You can like reading, sports, shopping, eating, even sleeping, doing housework, cooking, baking, repairing, and so on. You can choose to like many things. You can even like being in a daze, making up, and recycling, but it's hard for a person to like himself. Have you found out?

Some people spend their whole lives, and their lifelong task is to know themselves clearly, and then try to accept themselves and even like themselves. From our dissatisfaction with our body, our voice, our facial features and temperament, we can see that we are so picky about ourselves, and sometimes it is not bad to be picky. At least we can restrain ourselves from becoming more exquisite and beautiful, more intelligent and rational, and close to the infinite truth, but sometimes we are timid and afraid of our performance, and our hearts are beating, and we really don't accept it. Why am I still in such stage fright, still jumping like this, or blushing? In fact, I am not nervous, not nervous, but my face is disappointing.

Bureaucrats in the government are very common and obvious. Although we are all cautious about it and don't want to get involved too much, we are still in an environment. There is only one way for you to escape from the circle, that is, escape, escape, just like the movie Lost in Russia during the Spring Festival. Xú Zhēng said that he would escape.

Actually, sometimes it's not a bad thing to escape. At least you can stay away from the local scene, calm yourself down, at least stay away from the crowd, and stop listening to so many bad voices. At least you can see yourself in the mirror, see your spots, dullness and wrinkles. You can see yourself more clearly and accurately, and know your position and role in the world more clearly. You are useless to others. You have to be loyal to yourself and your family.

People are always moving forward by constantly denying themselves, and people are always seeing themselves by referring to other people's species. Without comparison, there will be no harm. Maybe when they see others, they will feel their own inferiority, and in the process of communicating with the world, we always run into a wall, so we want to escape, thinking that all our troubles can be solved by escaping, and we can fight against these boring bureaucracy.

Come to a gate with a leader. You can punch in. But the leader didn't bring his card, so I tried it with my card, and it didn't work. My card doesn't apply here. So he said, ask the security guard, which means to let the security guard open the door. But what can I say? I still can't talk about it. One of the security guards is new and doesn't know the password at all. The other said that they really couldn't open it because the password had changed and they didn't know it, so I begged for a few minutes. The leader was also very helpless over there, but he made a phone call.

I thought I'd register at the main entrance and help him open the door, so I went to the main entrance, scanned the code, made a phone call, registered and got the certification. At this time, I saw that the small door had opened, and the leader came in and asked me for a hand to signal my situation. I laughed, because I couldn't see each other's faces through two masks (I wore two masks), but I knew this one. I registered in a few minutes, then handwritten the information and took my temperature before I came into this institution.

this is really an organ. after fifteen years of working in the system, I didn't understand the meaning of the organ, and I gradually understood the meaning of the organ. On the one hand, an organ is an organization and a team. On the other hand, the more extended meaning, the broader meaning is a kind of "organ", which is an uninteresting game with rules and hidden rules.

1 leaders have authority, and they can't go everywhere step by step, and they can't be the same as ordinary people. So if he wants to go through this door, you have to open the door. He can not register or scan the code. No registration, no temperature measurement, no handwritten information to enter the office. But we ordinary soldiers just can't do it. You should do it step by step and be serious. Even if you come in and out here every day, even if people's security know that you are a worker here, it won't work! I'm sorry, please cooperate during the special period. If you don't cooperate, what other basic demeanor do you have as an office worker? Isn't it? That's why you have to swallow it.

2 I can't wait on the leader. I have never been a person who wants to do something big. I have no pursuit in the workplace, really, so don't ask me why I came to this environment. Can I say that I came in because I was ignorant? I just entered this office in a daze after graduating from college. This is really a very secret passage, which makes everyone feel like entering a maze and can't walk out. I know that many people in the office, like me, have no pursuit and ideas, just want to sit down and get to work on time every day. Don't ask me to work overtime, rush about, etc. Of course, I don't want those honors and status, etc. These are some. Especially nowadays, young people have more and more ideas of their own, which is really self-centered, because they will never do anything that makes them unhappy or dissatisfied, so they will firmly implement their own ideas and methods, quit if they are unhappy, and just quit. It is common for people in the system to resign.

Now, those who turn around the leader's ass do have a lot of information about resources and many possibilities for promotion, but they are really minions, tired and hard-working, that is, the work and life secretary of the leader, so they don't have their own time and fun and lose the meaning of life. Many young people with ideas will not enter this institution. They all choose to start their own businesses and have their own world. So I don't like what I bring with me. I don't want to have no time of my own.

I feel that I am in the wrong line all the time. Really, I am almost 41 years old now, and I just find out what I like, what I can accept, what I am good at and what I am unwilling to do. I really shouldn't be in this industry, but after the epidemic in this extraordinary period this year, all industries have no income and no jobs, and they are worried about losing their jobs. However, only the salaries of public officials are paid on time, which makes many people more aware that this profession is stable and they will receive their salaries when the time comes.

In fact, I understand that even some elderly people may not think about such topics, whether they like themselves or not, and whether they accept themselves. Their lives are too ordinary, too dull and too ordinary. They are just the most basic survival requirement of a person, that is, the satisfaction of material types, that is, eating and drinking Lazarus. Such people are basic human beings and the most stratum form, and they are not bad.

