There are several reasons why I like to bask in my friends' circle. First, I think it's delicious or beautiful to bask in and share with you. Second, I want to record my life and my mood at the moment. Third, I want to show off my life, show off that I have eaten imported cherries for tens of dollars a catty, and show off that I have enjoyed a whole golden pillow durian in Thailand alone ...
I am a foodie myself, so I like studying food very much, and I also like drying my friends circle. It is a hobby and I want to share and record it.
Another reason why I send a circle of friends is that many relatives and friends don't contact often. Sending a circle of friends to receive comments and praises from friends is also an interaction, which lets me and the other party know that everyone is fine. Although they don't contact often, they still pay attention to and care about each other.
So if you like it, you can choose to comment and praise it. If you don't like it, you can also block the circle of friends. Life is your own, and making friends belongs to personal freedom. There is no need to entangle what others have sent.
When recording becomes a habit, life will be presented in the form of magic.
Very happy psychology shows that we love life.
I also like to bask in delicious food. When you go out to eat, when you see beautiful dishes, unique styles, and fresh and delicious food, you will take photos and share them with your friends in the circle, telling everyone which restaurant to eat, for fear that the delicious food will be enjoyed by yourself.
I prefer to bask in my own cooking, and the sense of accomplishment is particularly great. A while ago, I fell in love with fried cakes, searched online for ways to do it, practiced again and again, and forgot all about losing weight, which made my family try it for two or three days. I showed my friends the oil cakes fried in the past few days and received a lot of encouragement, but some people said, forget it, stop fooling around and go out and buy them. Ha, actually, whether it's delicious or not is secondary. It's very interesting to enjoy the process of cooking food. Especially during the Spring Festival, it is even more beautiful if you shoot your own annual dinner and put it in a circle of friends to show it.
Life is made up of these little things. It's fun to bask in food in a circle of friends! Who cares if it's psychological or not? As long as you like it, your friends don't say they're bored, so they send it.
In fact, what girls like to eat in the sun is a fairy tale created by themselves, which can also be said to be dreaming.
Love and food are interlinked. The reason why girls like to eat in the circle of friends is a dominant activity. It's hard to control one's feelings, and it's often to brush the sense of existence, or perhaps to show off. Subconsciously, most of them are proud as a peacock, who needs love and appreciation from others. Because they think that the years are quiet and good, only love and food can live up to it.
Now in the circle of friends, there are three eccentrics, and those who advertise are not counted, namely: sunbathing, sunbathing, and sunbathing. Among them, eating is the craziest thing in the sun, all kinds of eating and drinking, Chinese, western, beautiful, and encountering foreign food during the trip.
Among them, girls especially like to eat in the sun, and now a subculture of eating in the sun is popular, and I don't know if it is mainstream or non-mainstream. Not only send out the food, but also put a few cartoon characters next to the food. What kind of psychology is this?
The girls who eat in the sun are very contradictory. 99% of the girls want to be slim and don't want to gain weight, but they are keen on drying all kinds of food in the circle of friends, exquisite, big meals, quiet years and so on.
A few years ago, it was popular to raise frogs in mobile phones, which was popular for a while and was deeply loved by women. Many people study that women who like to raise frogs subconsciously want to have babies, which is instinctive. Haha, Lao Wang thinks it makes sense.
In the same way, people who like to eat in the sun are actually feeding back their less explicit psychological hints to some extent. As Lao Wang said above, this may be proud as a peacock, to show off and to attract the attention of the opposite sex. Just like a frog croaking, it is also an instinctive hint.
These may not be aware of themselves. Of course, drying food is also a kind of happiness, drying a kind of self-promotion, which invisibly causes great illusion to everyone's life. Drying food may be another illusion after the inspirational article of chicken soup in friends circle.
Everyone has a good life, food and clothing, even luxuries and luxuries, and some of them are forced to bask in it. Under this illusion, everyone who can't control it will think that these women are living so well. This day, gee, let a person envy.
In fact, on the other hand, girls who eat in the circle of friends all day are basically not thinking deeply. They send food to give everyone the illusion that the years are quiet. This is a self-created fairy tale and a kind of self-immersion.
This seemingly cute feeling confuses men. When the sun-baked food satisfies the curiosity of the circle of friends, after a long time, it becomes a vulgar powder.
The same is true of my friends. The most dynamic thing in the circle of friends is all kinds of food, and other things are rarely posted. I have asked my friends this question before. Why do you send more photos of food in the circle of friends instead of other photos? My friends have given me quite a lot of answers. I have summarized them and can talk about them according to the following points.
The first point is:
A sense of accomplishment. My family usually cooks for my partner. Every day when she cooks, she is always busy and doesn't need my help. Every time she cooks a meal, it takes about 40 minutes, so when all the dishes are ready, she will feel a sense of accomplishment in her heart.
Party feeling, this is my object, except for her sense of accomplishment, which is the second most dynamic thing. Every time I organize a party with her company, I mostly go to some more classy places, and in these places, the delicious food is mostly exquisite and small.
And they, women, often just like these small and exquisite foods, so as long as I organize a party with their company, my partner can send several articles in succession, and the food is dynamic, and many people want to eat it, and not only my partner is filming herself, but also her beautiful colleagues.
The third point is:
Happiness, every time I go out to eat with my object, I often find some places with more emotional appeal to deepen our feelings. Some friends will say, is it necessary to deepen our feelings between objects? The answer I gave is yes, because even between objects, it is inevitable to stumble together for a long time.
Therefore, if you want to go with your beloved, you must learn to deepen each other's feelings. Therefore, every time I take my partner to dinner, my partner will always take some pictures of the two of us, and then send them to the circle of friends, giving people a feeling of happiness.
Of course, good food is shared together.
Can't you? I like to send friends. Is it illegal for me to send friends? It's not illegal, right? Personal love number,
There is a big difference between eating in a restaurant or cooking at home.
Through the circle of friends, you can basically see a person's family life, such as marriage, children, etc., and you can also see this person's family conditions, except for those who deliberately self-market.
If the sun is often from outside restaurants, especially high-end hotels such as star-rated hotels.
Unless you are familiar with this person and know that her family conditions can support her consumption, this kind of person may still show off more ingredients, and the more she lacks, the easier it is to show off. In addition, there is also the kind of "senior friends circle", which seems to be exquisite and advanced, but the real life is piled up with various credit cards. You only see the scenery in front of her, but you don't see the mess behind her.
If the sun is cooking at home, it should be a person who loves life, but it should be moderate.
First of all, there are fewer and fewer young people who can insist on cooking at home by themselves. If they can match properly and are willing to share, it is also a love for life. In fact, I sometimes share my own cooking in a circle of friends, but I don't eat every meal in Dou Xiu, which will also make people feel disgusted. There is also a circle of friends, after all, there are also leading colleagues. Overdrying your cooking skills can easily make people ignore your professional field.
If the circle of friends has all the work, life, eating, drinking and having fun, it is just a simple record of life, which is also good. I think no matter how to keep it true, you can share it if you can consume it, and you don't have to force it to be tall; If you are willing to cook, you can share it. You don't have to pursue professionalism. After all, this is your own life.
There is no need to explore the psychology of sharing with others too much. Everyone has many faces, and eating is the closest side to life.
Everyone has different ideas, but most people record their own lives and want to share the beauty with everyone. I like to bask in my cooking skills, and share and exchange practices with my friends, which is also a way to enjoy life.