We, a group of best friends, just finished a gathering yesterday. For those of us women who are close to 30 or already 30, we are basically married and have children. Some of the children are taken care of by ourselves, some are taken care of by our parents, and some are still here. After working hard in the workplace, some have returned to their families and become full-time mothers. Everyone’s family environment is different and their choices are different. What’s rare is that when we get together, it seems that we still retain the passion and dreams we had when we were 20 years old.

First of all, let’s talk to each other about each other’s current situation. If we have any worries, we can make suggestions together. If not, we can talk about what is popular recently. Yesterday, my girlfriend Y complained that life is too dull. She has to cook and take care of the children when she comes home from get off work every day. Her husband only plays on his mobile phone and does nothing else. I really don’t know what the point of continuing a marriage like this is. This topic was like a trigger, triggering everyone's complaints about their husbands. Then after a round of complaints, they found that their husbands seemed to be carved out of the same mold, which was not interesting.

Then I asked L about the civil war in their company. She smiled and said that she didn’t expect that what she thought happened in the TV series actually happened in reality.

Y took the topic and said, "TV comes from life. Wasn't it the same for the first half of my life when it is very popular now? It ruined all three views!"

I nodded in agreement, "Yes. Yes, the public account has been flooded these days, saying that you can’t be a full-time housewife." After thinking about it, I added, "But I think if a man cheats, it doesn’t matter what you do."

Y curled his lips and said, "No, those women around me who are not housewives, should their husbands cheat on them or cheat on them!" Finally, he added, "I want to cheat on them too!"

Ha ha ha ha! The whole audience laughed!

L said: "Didn't they say that? A wife is a wife and a lover is a lover. It is impossible to like only one person in your life?"

I said: "Stop talking about men. , Don’t women want to cheat? It’s just to see if there is a chance!”

Y said: “After marriage, I realized that there seems to be nothing to worry about, unlike a little girl who would think so much. Especially after having given birth to a child, I feel like there is nothing to be embarrassed about! That friend of mine cheated on her husband openly!”

Then our topic shifted from cheating in TV dramas to other people’s gossip. Y said that someone's husband cheated on her, and she refused to get divorced. There were still many flaws in this gossip. We discussed for a long time, such as why the woman didn't get a divorce, what was the attitude of both parents, and what would happen to the children? Wait, I read all the other people's stories, and then said with unfinished content, "If one of the couple must cheat, I will cheat first!"

Then the Millennium Last Strike King L said, "The key is who do you want to cheat with? Do you have the capital to cheat? Don't all men like little girls?"

It hit everyone's pain point at once. We have entered the 30 mark and are about to become middle-aged women. Age is really our fatal injury. Feeling unwilling to do so, I weakly defended myself, "Didn't I say that in the first half of my life? A man who cheats doesn't necessarily have to be a young girl, it may also be a divorce. Some men cheat just for fun, and they only pick young women to do it. There's no need to do that." Responsible, unlike little girls, who are not easy to get rid of!"

Then we argued again about whether men prefer young women or young girls. I have to say that although our relationship is still the same as it was ten years ago, our thoughts have already transcended. We chatted without any scruples. Everyone expressed their opinions happily, and then returned to reality and talked about children.

In general, thirty-year-old women are neither as sophisticated as forty-year-old women, nor as coquettish as twenty-year-old girls. We are both naive and mature, and we still have little understanding of the world. Full of love, we are also very responsible for our families and children. We get together to talk about our current situation, complain about the weird things we have encountered, talk about the trendy TV series that are popular recently, talk about gossip, and talk about our children and husband. Everyone is here to help each other, and when one person is worried, the other person can relieve it. I feel that even if I live to be 80 years old, if I have this group of best friends by my side, it will feel like I have lived forever at 20 years old!