(1) Personal Etiquette

Appearance refers to a person’s appearance and is the appearance of a person’s spiritual outlook. A person's hygiene habits and clothing are closely related to the formation and maintenance of dignified and generous appearance

1. Hygiene: Cleanliness and hygiene are the key to beauty and a basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how good you look or how luxurious your clothes are, if your face is full of dirt and your body smells bad, it will definitely destroy a person's sense of beauty. Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits, wash their face and feet before going to bed, brush their teeth in the morning and evening, and after meals, wash their hair and bathe frequently, and pay attention to grooming and changing clothes frequently. Don't "clean up" in front of others. For example, picking your teeth, picking your nostrils, picking earwax, manicuring your nails, rubbing dirt, etc. These behaviors should be done away from others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. Keep a certain distance when talking to others, don't speak too loudly, and don't spit at people's mouth.

2. Clothing: Clothing reflects a person’s cultural quality and aesthetic taste. Specifically speaking, it must be natural, appropriate, coordinated and generous, and must abide by certain established norms or principles. Clothing must not only adapt to one's own specific conditions, but also must always pay attention to the dressing requirements of the objective environment and occasion. That is, dressing should give priority to the three elements of time, place and purpose, and strive to be consistent with time in all aspects of dressing. , location, and purpose.

(2) Speech

Speech as an art is also an important part of personal etiquette.

1. Politeness: The attitude should be sincere and cordial; the voice should be appropriate and the tone should be calm and steady; respect others.

2. Terms: honorifics, words that express respect and politeness. Such as "please", "thank you", "sorry" in daily use, the word "you" in the second person, etc. When we meet for the first time, it is called "Jiu Yang"; when we have not seen each other for a long time, it is called "Jiu no see"; when we ask for criticism, it is called "advice"; when we trouble others, it is called "bothering"; when we ask for convenience, it is called "borrowing light"; when we ask someone to do something for us, it is called "please", etc. We must work hard to raise people. It has become a habit to use honorifics. Nowadays, the polite language advocated in our country is ten words: "Hello", "Please", "Thank you", "Sorry", "Goodbye". These ten words embody the basics of speaking civility. Language form.

(3) Manners

1. Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's personality, cultivation and civilized qualities. Therefore, when talking, first of all. Both parties should look at each other and listen to each other, and should not look around, read books or newspapers, look tired, or yawn continuously. Otherwise, it will give the impression of being absent-minded, arrogant and unreasonable.

2. Standing posture: standing. It is the most basic human posture and a kind of static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, with the center of gravity on the two front feet, chest raised, abdomen drawn, head raised, and shoulders relaxed or relaxed. Cross your body in front of your body, look straight up, and smile. Do not bend your neck, slant your waist, or bend your legs when standing. In some formal occasions, it is not appropriate to put your hands in your pockets or cross them on your chest, and do not make small movements subconsciously. , which not only looks restrained and gives people a sense of lack of self-confidence, but also loses the dignity of manners.

3. Sitting posture: Sitting is also a dignified and graceful sitting posture, which will give people an elegant and elegant look. Stable, natural and generous beauty. The correct sitting posture should be: the back is straight and the shoulders are relaxed; for women, the knees can be separated a little, but not too wide, generally no more than shoulder width, and the hands should be placed naturally on the knees. Or on the armrest of the chair. In formal occasions, you should sit gently and gently, and when you stand up, you should not sit up suddenly, which will cause the table and chairs to rattle and create an embarrassing atmosphere. No matter what kind of sitting posture, the upper body should be kept upright, such as As the ancients said, "Sit like a bell." If you stick to this, no matter how you change your body posture, it will be graceful and natural.

4. Walking posture: Walking is the main action in human life. Posture is a kind of dynamic beauty. "Walking like the wind" means walking on the water to describe a brisk and natural gait. The correct walking posture is: light and steady, with your chest upright, your head lifted, your shoulders relaxed, and your eyes level. Smile and swing your arms naturally

(4) Appearance

Appearance is appearance, which consists of hair style, face and all the skin of the human body that is not covered by clothing. It is personal appearance. The basic elements. Keeping clean is the most basic, simple and common way of grooming.

Men should pay attention to the cleanliness of the eyes, nose, mouth, beard, nails, etc. "Details" can also determine everything.

Students in their prime are naturally beautiful and generally do not need to wear makeup. Professional women, especially those in social situations, often wear makeup. On certain occasions, appropriate beauty and makeup is a form of courtesy and a reflection of self-respect and respect for others.

The shade of makeup should be chosen according to different times and occasions. In normal times, it is advisable to wear light makeup and pay attention to nature and harmony. It is not advisable to wear heavy makeup with overpowering fragrance. When attending social activities such as parties and dances, you should wear heavy makeup appropriately.

(5) Hairdressing

Hairstyle is an extremely important part of appearance. Neat hair and decent hairstyle are the basic requirements for hairdressing. Neat, decent and generous hair style can easily leave people with a refreshing aesthetic feeling, while unkempt hair will inevitably remind people of beggars.

The choice of hairstyle should be based on the principles of naturalness, generosity, neatness and beauty. It is necessary to observe the fashion trends of hairstyles and not blindly follow the trends. The most important thing is to take into account your age, gender, occupation, Personality, hobbies and facial features.

(6) Clothing

⑴ Follow the three internationally accepted "TPO" principles:

T (Time) means time, that is, dress in time. Not only must we take into account seasonal changes and the temperature difference between morning and evening, but we must also pay attention to the requirements of the times and try to avoid wearing clothing that is incompatible with the season.

P (Place) means occasion, that is, dress accordingly. Wear professional attire when going to work, and solemn formal attire on important social occasions. Those who are disheveled and have low-cut and exposed backs are really not suitable to enter solemn places such as courts and museums.

O (Object) represents the wearer and the purpose of dressing, that is, dressing should suit oneself. You should choose clothing based on the nature of your work, the specific requirements of social activities, and your own image characteristics.

⑵ Pay attention to coordination

It must be coordinated with age and body shape. The miniskirt and white stockings look innocent and lively on the girl. Thin and fat people should not wear clothes that are too tight to avoid highlighting their imperfections.

Be consistent with professional identity. People with a certain status do not have much freedom in clothing. People in administration, education, health, finance, telecommunications and service industries are required to wear clothing that is steady, dignified and refreshing, giving people a sense of trustworthiness. Public relations ladies should not wear overly sexy clothes, otherwise they will cause trouble or even harm. The clothing of politicians and public figures often becomes a topic of media concern, and should not be taken lightly.