1. Netizens should not reveal their privacy on the first date

My online dating partner and I met in a game. We are now living together, but I will still avoid it. My privacy was leaked, including my past and my ID number.

Because there are too many unknown risks in online dating. If he is unwilling to show too much of himself, I will not show my truest side. Online dating can be seen as the meeting of two good friends. Just like good friends who have not been in contact for a long time meet again. Everyone will remember the new things that have happened to them recently, as if they are getting to know each other again.

I remember that the first time I met him was when he came to me. I was afraid that I would be disappointed when I saw him, so I chose to ask him to come to me in the afternoon. We just went shopping and drank a cup of milk tea on the way. If you feel inappropriate, you can run away at any time.

If it is at night, it will involve eating. The first meeting will definitely not be a bad meal. It will be a big expense for the other party, and it is also at night, so it will happen. There are many unknown things, even related to safety issues.

If he doesn’t show his true self, I will always treat him the same as I do online. After all, netizens meet in real life just to get to know each other again. Only by crossing this hurdle can we call it a date. .

2. Don’t get involved in financial entanglements

I am an anchor. I was actually very scared when I went on a date with a netizen for the first time. The other person was an anchor I often connected with. He A funny game anchor. We both have to broadcast in the evening, so we arranged to meet during the day, because he is familiar with him, we have the same profession, and we have many similar topics, so it is not awkward.

He asked me where I wanted to go in the afternoon. I said it would be better to go shopping. I haven’t bought clothes for a long time. At noon, we had lunch in the mall. I didn't order anything, he ordered everything. Maybe because I said before that I like to eat crayfish, he specially picked a restaurant with special crayfish.

Because I wore gloves to peel shrimps, I couldn’t play with my phone. I spent more time communicating with him and felt that he was very interesting. I said I would pay for lunch because he was the one who came to me after all.

He insisted on AA, saying that we got to know each other again today, and I couldn’t let me suffer for the first meal. When I went to the mall in the afternoon, he paid the bill for me. Later, I transferred the money to him, but he didn’t accept the payment. .

Although he said that he came in a hurry and was embarrassed that he didn't bring a gift, I still felt that I would feel awkward if he spent money. Later I learned that he had met many female anchors offline and was a real scumbag, which made me feel even more uncomfortable. Therefore, when meeting netizens, be sure not to have too much financial involvement with him.

I met and dated my first online friend. Because he was a nouveau riche, the date became a farce. I have known this netizen for a very short time, about two months. He is very good at speaking earthy love stories and is a very interesting person.

He proposed to meet offline, and I agreed. Unexpectedly, he flew from the north to the south to meet me. In order to welcome him, I offered to treat him to a meal of our special delicacies. He kept emphasizing that he had money and should not compete with him to pay for it.

At the dinner table, he said that he had several villas at home and several apartments in Beijing. He would not have to worry about food and drink when collecting rent every month, unlike me who had to go to work. He didn’t want to drive here because he wanted to see me quickly. He has his own industry in the south and knows many big bosses. He can introduce me to them. If I want to start a business, he can help me. After drinking a few glasses of Sprite, he can help me. I have physical contact.

In the end, I listened to him for half an hour, and while I was in the bathroom, I called the police because I suspected that he was involved in a pyramid scheme. As a result, he is really a rich second generation, but he is just a second generation demolition from the village, and then he started some business of his own. How can I put it, his assets may not be as much as the employees of a live broadcast delivery company in our town.

Although I am cautious, I really can’t stand his bragging. It feels unreal. Therefore, I feel that netizens must be cautious when meeting for the first time and would rather miss it than let it go.