On the surface, "Buddhist students" are a clean stream, and they don't fight or rob. After careful consideration, I found that the so-called "Buddhist Sect" has a faint "mourning" flavor. Let me take you to see how to treat Buddhist students. More humor, more love.

what does Buddhism mean?

what is Buddhism? It refers to a kind of attitude towards life that you can do with or without, that is, you don't argue and don't grab, and that everything is guided by fate. After the Buddhism became a fire, the sayings of "Buddhism youth", "Buddhism idolize" and "Buddhism life" were quickly derived. At the same time, a group of netizens on the Internet quickly positioned themselves accurately and labeled themselves as "Buddhist students".

What are the characteristics of Buddhist students

1 Water-stopping class: the class is quiet and quiet, no noise, no raising hands to speak, no raising hands to ask questions, and careful notes are taken whether you understand or not. No noise, no noise, quiet inside.

2 review with fate: when the exam is coming, just open the textbook and have a look at it. Remembering is fate, and remembering just getting into the exam is also a review method of fate.

3 Zen deskmate: The deskmate was unmoved by the collapse of the exam, and was unmoved by the rapid progress of the exam. He silently wrote his homework and handed him a paper towel, without sadness, joy, jealousy and hatred.

4 He who sees through the score: No matter how high or low the test score is, I am unmoved. If the teacher scolds me, I will be taught. If the teacher praises me, he will say thank you. There is no fluctuation in my heart, and my face is always smiling.

5 meditation homework: the homework assigned by the teacher must be finished on time, and the copy that can't be written should also be finished on time. Never question the teacher and don't do any exercises other than homework.

mobile phones of Buddhist students

1. There are few softwares and games in the mobile phones of Buddhist students, which are basically those common softwares, plus some softwares for memorizing words.

2. The photos in the mobile phones of Buddhist students are basically about architecture and food, and there are few selfies.

3. The short messages of Buddhist students are basically verification codes or advertisement short messages; The circle of friends of Buddhist students is basically tweets, with a small number of words, few pictures and almost no selfies.

4. When Buddhist students look at the circle of friends, they seldom comment, and they will have a kind of compassion in the circle of friends, that is, all sentient beings are stupid, and then throw one out at will.

More Buddhists

Buddhists idolize: refers to a kind of quiet inside that fans who have been deeply involved in rice circles, are tired of being torn, and finally want to stay away from the troubles and pursue instead.

Buddhist players: take "playing games for fun" as the absolute principle, don't play games for fun, don't curse when teammates are pitted, smile when equipment is shipped, and be calm without good equipment.

elective courses in Buddhism department: choosing is fate, but not fate ... (For example, I didn't choose C language in my sophomore year, which is fate)

How to treat Buddhist students

1. Setting clear learning goals

Learning goals are the starting point and the final destination of learning. The clearer the goal, the more suitable it is for your own actual situation, and the more successful your child will be in every effort to learn to act. When children experience the joy and harvest of learning in success, their future learning will be more dynamic, and there will be no "indifferent" attitude. The goal need not be too big, it can be achieved step by step, or it can be divided into specific small goals. For example, the first step is to preview the text; The second step is to listen carefully; The third step is to review well after class; The fourth step is to read more extracurricular books to expand your knowledge. Every time a goal is achieved, the child will gain more confidence. This small step of progress is the best effort for the big goal.

2 Learn to appreciate children's advantages and trust their abilities

Many parents have higher requirements for their children, and once their children fail to achieve the expected goals, they will constantly blame them. Without recognition for a long time, children will feel anxious and inferior, and finally they will respond to their parents with an indifferent attitude of "you are happy". I remember reading an article "Be a Applause by the Roadside" before, in which there was a girl named "No.23". Because there were 6 students in the class, she ranked 23 in every exam. Her parents feel very helpless, the girl's grades are not top-notch, and she has no talent. Every time she talks to her friends about her children, she feels very embarrassed. However, when the whole class wrote the composition "Your favorite classmate", they all wrote the name of girl No.23, because she was enthusiastic, trustworthy, optimistic and humorous. Parents don't generalize, understand and accept imperfect children, which will help children's learning attitude and motivation change to a positive direction.

3 Do a good job in time management to get rid of inner laziness

Many children can't concentrate on learning tasks, or their learning efficiency is always extremely low, and they often do their homework until midnight. The reason is that they can't manage their time. The vague understanding of the concept of time will lead children to be more and more procrastinating and lazy in their study. Changing "casual" into "not casual" is an important way to get rid of "Buddhist students" by paying attention to the efficient use of time and striving to improve the efficiency of learning. With regular learning rhythm and organized time arrangement, children can know when to do what they like and when to do what they like, and there are "small fortunes" worth looking forward to every moment in life.

Parents can use "pomodoro technique" to help their children improve their time management ability. The specific way is to set multiple tomato clocks for the tasks to be completed (each tomato clock is set to be 25 minutes). The tomato clocks should concentrate on their work, and they should not be interrupted by anything irrelevant until the tomato clock rings, and then take a short rest for 5 minutes. Rest for 3 minutes at the end of every 4 tomato clocks, and so on. Pomodoro technique can effectively reduce children's sense of time anxiety when studying, and make them concentrate on the tasks to be completed, so that their thinking is clearer. The indifference of "Buddhist" children should arouse parents' sufficient vigilance. Not only should we avoid ways that may cause children's indifferent attitude, but we should also take active "coping" measures after discovering children's indifferent attitude.