The progress of the world needs ideas, ideas, creativity and innovation, so it is all driven by people who pursue the spiritual world on the material basis. However, there are also some people who are not satisfied with the material foundation. Many, many people have a hard time, but they still study the richness of the spiritual world under the condition of not having enough to eat and not being warm.

Some elderly people, even when they are very old, don't think about their favorite topics, so many people will never understand why some people are always entangled, entangled, asking questions, puzzled, trying to find answers, and there are many puzzled answers about their hearts. Many people have never understood it all their lives. People often say that people are rarely confused. In fact, confusion depends on what things are. If there are some irrelevant things, it is natural to be casual. Don't care too much and let it go. However, we should pay attention to some things. If we are confused, we should stay awake and alert.

It doesn't seem to matter whether you like to accept yourself, whether you are confused about the past or whether you don't like to accept yourself at the end of your life. What matters is that you have lived your whole life, and you have to face death. Death is a part of life and an important part. You have completely experienced the life your parents gave you, this vivid body. You should protect him and take care of your body. This is the minimum respect and respect for life.

Therefore, some people are cruel and often feel dissatisfied with what their parents have been given, such as their body hair, ecology, figure and skin. I think these natural things let them keep their natural best, because you are the only you, a unique you, and an out-of-print you in the world. Only you can call it you. If you go for plastic surgery, beauty treatment, surgery, or other changes to your body, it is a strong and great disrespect for yourself, especially for your parents' answers, so as long as we are healthy, it is good. Just like the freckles on my face, I obviously didn't have them at birth, but there are still several versions about how they appeared when I was a teenager the day after tomorrow. My mother once said that they were sunburned and didn't pay attention to sun protection. Mom also said that it was because when I was a child, I ate a sparrow that was shot down from the sky by my uncle, and when I was barbecued, I got freckles.

These small spots have never disappeared or decreased on my face. Even when I was a child, my mother bought me a potion to get rid of freckles. She used a thin toothpick to order a little potion and then carefully touched my freckles. I still remember that burning feeling. I knew that my mother wanted to be beautiful, and I accepted it and cooperated with my mother, but later my mother found it useless and gave up.

when I grew up, I used a lot of freckle removing products, made facial masks and made sunscreen all year round, but I found that none of the spots on my face were missing or getting smaller. Even if you use the best skin care products and essences, it is useless, at least for me, so I no longer hope that the spots will decrease-I tried to accept my face.

I began to try to accept myself. I began to try to accept my body, accept the flesh on my body, and look at the fat on the inner thighs, the fat on my face and the fat on my waist. I tried to accept them all. I try to reconcile with my body and stop torturing my body and stomach.

after forty years of running-in with my body, I began to understand that I can't be right with my body. When I eat less to lose weight, when I start to gird my waist to lose weight, my body will give a warning and my body will be abnormal. I still want to maintain the characteristics of a woman, so I can't lose too much weight. When I started to pay attention to my diet, I started to eat only one or two or three kinds of food, but my body still couldn't accept it, so I still had to give a warning, so I had to eat carefully again.

I can't eat very little to lose weight. Although I will lose weight, it's all lost water. I didn't lose weight healthily, but I starved myself to get less water.

just like losing weight, it is a topic for women all their lives, and it will never end. Unless those individual women really don't lose weight and eat and drink at will, some women really don't need to lose weight because others are never fat.

In fact, some people treat themselves harshly. Whether it's the requirements of the details of life or the rules of diet and rest, they are very strict in implementing their own inner standards. Such people usually have a better appearance. The world is fair. Relatively speaking, you should eat when you are hungry and drink when you are thirsty. If you don't eat, you will be hungry, and if you don't drink, you will be thirsty.

So, if you want to maintain your life, your body organs need energy to work and maintain various signs of life, and you have to eat. If you want to continue your life, you have to stop eating, so eating is a normal state for you and cannot be changed. Even dieters have to eat, but the quantity, content and speed of eating are different.

as long as you are eating, it is difficult for you to lose weight successfully. Because people are greedy and have irresistible temptation to delicious food, we can eat as little as possible, but we can't help eating. And we ourselves draw our own conclusions and conclusions about our physical characteristics in the experience of success or failure again and again. For example, myself, when I made up my mind to eat less dinner and lose weight today, I was able to control my meal in the morning, but once I got to the evening, I couldn't do it. I forgot all about my military order in the morning, and I couldn't stop eating and eating a lot at dinner. This is the famous change of mind.

I am the one who can't make a military order. Sometimes I feel that I might as well keep quiet and just know it in my heart. Don't make an appointment with others to lose weight, just lose weight quietly and silently, and write a daily diary, which is simply to record the daily account of eating. Perhaps the effect will be better. I usually can't lose weight when I publicize it with great fanfare.

I'm the kind of person who often shouts to lose weight in the morning, and I control breakfast and lunch well, but dinner is the most difficult thing for me to control, so I must insist on eating right for dinner. As long as one dinner lasts, the next day and the third day will be much better. Because I ate less tonight, after more than ten hours on an empty stomach, I woke up in the morning with a feeling of volunteering, and I needed to eat something to supplement it. At this time, eating will not make me fat or accumulate fat. So a good dinner is the key to the success or failure of the next day, and it is also the key to the success or failure of this day.

a good dinner determines a good start for the next day. A good dinner is also the successful end of the day, so a dinner is the key role of connecting the preceding with the following. Manage yourself, manage your dinner, and every day. Women will gradually like themselves. Isn't it?