It has been said that if a man and a woman have deep feelings and want to enter the marriage hall. Then you might as well take a trip before that. If the feelings of the two remain the same after the trip, then the future marriage life will be happy and smooth; If not, it's time to split up.

this assertion is arbitrary, but it is not without some truth. During the trip, money and communication will inevitably be involved, and a person's values and consumption views, as well as the bottom line of his principle of getting along with others will be unconsciously revealed one by one. Travel is the easiest time to get tired and relaxed, and your own shortcomings are easily exposed to others, destroying the image you worked hard for in the past.

personally, I think this is true for men and women, and it is also true for friends to travel together. It is easy for friends who are different from the "three views of travel" to travel. When I started typing this article, I just finished the aftertaste summary of this year's Qingming small holiday.

It suddenly occurred to me that in the evening when I came back from Nanjing last May Day holiday, my roommate asked me where I had been.

-"Nanjing Museum, Jiangning Weaving Museum, Zhanyuan, Confucius Temple, Lion Bridge, Presidential Palace ... Except Sun Yat-sen Mausoleum, I have been to all the places that Nanjing can play."

-"how is that possible! How can you finish shopping in three days! "

at that moment, I clearly knew that I would not take a walk-away trip with my roommate unless it was necessary.

after I went to college, my only trip with my roommate was in early April of 16. The three-day holiday after the Qingming holiday is undoubtedly a good time to travel. Roommate W has decided to meet her boyfriend in a different place, and X, who is close to home, chose to go home. Y and I decided to visit our city and learn about some cities where we will live for four years in the future.

as far as my personal habit is concerned, I like to travel early in the morning, so I don't have to worry about traffic jams. Even if I get lost, I have enough time to correct my route. Y, on the other hand, is more accustomed to going out late. What's more, I haven't touched makeup at that time, and I really can't understand the makeup for half an hour and thrush for half an hour. After waiting for cleaning up, it is close to ten o'clock to go out, not to mention many small twists and turns such as traffic jams on the road and changing to the wrong car. By the time the scenic spot is already in the afternoon.

In fact, this trip with Y is not unpleasant, but the difference in time arrangement between the two people always makes people feel a little worried. Traveling to enjoy the scenery is a process of enjoyment from psychology to physiology. I don't want to get into an embarrassing situation because of a little disagreement. So since then, I have avoided traveling with Y.

If roommate Y is just a difference in concept of time, then roommate X and I are fundamentally different in concept. Traveling pays attention to convenience and lightness. I prefer to start traveling with a backpack and a messenger bag. There is no dragging of the suitcase, so you don't have to worry about being crowded with subways and buses. Even after the hotel checks out, you can directly transfer to the station after visiting the scenic spots. X is not like this. She likes to carry a suitcase, even if it's only for three days. She will think about the clothes to wear every day, the shoes to match, and bring some style items for "photographing and forcing". She believes that "traveling is to take beautiful photos". I didn't mean to attack her, but simply felt that we were parallel lines that didn't intersect on the road of travel.

Now, I have found a girlfriend who is suitable for traveling with me. Our "three views on traveling" are surprisingly consistent-going out early and returning late, checking the route in advance, making a good plan, seeing enough scenic spots and tasting local specialties in a limited time. Now, we have traveled all over Nanjing, Suzhou, Yangzhou, Hefei, Zhenjiang, Wuhan and Changsha.

We will go to more places, see more sights and eat more delicious food. Out of Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, into Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan, in the limited student period, enjoy half-price tickets.