We need such people at work and put them in the right jobs, which will give full play to their advantages, not only establish a good image in front of customers, but also promote the atmosphere of the company. This is the so-called catfish effect!
However, people who are impatient must have a rational and powerful partner behind them, otherwise it is easy to do bad things, and success will be Xiao He and failure will be me!
My former boss is such a person. He has a vicious business vision and is always good at finding business opportunities. However, he is impulsive and impatient. When he finds business opportunities, he is quick to operate, and second, he will place a large order. This was really good in the early stage and brought huge economic benefits to the company!
However, people who are impatient will be lacking in thinking, and they will keep pushing forward, and many risks in the later period will not be seen! At this time, it is the boss's wife's aftermath. It is necessary to control and collect, so as to minimize the subsequent risks!
So the right person does the right thing! It is easy for people who are impatient to have problems when they are alone. After all, life is not always smooth sailing, but it may be a perfect match if there are teams and people to cooperate!
Everything varies from person to person, and there must be something reasonable about it! The advantage of being impatient! What the final development looks like depends on his environment!
Everything happens for a reason! Everything is karma!
Temper is hot, tired, and hungry. Temper can make you angry, but you can't change it. It's because you encounter injustice, regardless of the consequences, and you don't surrender when you die, and you are not convinced. If you suffer losses, you will be angry. As the saying goes, illness comes like a mountain, and I am angry like a mountain. This is very bad. When you are young, you are more interested. When you are old, you still have something to learn. What do you want? What to do? I won't leave my tail behind, and I won't do anything. My hateful temper has brought me a lot of trouble and suffering. I have a decent style and am brave. This is the bottom line of being a man. I won't talk to anyone, seek truth from facts, and won't curry favor with others. It is the biggest shortcoming in this life. I have suffered a lot and never admit defeat. It is hateful and sad.
As the saying goes, "You can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient". People who are impatient are about newborn calves and stubborn.
If they are restless, confused and confused, they will be impulsive and prone to problems.
When someone reaches a certain age, he will see through life and death, and then he will have a fear of life and not be eager to pursue things around him.
I just graduated and went to work in a state-owned enterprise. When I was a student, I was top student. I was quick-witted in learning, but I was impatient and careless. Work is for family and life, and it revolves around many colleagues, so this is actually a prison for interpersonal communication.
Once I went out to bid with my boss, and I had prepared all the information. Just when all the cooperation conditions were discussed logically, I hurriedly wanted to let the tenderer sign the contract, but I found that I had forgotten the most important appendix, and I tore a hole when I was in a hurry to get the information. It's too late to get it back, and the bidding for this project will have to end on the same day, so in desperation, another bidding factory can only take this project. When the assessment was deducted last month, it was also severely criticized by the leaders.
Second,
This time, my uncle, as a brave entrepreneur, is excellent. But it is still because of impatience that the company has been unable to achieve a qualitative leap after ten years.
He doesn't like the way people under his staff do things unhurriedly, so many things can only be done by themselves.
On this day, as usual, he was anxious to urge suppliers to supply materials to ensure that his construction period could go smoothly. But all the ingredients supplied must be strictly examined and approved by that factory.
In order not to delay time, he directly found the manager of the production workshop through personal relationship, and crossed the process of leadership approval and delivery signature.
After being discovered by that factory, the shipping department directly complained about the workshop management and was punished.
Third,
Maybe some people think that parents are also one of such impatient people. !
Disciples mentioned that "parents should not slow down when they call". As children, we should fully understand the anxiety of parents.
When parents urgently need you to do something or ask you something, it is lateral love, because people will handle things differently in different times.
It is understandable to be anxious about the right person.
It is a shortcoming that people do things slowly, which is easy to cause lazy procrastination; It is also a disadvantage that people are too impatient to do things, which is easy to offend people and produces many uncontrollable problems.
When you are free, you might as well think about it, how to weigh it, and applying shortcomings to certain things is advantages.
We must learn to grow in continuous learning, in order to get more sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.
Haha, I'm a hothead. I can't sleep well even when things drag on. I must be prepared at least in advance to be practical, so I can't understand those who "take your time". Anyway, I'm the kind of person who will panic.
I feel that even if my temper is urgent, I should clear my mind before I do it, otherwise it will really get busier and more chaotic.
