And people are advanced animals, the only difference is shame, and shame is the product of the ruler's education, it is not human nature. In my cognitive world, the abnormal product of blind date is definitely a cancer in the process of human evolution. To tell you the truth, I hate blind date. Personally, I think that even finding a girlfriend needs the help of external forces. This person has either an IQ problem or a low EQ.
The current blind date market feels like a pimp, which is not only chaotic but also full of pits. I saw a post about blind date in Weibo yesterday: It said that a woman had a meal with the man on a blind date and spent 5,000 yuan, and the returnee man who was blind date with her ran away without paying. My first feeling was that this was a blind date routine.
This is the general situation of both men and women. Returned men live abroad with an annual income of more than100000 USD. Girls work in a domestic enterprise, and their monthly salary is five or six thousand.
The story is roughly like this. This woman was introduced by a colleague and went on a blind date with a man. They met for dinner for the first time. The boy asked her to choose a place and boasted that she could choose at will without saving him money. So the girl picked a Cantonese restaurant and ordered ten shrimp sashimi at 298 yuan each. In addition, she also ordered mussels and bird's nest, totaling 4,879 yuan. When ordering food, the man reminded the woman that shrimps don't need that much, two are enough, but the woman said that one bite is not enough to eat and ordered ten. After ordering the food, the man chatted with her for a few words, didn't eat the meal, and ran away without paying for the meal. After returning home, he directly blacked out the girl. The boy ran away, and the girl was in a hurry. She wanted to return the food she ordered, but the store refused, so she had to pay the bill by credit card. When she got home, she couldn't figure it out, so she asked the boy for money through the introducer and forced the leftovers to be sold to the introducer.
If the story comes to an abrupt end when the girl pays the money, I think the girl should be good and aggressive. Ordering so many dishes, whether based on testing each other's sincerity or being willing to eat so high, should pay for it yourself. I can pay for it and chase after it. Obviously, I have no choice but to pay for it. I want to believe that it has nothing to do with feelings, mainly because I really feel bad about the money and feel that I have suffered a loss. I think it's like having to finish your gun on your knees. Don't be a shameless person if you can't hold your face.
That's what happened. Originally, news like this was nothing to mention in the powerful information flow, but it was at best a joke after dinner, but it was not that simple. After tracking the ins and outs of this information, I found that it was probably an elaborate fake news, but no matter whether it was true or not, when men and women met for dinner for the first time on blind date, they said: women should not catch a man as a wallet, and men should not casually brag about it, and people would just click and run away. Personally, I think that a truly popular person understands that friends need mutual respect and understanding. Others earn more than you in a month, and the hard work behind them is definitely more than you. He is willing to give you money because he thinks you deserve it, not because he is stupid. The same is true for women. There are always women who say that if you want to find a partner, you must find someone who is willing to spend money for yourself. Please see if you are worth the money for you first. No one's money is blown by the wind.
It is said that when the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds! This introducer is drunk, too. Don't such familiar classmates and friends understand his psychology of choosing a spouse? Also, since this woman is a colleague, don't you know her nature? Since everything is in a fog, you shouldn't be an introducer. No matchmaker has ever been a vegetarian. It seems that this month is really beyond your ability.
This kind of thing, hype, sometimes comes out in line with people's social mind. Nowadays, a lot of news exaggerates hype, and modern people are used to judging others. If this is false news, we can only say that our minds are simple and ridiculous. If it's true, maybe the girl just wants to see if the turtle on a blind date is genuine, and maybe she thinks she is worth the price. This is everyone's misunderstanding in cognition, which is only caused by the differences between men and women.
When friends invite guests to dinner, they should follow one point: when others treat you, if the person who treats you is richer than you, you should order according to your own consumption level. If the person who treats you is poorer than you, try not to let him treat you. You don't lack that meal. True friendship lies not in eating but in the heart.
Finally, I want to say: no matter how high your face value is, a blind date meal costs 5000 yuan, and it will be ugly to eat! Anyone in the world who has a little brain will know what degree is, otherwise how to pretend to be forced.