First of all, read it by yourself. It's best for family members to read the Classic of the Desire and Merits of the Bodhisattva Dizang together. Reading the Classic of the Desire and Merits of the Bodhisattva Dizang during the first seven to seven weeks after the death of their loved ones is of great benefit to both the dead and the living, and the living get more benefits than the dead.
2 when chanting for your loved ones, you should be pious, clean-hearted, and ask for help. Ask the Bodhisattva to help your loved ones get into the good path before they get into the good path, so that they can prove Bodhi early.
3 Be quiet before chanting! Put your hands together, kneel or stand in front of the Buddha statue to explain the intention of reading this sutra (to benefit your loved ones, to quit your job, to ask the Tibetan Bodhisattva to save your loved ones
to go to a good place, etc.), and then calm down and prepare to read it.
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To recite the scriptures, you need four things: seeing clearly, speaking clearly, hearing clearly, remembering clearly, and concentrating on chanting.
5 after reading a book, you should return to your family, saying that you will return the merits of reading classics to your relatives, and may he die in the pure land of the West! South Wudi Tibetan King Bodhisattva Mahasa!