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There was a female classmate in graduate school, who came from a remote mountain village.
Her appearance is really ordinary, so there are only twenty people in the class, but I didn't notice her existence after a long time.
Then one day, we went to hand in a scholarship form, and she greeted me with a smile-how can I say that smile? It was extremely simple, sincere and bright.
after that, I found that every time I meet someone I know or don't know, she always smiles like this, reminding me of the wild chrysanthemums in the country.
There is such a kind of people in this world who not only need fine looks, but also have slow communication. But it can last a long time.
this female classmate of mine is. After a long time, I found that her straight hair with clear soup and dried noodles never changed, but she trimmed it neatly-she really trimmed it herself with scissors; Although her dress is simple, it is neat and natural, and it has a breath of Shan Ye field breeze.
She makes me want to get close to her-even though she really doesn't have anything extraordinary, whether it's academic research or artistic expertise.
I don't even know what I like about her. But I love running to her dormitory.
At that time, there were four people in the dormitory, each occupying a small corner, with a bed above and a desk and wardrobe below. Whether you really love doing research or learning, the desk is always full of books, which is very crowded and messy.
However, her desktop can accommodate two pots of green plants-a few yuan of rich bamboo, just inserted in a huge transparent glass bottle. They staggered in drinking water in bottles and poked their heads out.
that dense green is particularly dazzling in the crowded dormitory-every time I open the door, it rushes into my eyes.
I lived on the fifth floor then, and this female classmate was on the fourth floor. When I climb the stairs and pass her dormitory, I always stop and rush in to say hello. So, I can often see her under the green, so quiet, sometimes writing papers, sometimes eating snacks, and sometimes talking about TV dramas.
At that time, many of our classmates were busy working part-time to make money. In this rapidly developing international metropolis, business opportunities are everywhere. Some people go to do translation for 8 yuan an hour, and some people go to vocational colleges to take classes for 6 yuan a day … but my female classmate is unmoved.
At that time, we were too worried about the paper, and we often forced ourselves to complete the task with "I will die if I die". But I seldom see my female classmate lament and worry.
Even when she is eating snacks and cooking a drama, she can make you feel that it is the greatest enjoyment in the world.
gradually, I think this rich bamboo has a magic power.
Because every time I walk into this dormitory and see it, my impetuous heart can calm down.
when we look for jobs later, we all want to stay in big cities, big companies, big institutions or universities. However, they feel extremely difficult, and they are all distressed by "high or low". However, this female classmate seems to have never thought about fighting from the beginning, so she silently went to a small town and entered a middle school.
Later, I took a long bus ride to see her. As expected, the small single dormitory is neat-there are no bookshelves, and the books are neatly packed on the inner side of the single bed. On the table and in the corridor, a lot of flowers and plants were raised at random. Those days coincided with the rain, and I nested in her dormitory, soaked in a piece of flowers, reading one book after another, the peace of mind and satisfaction, tranquility and richness, which I will never forget in my life.
Later, she settled down in a small town and had children.
Now, she is the mother of two children.
In the circle of friends that she occasionally sends, there has never been a dead beat and anxiety, but only a shallow happiness.
So, I think it's not that the flowers and plants she keeps are full of magic, but that she gives them magic.
2
After work, I met a friend who was seriously ill and took medicine all the year round, and has never been married.
Her job is boring and heavy printing.
if many people came to live her life, I think they were all sad or silent.
but she lives like a bright and moist flower.
she loves to dress up, and she dresses up neatly every day when she goes to work.
She loves delicious food and can always tell you where there is delicious food.
She is good at keeping in good health. She doesn't forget to cook a pot of seasonal sugar water to share with others in her tedious work every day.
She carved a corner in the office and planted many lovely succulents.
She also ordered flowers for herself, one bouquet a week, and delivered them to the office on time. A light blue glass bottle, filled with clear water, is full of different flowers and smells.
The studio that used to smell like toner and ink is full of fragrance and vitality because of her presence. Friends and colleagues are always willing to visit her. Enjoy flowers and tea, chat with her a few words, and turn around and leave is full of energy.
actually, her job is not easy at all. Every time I go, I can see her wearing a mask sorting through a mountain of documents, or busy in the copier, printer and scanner.
but I've never seen her pull a long face, much less listened to her complaining. I just saw her smile. That smile is really like a spring breeze, like a flower in full bloom. In a trance, I often feel that this is a back garden full of aura, and she has become a member of the flowers.
for quite a long time, I thought it was the flowers and green plants here, full of irresistible magic, which attracted me to come in when I was impetuous, tired and confused. Then, I always left as if I had washed my dust with clean water.
it was only later that I understood why some people can always keep flowers and plants dead, but she can keep them blooming. It is because she is a true lover of flowers, because she has opened her heart to accept them and nourish them. Therefore, over time, the essence, aura and energy they breed can also be absorbed into her body and even her life, so that she also has love and is always invincible.
3
Never underestimate the energy of a bunch of flowers.
whether or not to accept the blooming of a bunch of flowers is a requirement for time and space in appearance, but in essence it is a requirement for life attitude and soul.
I remember one shopping trip, and I saw a well-kept flower at the cashier's desk of the store. I can't help asking why I have raised it so well.
The shop assistant explained that this flower is both easy to raise and difficult to raise. It is easy to raise because it only needs some water, but it is difficult to raise because it is more popular-the more popular, the more laughter and laughter, the better it will grow.
flowers and plants are actually people. Need spiritual nurturing.
accepting a bunch of flowers is actually accepting yourself.
The world is very big, because it can squeeze in so much money and fame, honor and disgrace and rise and fall, jealousy and dignity.
The world is small, because many times, it can't accept a bunch of flowers.
No matter where you live, you can let a bunch of flowers or green plants bloom around you. Such a person is always happy-because he can perceive happiness, create happiness and accept happiness better than others.
in fact, raising flowers is raising yourself.
cultivate a peace of mind and a good life.