In a good marriage, we need to have a deep love for each other for a long time, a deep affection for mutual support and care with * *, loyalty and responsibility that we will never give up in sickness and in health, and the kindness of honor and disgrace and * * * in the face of good times and bad times.

Then there is the happiness index when two people get along. After going through the density and lingering of "very much in love" when I was young, the comfort of two people together is the fundamental factor that determines the happiness of marriage. To maintain such comfort, these conditions are definitely indispensable.

1. eat comfortably. Linlin and Xiaodong got married by online dating, and two people from north and south are thousands of miles apart. Linlin has been eating pasta since he was a child. Xiaodong eats rice and doesn't touch it if it is spicy. At first, two people can accommodate each other because they care about each other's feelings. After a long time, they don't even have a mouthful of food when they eat after a hard day. Naturally, they will quarrel and have a cold war. They never thought that "eating" would be a problem before, but in the end it was really because the contradiction caused by dietary differences could not be reconciled, so they parted ways.

Just as southerners can't understand the heroism of northerners dipping green onions in soy sauce, northern Renye Fang can't understand the indifference of southerners in clear soup, Shanghainese can't eat the "spicy" Sichuan cuisine, and Sichuanese can't accept the "sweet" of Shanghai food. In terms of diet, two other people live together, and over time, life is like a pot of soup with many spices, and no one can eat the desired taste.

2. Sleep harmoniously. As the saying goes: the bed fights with the bed, which is about the importance of "sleeping". This "sleep" not only refers to the harmony of husband and wife's life, but also some seemingly insignificant sleep habits. You like to sleep in a soft bed, and he likes to sleep in a hard bed. Is it possible for a light sleeper who will wake up when he hears the turn over to sleep in a bed with a partner who snores loudly?

3. Have a good time. It's hard to take a vacation. You want to see the scenery in the distance. He wants to fight in the chess room downstairs in the community until dawn. You like swimming and playing ball, and he is keen on bubble foot massage. You want to see a literary movie, and he prefers to see a mindless fighting movie with intestines punched out and stuffed in, which can fight for another 3 rounds. He fell asleep with you, and you were upset with him. May I ask, will you watch movies with each other next time?

4. Families of both parties who live in harmony. Although we always say that life is for two people, it has nothing to do with each other's families. As it turns out, being able to get along well with each other's families has a higher happiness index. Think about how many marriages around you are broken because there are no proper limit's mother-in-law, troublesome elder sister-in-law, troublesome mother-in-law and disappointing brother-in-law!

two people can get married because of their deep feelings and heavy righteousness at first, and then eating, dressing and having children are the most running-in in a long life. The three views are consistent, and the hobbies are not too different. Eating, drinking, and having fun can all be on the same channel. Without too much accommodation, we can walk together and understand each other easily and happily, so that we can become better people. Why can't such two people manage their marriage well?