I often travel alone. I remember that when I traveled to the Three Gorges for the first time, I was afraid all the way, afraid to say or ask, afraid of meeting bad guys and liars. On the first night of boarding the ship, I was assigned to a woman younger than me. I was very wary and didn't take the initiative to talk to her. Instead, this person kept asking questions, and slowly became worried and scared. After the whole trip, I not only If I'm traveling in China, I often leave on my own. Nowadays, when I am away from home, there are many enthusiastic people and good people. Many photos are taken by passers-by, especially young people. Looking for them to take photos has a strong sense of beauty, beauty and texture, and I will try my best to travel around the great rivers and mountains of the motherland when I can walk.

I think it is easier to travel alone, without psychological pressure, so that my body and mind can be satisfied to the greatest extent.

Let me tell you something about my experience: I once went to Tibet by train alone. I usually booked accommodation in advance, and this time I booked a youth tour. When the train passed Qinghai Lake, I met a northeast elder sister who was also alone, so she asked to follow me. I thought she was nice and agreed. When I got off the train, I went straight to the Youth Hostel I booked, lived together, put together a car that night, and took the Linzhi Line the next day. She followed, and after playing for three days, she didn't want to stay in the Youth Hostel again, resulting in differences. Later, I went to the Everest Line and she didn't want to go, so we parted. If you go out with friends, you can only give in and compromise, or you can't get along when you come back. But I'm not willing to compromise.

I live in Youth Hostel because it's easy for me to travel alone and carpool here. All the people who live in Youth Hostel are backpackers, who are easy to get along with and play together with the same goals. If they have different goals, they can be separated. There is no psychological burden at all. Everyone can make a meal together, just like old friends.

I have traveled alone for many times, and sometimes I have encountered some situations. For example, when I was in the Three Gorges in Yichang last year, I returned to take the wrong boat and met a couple selling fruit to send me to the nearest station, or I would have to be in a daze by the water. I firmly believe that there are still many good people.

Of course, it's good to have a suitable traveling companion. If not, just set off alone, take a different journey and enjoy a beautiful scenery alone.

If you don't have a suitable traveling companion, you might as well go out alone. If you travel with an unsuitable traveling companion, you might as well not go out.

Cool girls really have too many tears. When you go out with your husband, unpleasant things may happen and ruin a trip that should have been pleasant, let alone others.

Cool girls and their husbands often have disputes during the trip. Sometimes the meal time is delayed, sometimes the food is not delicious, and sometimes it is difficult to choose the scenic spots, all of which are trivial matters.

I can't help it. There are always disagreements.

Sometimes a little teaser makes a bigger and bigger noise. Be gentle and courteous, and go to hell at this time.

Lady image? Ha ha!

But it is these little things that affect the happiness of travel. Once there is a dispute, it may cause a big war and let one side break out completely.

The war of words has escalated. How can two irate people travel?

If you walk with an unsuitable traveling companion and feel wronged by yourself and others are wronged, it is really boring.

Nowadays, people have their own personalities, their own thoughts and ideas, and their views and attitudes towards things are different. Not to mention these big things, there will be differences in time and ways to deal with some small things.

Disagreements are inevitable. What should we do if we encounter differences?

Give in and tolerate yourself, no problem. However, if you are patient and generous every time, is it a little uncomfortable to be so wronged by your trip?

It is not so easy to find a suitable traveling companion.

As for being alone, there is no need to say more about the benefits. Just being free is the top of all the inconveniences, not to mention enjoying and thinking about life undisturbed.

Traveling alone does have some problems, especially for girls, safety is the biggest problem.

In terms of physical and physiological structure, girls have an innate disadvantage over boys, which is a reality, and in society, girls are more vulnerable, which is also a reality, which is no exception in any country.

At the same time, in the secular eyes, a girl who travels alone will have different views. The development of society is like this, and no one can stop others from having opinions.

However, I managed to find a travel companion, and as a result, there was always some friction during the trip, which made me feel laborious and laborious. It was really not as good as traveling alone.

Other people's opinions, put them aside. Pay more attention to safety issues. Under the very good public security environment in our country at present, the problem is not big.

I have been traveling alone, whether to Tibet or Xinjiang. I like to do whatever I want, and I like to leave when I say it.

Last year, I traveled to Lingkong Mountain with a friend. My friend is very rich, and his family got 5 million yuan for demolition. After coming down from Lingkong Mountain, we decided to stay in Biyuan for one night. As a result, we had a disagreement on choosing a hotel. I mean, it doesn't matter if we choose a clean hotel with better conditions and spend one or two hundred yuan. But he must find a very cheap hotel. I couldn't beat him. I found a room for 30 yuan a night. It was very cheap, but the room was as dirty as hell. I'm afraid the quilt hasn't been changed for half a year. What's more, there is no bathroom. I have to go to the end of the building to go to the toilet in the middle of the night. The room is not well soundproofed, and I can hear fart next door. I didn't fall asleep all night. My rich friend did sleep and snore.

Later, he asked me to travel with him, but I excused myself from going. I think it's better to sleep at home when traveling with someone I can't talk about and can't think of.

If there is no suitable traveling companion, it is better to travel alone. What do you think? My answer is yes.

I'd rather walk alone if I'm traveling with an inappropriate companion. Traveling is a happy thing. You must travel with people who share the same interests, or you will lose interest in traveling and spoil the fun. I love traveling very much. I used to travel with friends and colleagues, but I found that it was really difficult to adjust. Some people like natural scenery, some people like human history, some people like delicious food, some people like to be picky about accommodation, some people are not punctual, and what's more, they make irresponsible remarks about organizers, so they must go with people with like-minded interests. I'd rather go alone if I don't have the right traveling companion.

