In many traditional families, the male is the master and the female is the master. They generally believe that men's position at home is the pillar. They should work hard in their careers and earn money. As for all kinds of affairs at home, they need women to take care of them.
And housework is considered by many people to be exclusive to women. In many families, men don't go into the kitchen all the year round. They never ask about any housework at home, and they don't want to help their wives share housework in the past. A video was posted on the Internet: A man put tin foil on his desktop instead of dishes
A man in Hebei was afraid that his wife would be too tired to brush dishes, so he directly used tin foil instead of dishes to invite his friends to dinner. The man's wife, Ms. Duan, said that her husband used tin foil instead of dishes because he was afraid of his back pain. They have been married for 1 years, and her husband is very careful and feels very happy.
as can be seen in the video, the man took out the tin foil, cut it out to a suitable size, and laid it on the table. Then, all kinds of delicious food appeared, and these delicious foods were not loaded on plates, but poured directly on the tin foil on the table. The man said that he was worried about his wife's backache after washing dishes, so he came up with this method
Later, the man also explained this behavior. It turned out that he was worried that his wife would be unwell because of washing dishes too much, so he came up with this method to reduce the burden of housework for her.
This statement has been recognized by some netizens, who praised such a man for being considerate of his wife and trying to relieve her housework pressure.
And some netizens are blunt about this explanation. Why don't men do the dishes themselves? And questioning men is just an excuse for being lazy.
On the surface, it is true that the man's method can reduce the pressure on his wife to wash dishes, and it seems to be very caring and caring for his wife. However, there are inevitably some problems with this approach.
If you are really worried that your wife will be tired, then he can take on the housework of washing dishes, and according to the video, this is to invite friends to eat at home. And it is so simple to pour all the dishes in soup and water on a piece of tin foil, which is too careless and shows some lack of attention to friends.
But as far as the results are concerned, men can think that their wives will be tired from housework, which is better than many men.
In life, too many men have male chauvinism. They never care whether their wives are tired or not, and whether they need to be taken care of.
in my opinion, family is always a space for two people to maintain, and housework needs to be shared by two people. Only in this way can the atmosphere at home become more and more harmonious, and at the same time, the connection between husband and wife become closer and deeper.