It can be said that everyone is eager to have a small happiness of their own.

This little happiness does not belong to how rich it is, nor does it need to be luxurious, as long as we simply love each other without betrayal and separation. Two people work together for each other's future, not afraid of hardships, watching the sunrise and sunset on the road of love, watching the sea of life, and watching each other grow old.

However, the emotional road is like sailing in the sea. The clear skies in Wan Li will not always be clear, but there will often be storms. As a result, the feelings I had expected gave up halfway, and saying that I would not break up became an empty talk. There are many reasons why two people who fell in love at first chose to part ways.

When we devote ourselves wholeheartedly to a relationship, we often give all our efforts and even all our love. Once encountering setbacks, it will not only be a great blow to the soul, but even make a person feel depressed, unable to get rid of the shadow of the previous marriage, unable to get rid of the past and unable to live in the present.

A friend I once knew, when she got married, everyone was present to congratulate her, but what I didn't expect was that she divorced her husband only two years later because she had another woman outside during pregnancy. This is something she can't tolerate or accept. This is a naked betrayal of marriage. The sand in her eyes could not be washed away. Just two months after giving birth, she chose to divorce.

After the divorce, the whole person has completely changed. In the past, she was lively and cheerful, and loved to laugh. After the divorce, she was depressed and lost her vitality. Finally, the family took her to the hospital for examination and was diagnosed with depression.

Later, someone introduced her to a new object, and it didn't end well.

Yes, once she was so eager to create happiness with the person she loved, she never thought that she would leave halfway. When reality contrasts with expectation, pain follows. For a woman who has a strong heart and can get out of the shadow of her last relationship, happiness will come again; But for the sad people who can't get out all the time, their lives will be bleak.

Recently, I have been listening to people around me saying that it is a matter of course that a second-married woman can choose happiness again. In other words, can women be happy and forget the sorrow again as before?

In my opinion, this problem lies with the second-married women, but since they can summon up the courage to find happiness again, it shows that they still expect a sincere love. Therefore, whether the relationship is long-term or not depends more on men, and it is very important.

Whether a second-married woman can have happiness depends on whether a man can do four words: give trust.

Because whether a second-married woman can get happiness depends on whether a man can do four words.

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Genese, 35, once had the same expectations for marriage as the classmates I met above. After marrying her beloved boyfriend, she expects her husband to sing like lyrics? Grow old with you. ?

However, after the marriage, there were problems in their relationship. It's not that her husband has another woman outside, but that janice and her mother-in-law have a conflict. After years of marriage, problems are frequent and there is no sign of easing.

What she fears most is her husband. Every time there is a problem, his husband will help his mother, but he will blame her and think that no matter when her mother is an elder, she should be filial.

Janice knows that elders should be filial, but her mother-in-law often makes too many unreasonable demands, so when she deliberately embarrasses herself, she can't stand it. When she quarreled with her mother-in-law, her husband hit her more than once.

After hitting her every time, her husband promised that it wouldn't happen again, but he would make the same mistake next time.

She didn't believe it and filed for divorce.

As a second-married woman, she was a little scared when she chose a man again. What she is afraid of is that this man's words are very nice and touching, but she can't persist in life, that is, she can't continue to trust herself.

This is a difficult problem.

After that, although she met a man she liked and was urged to get married several times, she was a little hesitant.

At that time, the man who liked Dzhanis realized her predicament and understood her inner hesitation, so he told her clearly: I know it is not difficult for you to like someone again, but it is not easy for you to trust someone again. You are afraid that this time you will repeat the last tragedy. I can give you the confidence to love you. It takes time and you need to prove it to me.

Yes, the second married woman chose her own happiness again. Many people are struggling with the problem of feeding, that is, how to rebuild their trust in a man, and this man can persist in this trust. If it can be done, the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

After all, this second-married woman was hurt once before. She longed for happiness again, but she was also worried that she would encounter previous failures, so she was worried and lost her trust.

And men just want to stick to this trust and prove it to her with practical actions, which is enough.

How do you think men will stick to this trust?

In the words and deeds of the two people's usual contact, as well as in the actual actions of interpreting their relationship, Lu Yao knows horsepower and sees people's hearts for a long time.

If you have a promise, you must fulfill it. What women value most is the care in your heart, not anything else.

Later, Janus found his happiness again and lived a stable life every day.

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I have seen a movie "One sentence is worth ten thousand sentences".

The hero and heroine in the film fell in love with each other at first, but their relationship gradually drifted apart in the middle.

Men always think that women look down on themselves and have no future. They once cooked vinegar fish from the West Lake and other women's favorite foods, and promised to take women out to travel and see the world.

However, when it comes to this topic, women are unhappy.

Because, when this man got married, he said he would take her on a trip, and this wish didn't come true until their children went to primary school. Since then, she has lost trust in her husband and has nothing to say. The two are doomed to divorce.

Trust is the most important link between husband and wife, especially for second-married women, it will be extremely important to re-choose their own happiness.

And the man who can make herself trust again is the one she cares most about in her heart, and the one who can repose her happiness on him again, because the existence of this man makes her feel the colorful world and make her feel happiness again.

How long a man can trust a woman means how much he loves and cares about her, which is better than all sweet words and all external material conditions.

After all, it is very easy for us to start from scratch, but it is very difficult to repair the previous wounds and start over.

Therefore, if you meet a second-married woman in your life, all you can do is give her trust, stick to it, become a habit, embrace her with full love, and make her the happiest woman in the world.

It is not easy to meet, but do it and cherish it.