I like to travel to places with few people and beautiful scenery. I often make my own itinerary. Generally, there are only two or three friends who travel with me. The most important thing is that we have the same hobbies and interests. We will climb dangerous peaks together, sleep in the desert together, travel to the plateau together, drive the grassland together, and be moved by the perseverance of ourselves and our companions after conquering dangerous peaks together. No one is picky about the quality of the diet, and no one complains about the people who plan the trip because of the poor accommodation. Everyone will think of this small team and try not to influence others because of themselves.

Again, traveling is a happy thing. Be sure to travel with the right people. Let's just say that. If there is anything wrong, I hope my friends will correct me.

Part of the pictures in the article come from online search.

I am a post-60s, and I like to travel freely. After retirement, I travel for several months every year, which has lasted for more than five years. At the beginning, I also wanted to travel with my partner. During the trip, some people talked, others shared the beautiful scenery and happiness, mainly taking care of each other. After a circle of contact, there is no suitable one. So I started my solo trip with a person, a suitcase and a backpack.

Some friends saw me go to some places, took some beautiful pictures and ate some delicious food, so they told me to shout to go with me when I traveled next time, and to go with me when I contacted; And when I went out to live in a youth hostel bed and take the bus, my friends thought that my poor travel was too hard and said that I couldn't go.

From then on, I gave up the idea of companionship. After several years, I not only adapted to a person's travel, but also enjoyed it.

One person completed G3 18 Sichuan-Tibet, from Chengdu to Shigatse. Take a bus where there is a bus. If there is no connection, contact carpooling.

A person went to Xinjiang, from Kanas in northern Xinjiang to Tashkurgan in Pamirs in southern Xinjiang.

A person went to the provinces, municipalities, autonomous regions and special administrative regions he wanted to go to.

When a person lives in a youth hostel bed, the cost of carpooling and spelling meals is not high, and he can also get a lot of information about his fellow travelers, which is real-time and more practical than the online strategy.

Sometimes, if you live in the same youth brigade or share a car, you will get a companion. If you are suitable, you can walk together for a few days. If you are not suitable, you will be dismissed. No one knows anyone.

Therefore, if there is no suitable traveling companion, it is really not as free as traveling alone.

A person is not so tired, unless everyone has the same economy and three views. A person is free, eating, drinking and sleeping without thinking so much, which is very relaxed. Taking photos is not a problem at all, just bring a Bluetooth selfie stick. Put two self-portrait photos of my trip, loneliness will not disappear because of many people, nor will it happen because of one person. Peace of mind is the place to go.

If you don't have a suitable traveling companion, it's better to travel alone. I think this sentence is very reasonable.

When traveling together, you must find a like-minded travel companion, otherwise you will not be happy all the way. I have a deep understanding of this. Take my own example. In the summer of 20 16, my classmates and I drove a car in Hulunbeier. We went to Aershan first, and the road conditions were not good. After passing Aershan, we went to Manzhouli. We also drove for a night, and Hulunbeier was also repairing roads. At that time, we were driving his car, and the road conditions were really not good. After a while, it was asphalt and sand, and he felt a little distressed about the car. I'll persuade him that it's all right. Let's drive slowly. It's not a long way. Finally, I gave up many scenic spots at his request. I'm really angry. If you say you care about the car, you should have told me to drive. It's a pity that you didn't see a lot to see after coming all this way. At that time, I wanted to rent a car in Ergun and play it again by myself. My daughter-in-law was afraid that it would be too stiff and persuaded me.

Since then, when I go out to drive by car, I drive my own car and never hang out with others again. Going out to travel is just for fun. If there is friction between traveling companions, it is impossible to travel. It is really difficult to find a like-minded traveling companion. The scope of travel is too wide, and it is difficult to achieve unity of thinking in all aspects. Some people like to live comfortably outside, while others just want to save money and have different ideas. It is difficult to reach an agreement. If you really find a like-minded traveling companion, please cherish it! ! !

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I like being alone, and I like being alone. But if I travel, I'd better find one or two partners, at least one speaker. If there is no suitable candidate, I prefer to travel by myself.

Traveling with friends and traveling alone, I have tried both, and it feels good.

Last year, a friend and I had a whim to go to Tianjin to play. The next morning, the two of us set off on the high-speed train and arrived in Tianjin, enjoying the street view and taking pictures along the way.

Porcelain House, Zhangyuan Memorial Hall, Haihe River, Italian Style Street, Jingyuan where Puyi lived. We had a good time, and we decided which scenic spot we wanted to visit, so we took action when we agreed, so we had a pleasant day. We both made AA system, no matter whether we had meals, transportation or tickets, we agreed that only in this way would everyone feel at ease, and our friendship could last for a long time.

With comfortable people, no matter what you do, you are comfortable and at ease.

Sometimes I can't meet the right person, so I travel by myself, and often go to the park alone to take pictures of the scenery. If you travel long distances, you should plan ahead and how much you walk depends on your physical condition. This advantage is freedom.

Some people say that how lonely a person is! It's wrong to think like this. Now that the network is so developed, you can chat with anyone and surf the Internet. How can you be lonely? Besides, once you go out to play, there is no time to chat.

As far as I'm concerned, whether it's a companion trip or a personal trip, it's ok, provided that it's best to go out with someone who can get along well and feel comfortable together.