divorced. On the evening of March 4th, 2116, Selina announced his divorce from Zhang Chengzhong through the social networking site Facebook.
On the evening of March 4th, Selina's husband, Zhang Chengzhong, also published the divorce decision at a similar time.
Selina, born on October 31th, 1981 in Taipei, Taiwan Province Province, is a female singer, actress and host in Taiwan Province, China, and a member of S.H.E, a Chinese women's singing group.
Selina's full text:
A Zhong and I have decided to divorce
Marriage needs the efforts of two people
We are honest with each other
We are also honest with ourselves
We have not done enough
I have not played the role of a good wife
After marriage, I
still enjoy my work
concentrate on my career. Pay
I became a wife
but I didn't become a real good wife
Plus, now I
have changed a lot from what I was before marriage
I used to be a person who only focused on love
But in recent years
my outlook on life has gradually changed
I am no longer as devoted as before. P > Really unhappy
The existing problems still exist
We are determined to change ourselves and each other
We can't
know each other for nine years
There is more affection and friendship between us
We know
This decision is necessary
Because we have lost love
But we don't want to. Friendship is lost
I only have full gratitude to Ah Zhong
who accompanied me through the most painful and vulnerable time
and gave me wholehearted support
Although
the problems between us emerged one by one after I returned to the normal track
fortunately, we are all rational people
We are willing to
face up to the problems. > Divorce
is the result of our repeated thinking and serious discussion
We don't want to make each other the most familiar strangers
We want to be the most important friends of each other for life
In the face of such changes
A Zhong and I will try our best to adapt
We will also be responsible for our decision
For our parents who love us deeply
and those who once blessed me and A Zhong
Really. Nine years later, we are getting divorced because we cherish each other.
I am not romantic or considerate by nature. Nine years ago, I was used to her being kind to me, to some extent, based on her accommodating me and running after me. For a long time, we were in an extraordinary period and everything changed. At that time, our goal was different from that of ordinary couples, and we just wanted to be normal again. Later, I was too busy to manage my life and took marriage for granted.
She is a gourmet traveler who understands life. I am a pragmatic workaholic who panics when I am idle. She likes watching variety shows and drama programs. I lock in news and sports channels, and slowly we become parallel lines. When you can't find an antidote, getting along becomes pressure, and love fades with time, and everything is crumbling. Marriage needs to be adjusted, and I didn't find it or respond; People change. We all do.
I should bear the greatest responsibility for the failed marriage.
We were trapped, helpless and lost. We tried to find the same point again but failed. We communicated but there were still blind spots. We want to get rid of the status quo. I stayed when she mentioned divorce, and she was silent when I mentioned divorce. When we talked about these two words, we were all afraid of making a wrong decision, and the process was uncomfortable. I don't know about the future. At least it's good to give each other space now. Now the relationship is even better, but I'm sorry to worry our family and friends.
Nine years of ups and downs, full of memories, our experience can't be understood by outsiders, and our feelings are still deep. We still know and care about each other and don't want to disappear from each other's lives. We plan to start in another form. Selina is a close friend like family.
In the failed marriage, I lost a wife, but I gained a younger sister who was closer than my own sister.
We have thought about whether it is good to go through the formalities in a low profile, but I'm afraid the actual environment will not allow us to register silently, and it will probably still alarm many people. In order to avoid rumors, surprises and speculations, simply be generous and sincere. Our story has been concerned, thank you for your blessing and concern; We have made a selfish decision now. I'm sorry to surprise or disappoint everyone. Please don't regret it. Being brother and sister makes us happier.
let's Reset now!