Get out of the way, let me, the head teacher, have a good fight. I've worked as a head teacher for many years, and I've fought with a bunch of "Xiong Haizi" for countless times. I've tasted it all, and I know how to deal with them easily. These principles are the same as those of parents who want to restrain their children in public.
1. Parents should try their best not to be angry and arrogant like teachers when taking their children on public occasions.
When I take my seventh-grade students as their class teacher, I am really exhausted. Every day, a lot of trivial matters make me restless. In fact, they are not young. People who are thirteen or fourteen years old are still living a normal life. Watching them fight like black-eyed chickens, I highly doubt whether they have become Zhao San, Liu San and Yang San.
which teacher in charge of the class can laugh under such circumstances? It is necessary to put on a long face, which is equivalent to sending a signal: "The old class is angry, and the consequences are very serious." They are bound to bear the storm from the head teacher, and then they will be quiet for a while, and there will be no more fighting for the time being.
As for the conflicts between classmates, we all beat 5 boards, ask questions separately, and finally point out their respective advantages and disadvantages one by one, especially to guide them to recall the good things they had before and arouse their deep feelings for their classmates. Soon, their faces will turn cloudy and clear. At this moment, it will be natural for them to shake hands and make peace.
second, parents need to make clear to their children what responsibilities they should bear, and more importantly, they need to make clear the sense of boundaries.
There are conflicts between students in the class, which is nothing more than that you touched me and I suffered losses. It is only fair to find a way to get it back. Either I met you, you didn't want to, and you had to solve the problem by physical conflict, and in the end it was inevitable that both sides would lose. In fact, this kind of thing is really not on the table. What the class teacher can do is to coax at both ends, criticize at both ends, and finally pull together to make an amicable friendship and become good friends again.
Although this is a small disagreement between students, and it is not a matter of principle between the two sides, many parents are still on the verge of an enemy, and they are always too busy to find ways to appease the students and parents.
Third, parents should guide their children with educational ideas at home.
Parents' words and deeds are subtle and will be fully demonstrated in practical actions to help more students find out which rules they need to abide by.
As the saying goes, "The best time to plant a tree is ten years ago, followed by now." It is not difficult to see that parents' words and deeds are the only way to restrain their children. How can you leave your parents' advice if you want to appear gracefully in public? Parents should sternly warn their children that they need to be clear about what can and can't be done, and develop a sense of rules from an early age in order to cultivate a heavy sense of responsibility.
children are actually very good at reading people's minds, and they also know that as long as their parents make a determined effort, there will be nothing for their children. Let's stay honestly, and don't neglect the big things because of the small ones. In the end, they will bring themselves pain. Why?