study on women shows that "independence" is a necessary element for an attractive woman.

The so-called woman’s independence not only includes a woman’s material independence and spiritual independence; it also includes a woman’s personality independence.

I don’t think I need to elaborate on the first two here. Contemporary women can easily achieve material independence and spiritual independence.

Personal independence seems to be a relatively vague concept. To facilitate understanding, we can regard material independence and spiritual independence as the trunk and main branches of a tree; while personal independence determines the What kind of flowers can bloom and what kind of magical fruits can it bear!

The two most important aspects of personality independence are autonomy and creativity. What cannot be ignored in particular is the creativity of women! Creative women always have many original ideas in their minds and will try to do many things that have never been done before.

Novel and unique thinking can often make them shine with unusual brilliance.

Every woman can actually be creative. This attribute does not mean that she must shock the world like Madame Curie discovered radium. But as long as you learn to create life in your own world, you will be a "peerless and independent" charming woman.

I remember the last time I traveled to Taipei, I visited a female calligrapher and painter who lived in seclusion in the mountains. For decades, she was obsessed with painting in that mountain without any modern equipment. Between the mountains and rivers, I put my feelings in calligraphy and painting. Seeing every stroke of her calligraphy and painting, it seems that you can feel the spirituality of nature. Just like her calm temperament, she blooms in the mountains and countryside like orchids in the empty valley.

I once asked her: "Do you feel lonely when you are far away from the city?"

She smiled lightly and answered me: "How could that be? You see so many friends accompanying you Hold me."

She said: "Every grass and every little flower in the countryside are alive. You can feel their vitality when you pass by them. Vitality and vitality. ”

The core of independent creativity is to learn to use your own advantages and integrate yourself perfectly into life. Some women will use their wisdom to win a place in the workplace; while some women are good at the field of fashion and will use their unique aesthetics to lead fashion and show their personal charm; while some women are good at transforming ordinary things into Ingredients are carefully cooked into a gourmet feast with perfect color, aroma and taste; some women also like to study carefully in the field of cultural inheritance and achieve originality.

These can all be called female independent creativity! And women with this creative attribute cannot hide their own light when they walk among the crowd, and they shine wherever they go.

So, "peerless and independent" must be the complete independence of women from material to spiritual, and from spiritual to personality. Only then can you become a "rare flower" with a unique fragrance. The woman that men cannot let go of the most - gentle and graceful

"The most gentle thing is the gentleness of bowing her head, like the shyness of a water lotus that cannot bear the cool breeze."

If we talk about independence It is a woman's inner skeleton, so gentleness is a woman's outer skin and the most beautiful clothes. The beauty of gentleness will benefit women throughout their lives.

Women's gentleness is more like the power of water. It can be like autumn water, or it can be as tender as water.

Purity is like water, clean and ice-clear, goodness is like water, beauty is like hibiscus, thinking is like autumn water...

Gentleness is a woman's unique advantage, and many contemporary women Not only can they not learn to use this advantage, they often throw it away in the corner. They want to put on a false and hard armor for themselves like men to block their original feminine light. This approach is undoubtedly Buck the trend.

It is true that times have changed now, and women can stand in the sun like men, holding up half of the sky. But the fundamental differences between men and women still exist, and the different advantages of men and women are also essentially different.

A smart woman will never be domineering, let alone confront a man head-on.

Some women may feel that they can compete with the men around them in terms of academic qualifications, knowledge level, earning power and independence in life. As a result, there is a little more arrogance in his eyes, he is sharp when he raises his hands and feet, and he is aggressive in his behavior.

But such a woman may eventually be a loser, whether in the workplace or at home. Because she never understood that a woman's most advantageous weapon is never domineering, but gentle as water.

Fang Sijin in the TV series "An Jia" is a living example. She initially wore a domineering coat for herself, which made everyone around her feel uncomfortable. Later, under the influence of Aunt Xu, she took off her disguise, from being aggressive at first to tenderness later. Not only did she gain beautiful love, but she also gained recognition from her colleagues around her, precious friendships, and a great career success.

Since ancient times, softness can overcome toughness! Although water is invisible and colorless, it can polish the sharp stones into a round shape day after day. Therefore, women who are like water should not be underestimated.

Of all the things in the world, which one can live without water? The rain is pouring, the springs are tinkling, and the creek is gurgling. If you listen carefully, you will find a beautiful piece of music that is fascinating. The mountains and flowing water are refreshing and can easily touch the heartstrings of those who know the music.

A woman as gentle as water can make you feel comfortable, quietly open your mind, and get close to the deepest part of your soul; she can moisturize things silently and unknowingly, and moisturize every part of your body. Every cell has forgotten everything and everything, and the mind is intoxicated; most of all, it makes men inseparable and unable to quit. The woman most admired by men - dignified and dignified

As the saying goes: "A small jade is easy to come by, but dignified and dignified is hard to find"!

A dignified woman can look at the world calmly when she is at a high place; when she is at a low point, she will smile against the current; her eyes are filled with serenity; "'Look at the world indifferently' Ups and downs, we can live our lives under the mist."

If Lin Huiyin is a representative of talent and intelligence, then Xu Zhimo’s ex-wife Zhang Youyi is a model of dignity and dignity. Especially after her divorce from Xu Zhimo, Zhang Youyi completed her beautiful transformation into a butterfly.

And her majesty and dignity are not only reflected in the grace and charm she exudes after her gorgeous transformation as a new-era woman. This is reflected in the fact that after she divorced Xu Zhimo, she still often went to the Xu family to take care of the Xu family's children. The Xu family's parents even accepted her as a nominal adopted daughter, and even gave her a share of the property division.

There are also rumors that she continued to support Lu Xiaoman after Xu Zhimo's death. She also gave the greatest forgiveness to Lin Huiyin, the "love rival" who once caused her divorce! Legend has it that after Lin Huiyin fell ill and underwent a major operation, he suddenly wanted to see Xu Zhimo and Zhang Youyi's child. Zhang Youyi actually brought her son Xu Jikai to Lin Huiyin's bedside, ending the lifelong love-hate entanglement and disappearing with a smile. Grudges.

Even Xu Zhimo, who once disliked her, praised Zhang Youyi in a letter to Lu Xiaoman three years after the divorce:

“A woman with ambition and courage. This woman has made great progress in the past two years. She can stand independently and have a clear mind."

A dignified woman is the one who can best withstand the baptism of time in the world. That is a kind of ". The calm temperament of sincerity can only be seen after the glitz and glamor has been washed away. Even if the face ages and loses its youth, it can still be as bright as spring flowers and as bright as the bright moon.

The beauty of women in the world comes in all shapes and forms! "There is no beauty in the world, but beauty is beautiful!" Even if you don't have a beautiful appearance, if you have a strong character and a bit of tenderness, you can still be unparalleled!