But I also have friends who are quick-tempered in slow motion. They are very urgent but slow-moving, so when they do things, they will see that TA is busy ...
I don't think it's a bad thing to be impatient. Depending on how you treat it, people who are impatient are mostly responsible for things. Because they are nervous about the progress of things, they want to finish them in a short time.
Most of my friends are short-tempered, and they can do things well, because only when they are nervous will they have pressure, and only when they have pressure will they have motivation.
It is suggested that impatient friends make a list before they are busy doing things, which ones should be done first and then, and distinguish the importance and priority, so that they will not be so flustered when they are busy formally.
Everything is divided into two, and impatience is both an advantage and a disadvantage, both good and bad. It is a fact that an impatient person may not make a mess of things when doing things. It is true that he is impatient and impulsive, but he often has urgent talents, improvises and has rich experience on the spot! Just like saving people in the water, people who can't swim will never dare to go into the water to save people, no matter how anxious they are, because they understand that jumping down will either be saved or fed fish!
On the contrary, a chronic patient is taller than an acute one! In this era of quick hands and slow hands, nothing pays attention to efficiency and speed, everything is stable, and it is cool to plan well and come back to the day lily! Throughout the 40-odd years of reform and opening up, there are certainly plans, but more is to cross the river by feeling the stones, and to explore all the way through the failure of exploration until success, so that today's mountains and rivers are rich and strong! Isn't it?
So, what happened to the impatient people? My question and answer is that everyone is the same. The brainless impatience is not worth promoting, but the more intelligent impatience, the better!
People who are impatient usually make mistakes and offend people, but they are usually anxious and not dry, and they can do things rigorously, and they can also be orderly.
If you are impatient, you will easily make mistakes and offend people if you are at work, and it is difficult for impatient people to succeed in doing things.
First of all, please allow me to ha ha a smile!
But this smile is absolutely well-intentioned, without any irony.
The so-called "impatience" is only a temporary behavior, not a character. Since it is not a character, it cannot determine the so-called fate.
Since you asked such a question, you should be an impulsive person, otherwise you wouldn't ask this question.
As for saying that "impatience" is not a character, there is a saying that rabbits will bite when they are anxious.
But if you don't control your long-term impatience, you will develop a so-called "impulsive" character.
Since you can realize this problem, you should learn to control it. In high school, my head teacher advised me to take a deep breath from 1 to 10 before doing anything, and then see if I want to do it again.
In fact, this counting is a kind of buffer, which slows down your brain and then your body.
As for the frequent impatience, please take a look at Zhang Fei in the romance of the Three Kingdoms. This headstrong person is a model of this kind of personality that evolved from impatience to "impulsiveness".
The end result is that he died later than Guan Yu, but he died very cowardly. Of course, this is not a compliment to him, but that there are two brothers around him who can control him.
In reality, an impatient person is a compliment if he works seriously and rigorously.
On the other hand, if you are careless, you will have no friends and become the tail of the crane in the team.
Therefore, it is good to see a doctor early. Now that you know it, you will learn to control it.
The sign of a person's adulthood is to learn to control yourself, don't you think?
A quick-tempered person is one who is anxious to deal with things quickly when he meets them again, reflecting a fast pace. For skilled things, it may be handled quickly. However, when they encounter unfamiliar or thorny problems, they have no patience to think thoroughly, and often rush around in a rash, or impulsively decide how to deal with them, which makes things unsatisfactory and leads to complaints and regrets. Therefore, it is suggested that people who are impatient should exercise more patience, not be too impatient when things happen, and learn to slow down a small step and think more, so as not to solve things perfectly.
Personality is a constant and stable rational and emotional tendency of people towards things, and there is no difference between good and bad, which is different from moral character. Different personalities have different strengths or weaknesses. For example, a quick temper is straightforward and easy to get along with, but it may be unbearable to get angry and get angry. On the contrary, most chronic people are kind, easy to get along with and pay attention to quality, but they are slow. Extroverts are more lively and cheerful, while introverts are stable and deep. It's really different. An acute temper is the same as an acute temper, and a chronic temper is the same as a chronic temper. Although they have the same personality, they are in conflict. The former may cause a tsunami, while the latter will cause endless trouble. On the contrary, if you are quick-tempered and slow-tempered, if you can pay attention to complementarity, you will often combine rigidity with softness, be quick and slow, and be dynamic and static, so as to complement each other.